Keeping married life so that it is always beautiful and fun is sometimes difficult among the busyness and pressures of everyday life. It takes thought and preparation so that the love relationship remains healthy and goes according to expectations, both for young brides and couples who have been married for 50 years. Luckily, there are lots of little things you can do to make your husband happy and show him that you love him more and more every day. Remember, you know him very well, there's no need to be afraid to come up with new ideas or try something you know he'll like.
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Method 1 of 16: Cook her favorite food
Step 1. Does your husband like to eat meatballs, or does he prefer cake?
Whatever his favorite food is, make it when he's busy working all day or to show your appreciation.
- People say, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
- If you're not sure what to cook, open a cookbook and try something you've never cooked. It is possible that you will find a new favorite dish.
- Little things like this show that you think about him without overdoing it.
Method 2 of 16: Wear sexy clothes
Step 1. Cotton pajamas are comfortable, but what if you wear lingerie or transparent underwear?
You can definitely make him happy with a special look.
- There are many places to buy sexy clothes on the internet, and you can also try an adult specialty store.
- Make sure your husband's mood is right before you wear sexy clothes. If he's tired or emotional, he probably won't really appreciate your efforts.
Method 3 of 16: Spice up your sex life
Step 1. Whatever the age of marriage, sex is a big part of a love relationship
If you're tired of your casual sex life, try something new. This doesn't mean you have to buy tools, just changing your habits is enough. For example, making love in the morning if it is usually done at night, moving to another room, or playing a little if it is usually very serious.
If you don't know what to try, ask your husband. You can talk about fun variations as a couple
Method 4 of 16: Massage him
Step 1. Everyone loves a massage after a hard day, and husbands are no exception
Have him sit down, take some lotion, and massage his back, shoulders, and legs.
- For a sensual massage, dim the lights and light a candle.
- Massages from licensed therapists are a bit pricey so a massage from yourself is better able to show love, without spending money.
Method 5 of 16: Serve breakfast in bed
Step 1. The weekend will be more fun with pancake breakfast while making out in bed
Tell him that he doesn't need to get up while you make breakfast and coffee. Serve it on a special room service-style tray to make her feel special too.
Choose foods without gravy. Breakfast cereals and porridge are good, but spills are possible. Since you're both eating in bed, of course you don't want that
Method 6 of 16: Buy a gift when you go out
Step 1. When you go out and see an item your husband will like, buy it
Everyone loves surprise gifts, and your husband will love it too.
No need to buy big or expensive gifts. You can already show special attention with just a cake, hat, shirt, underwear, or socks
Method 7 of 16: Be a good listener
Step 1. There are so many things that take your attention in your daily life
However, when your husband has something to say, listen attentively. Think that you too want to be heard when you speak, and do the same. You can set an example for a healthier and happier relationship.
- Turn off the TV, put down the phone, and stare at him when he talks. Ask something relevant to show that you are listening, and make a contribution to the conversation, if possible.
- For example, say, “Wow, that's cool. Continue?" or “That must be awkward, huh?”
Method 8 of 16: Say “hi” and say “see you later”
Step 1. At first glance these words don't have any special meaning, but their effect is great
Saying this makes him believe that you're happy with him, and makes him look forward to another time together.
- Arriving home from work, greet the husband enthusiastically through a long kiss.
- If you or he has to leave, give him a hug and tell him you're looking forward to seeing him again.
Method 9 of 16: Schedule a date every week
Step 1. Work, children, and other responsibilities keep us busy
However, date night can warm relationships and chat opportunities as a couple, not as parents or housekeepers.
- Try to go on a date at least once a week with dinner out or just sit back and relax.
- You and your husband can think of alternate date ideas so you don't feel burdened with other responsibilities.
Method 10 of 16: Try something new together
Step 1. Trying new things is always fun, especially with your husband
Think of some activities you've never done (or done alone or separately), then make a plan to try them.
- You can go cycling, jet skiing, fishing, wine tasting, or even snorkeling.
- You can also find new activities that the two of you can do on a regular basis.
- You can include this new activity in date night.
Method 11 of 16: Praise your husband often
Step 1. Men usually don't get a lot of compliments
So, he will tend to remember it more. If your husband looks cool today, does something nice for you, or when you're feeling lucky, give him a short compliment so he knows you're thinking about him.
A brief comment like, "You're cool today, honey" can make him feel more confident
Method 12 of 16: Take over your husband's duties if he has a tough day
Step 1. Husbands are sometimes tense when there are matters that need great attention
To make him feel better, take over his duties or responsibilities, if you can. You don't have to do it every day, just to lighten up a tough day.
- If he usually does the cooking, you can prepare the meal for this time. If he usually folds clothes, now you do it so he doesn't have to think about the task.
- Then, if you're having a tough day, you can ask him to do your homework. The point is to help each other.
Method 13 of 16: Support him when he tries new things
Step 1. Over time, you may notice that your husband is changing and growing
If you see him starting a new hobby, career, or professional field, show him that you support him.
- You can show interest in her new hobby or job by asking questions and listening carefully as she explains.
- Not having the support of your partner can make things more difficult, let alone anything new. So you have to support your husband when he spreads his wings.
- If this new activity also interests you, see if you can join in.
Method 14 of 16: Talk about the problem face-to-face
Step 1. Communication is a key factor in a relationship, but so is very important in a loving relationship
If there is a problem, sit down and talk to your husband. Talking about problems can be scary at times, which is why you need to deal with all problems as quickly as possible.
- For example, say “Honey, can we chat? I want to talk about cleaning the house."
- Then, use "I" statements, such as "If the house is dirty, I'm stressed. Can we handle that together?”
Method 15 of 16: Try to work things out together
Step 1. All couples have had disagreements, and that's healthy
However, if all the debate leads to shouting, the problem may not be effectively resolved.
- Try to solve problems with an “us versus problem” mentality, not “me versus you”.
- For example, you feel that all your homework is always done by you. Talk to your husband, saying, “I feel like I have a bigger responsibility at home. Can we divide the work evenly?”
Method 16 of 16: Don't forget to take some time for yourself
Step 1. If you want to be a good wife, you must also pay attention to your own needs
Make sure you eat healthy and regularly, maintain personal hygiene, exercise regularly, and maintain a positive attitude. If you are happy, your husband will be happy too.
Apart from that, having some alone time is also good for both of you
Tips
- You know your husband very well. So you must know what he likes the most.
- If your husband isn't happy, it doesn't mean it has anything to do with you. He may be burdened with other matters, such as work, family, and responsibilities. Don't guess, just ask him.
