So you want to be friends (or maybe date) a Libra. You're lucky, it doesn't take much to get to know them – Libras are some of the friendliest people in the world. You just have to figure out how to make Libra happy. Read this article to find out how best to treat a Libra.
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Part 1 of 2: When You and Your Libra Are Alone
Step 1. Have a desire to spend time alone
Whether you're trying to make friends or dating a Libra, you should know that Libras don't like being alone (and aren't good at dealing with them). This means that once you're close to a Libra, you're likely going to have to spend a lot of time with them. Be prepared for it and don't criticize.
If you find yourself feeling a little claustrophobic, be honest about it in a kind way. Just say something like, “I just want to be alone for a while. I like being alone to connect with myself. It has nothing to do with you-I love spending time with you!”
Step 2. Don't develop the habit of criticizing Libra
Libras are quite sensitive to criticism, especially about physical characteristics. Don't get into the habit of mocking her appearance-Libras are one of those groups who can't see humor in that form of ridicule.
If there's something you want to say about her appearance that might embarrass her, do it gently. Instead of saying “Geez, you have a piece of vegetable in your teeth. Disgusting!" say something that will grab her attention in a subtle way, like “Say, there's something stuck in that pretty smile of yours.”
Step 3. Try to avoid arguments
Libras don't like confrontation-in fact, they avoid it most of the time. If something is bothering you, tell it in a non-aggressive way. If he doesn't feel like he's entering a confrontation, he'll be more than happy to talk to you about it.
Step 4. Know that Libras can hold grudges
Despite the fact that they don't like confrontation, Libras have no qualms about holding grudges, especially if the problem is big (like when you forget your anniversary and he gets mad). To avoid creating a grudge, try to remember important dates in your relationship (meaning birthdays, anniversaries, days that are meaningful to Libra-like the anniversary of the death of a loved one, etc.).
Step 5. Shower him with beautiful things
Libra's weak point is beauty (which means you must be special if you manage to make Libra happy to be with you). Take him on adventures full of beauty such as parks, beaches, art museums, and so on. Bring her flowers, or prepare a nice meal for her.
You should also realize that because Libra loves beauty, they also love to look their best. Don't be frustrated if he takes a lot of time to get ready (or even takes a little pride in his appearance)
Step 6. Don't be prejudiced against Libra
Libras are very fair-minded, meaning they will almost never lower themselves down to devious ways to get what they want. Keep this in mind if he seems to be being dishonest-it's probably just in your head because Libra will do anything to serve justice.
Step 7. Do romantic things for her
If you're dating a Libra, you should know that all aspects of Libra's life are romance. If you want to treat a Libra right, get romantic. Plan a romantic event for you and your Libra, bringing flowers, chocolates, whatever she likes. Otherwise, just show her that you really like (or love) her-hugs, kisses, and most importantly, be nice to her (but of course this applies to the person you like.
Part 2 of 2: When You and Your Libra Are in Public
Step 1. Be a leader on the move
Libras have a tendency to be indecisive. Treat him right by deciding what the two of you will do. If the two of you are going somewhere, choose a restaurant, movie theater, or club, and so on. Of course, you should always check to make sure it's something he really wants to do, but if he's having a hard time deciding between two things, save him the trouble and make the decision for both of you.
Step 2. Have the desire to share with him
And by that we mean sharing everything-food, chairs, personal stories. Especially for this step, know that Libras love to share. This means that if you order separate meals, be prepared to give a little (or a lot) of your share-but don't worry, he'll be happy to give you the last bite of his delicious chocolate cake.
Step 3. Understand that Libras are social creatures
Libra is one of the zodiac signs that likes (if not the most) social. Therefore, he likes to move from one person to another in social gatherings. Understand that Libra isn't intentionally avoiding you-he just can't resist talking to everyone at the party. It's also important to remember that Libra tries to please everyone-even the strangers she meets at parties.
Step 4. Know that Libras tend not to like to argue
This is especially true at social events. There's a reason Libra is symbolized by the scales-she likes to keep the peace by hearing arguments or debates from both sides. This means that he may not necessarily stand up for you in the debate, as he also wants to hear the other side's arguments. Don't take it personally-instead, learn from Libra and try to open your mind.
However, this doesn't mean he doesn't support you. If you have a problem you can't seem to solve (fixing a mistake with a friend, what to do with your rebellious sister, etc.), a Libra will be there to help you through it. Libras are very good at looking at problems objectively and looking for ways to solve them in a less dramatic way
Overview of Libra
- Good Friendship: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
- Best love partner: Aquarius, Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius
- Birthdate: September 23-October 22
- Keywords: Enchanting
- Ruling planet: Venus
- Body parts: Lower back, kidneys
- Ruler's house: Seventh house
- Symbol: Scales
- Element: Air
- Quality: Cardinal
