A person born between September 23 and October 22 is a Libra. The Libra zodiac sign is depicted with a scale that symbolizes its signature characteristic: the desire for balance and harmony. If you have feelings for a Libra, you need to be patient, romantic and ready to offer the finer things in life.
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Part 1 of 3: Attracting a Libra's Attention
Step 1. Always be fair
Libras are very concerned about balance and justice. Nothing makes them more unhappy than someone who misbehaves. Before making a decision, take a moment to consider the different sides of the problem at hand. The Libra will appreciate the fact that you try to be fair and balanced in your judgment.
If the Libra sees you being unfair--perhaps you're selfishly trying to get more of your share than you really deserve, or he sees you getting rid of someone without giving him a chance to prove himself--he'll quickly lose interest in choosing you. as a potential partner
Step 2. Compliment the Libra with genuine compliments
Libras love to be loved and appreciated. Think about the things that make you like your Libra--from his friendly smile, to his fantastic style of dress, to his great taste in music--and let him know that you appreciate those things about him.
- Libra's love of beauty includes taking care of her own good looks, so make sure you compliment her new haircut, beautiful eyes, or strong hands.
- Don't compliment a Libra once and then never bring it back up. Emphasizing how much you value your Libra will make him feel safe and reassure him that your compliments are genuine.
Step 3. Ask a lot of questions about himself
Libras love to express themselves. Your interest in his life and interests will catch his attention. Oftentimes Libras want to know everyone's point of view and he'll appreciate your wanting to know about his own.
- Ask about his interests and hobbies, his favorite musicians, artists, and directors.
- Ask her opinion about recent events--she'll want to explore every side of the issue, so make sure you let her know that you care about what she thinks too.
Step 4. Accept the social side of being a Libra
Libras are very sociable people--they are admired by many and often very popular. Get ready to accompany him to parties and events and be prepared to see his social agenda fill up quickly. If you can't keep up with his busy social agenda, that's okay--just don't get mad at him.
Don't panic if the Libra you like turns out to be a little flirty with other people. Libras want to treat everyone fairly, so you may feel like the only one he cares about until you realize that he pays the same amount of attention to others. It's part of his personality, so if you can't feel at ease about your relationship even though you already know about this trait, you may need to start a relationship with someone else
Step 5. Take your Libra to a museum, opera house, art exhibition, or something that appeals to her love of art and beauty
Libras are artistic people and appreciate the beautiful things in life. Dating events that value creativity and beauty, such as watching foreign films, going to concerts or strolling among garden sculptures, will touch the artistic side of him.
A Libra's love of beauty touches every aspect of her life, so try to always look attractive, tidy and keep the house clean when you know she's coming to visit
Part 2 of 3: Dating a Libra
Step 1. Don't push a Libra when she's making a big decision
Because they care deeply about fairness and see things from all angles, a Libra won't rush into making decisions--even decisions about you! It may take a little while for him to fully commit or decide that you are the only person he wants to be with. But the best thing you can do is let him figure it out on his own without any pressure from you. When he decides that you're the right person, you know it wasn't a rash or impulsive decision, and he's firmly believed in it for a long time.
- Don't make fun of the Libra for her unpredictability. He needs patience and understanding from you while making up his mind.
- If you urge a Libra to make a decision, she'll feel it was a bad decision and blame you for pushing her.
- When it comes to small decisions, like where to have dinner, it's okay to take the reins when he's having a hard time making decisions. He may be relieved that you solved the problem for him.
Step 2. Make sure your relationship is full of romance
Libras are very romantic people and love all the classics in romance--flowers, chocolate candies, candlelight dinners. The bigger things you offer, the better
- Put notes containing messages of love in his coat pocket or book to surprise him later.
- Surprise her with a bedroom decorated with candles, rose petals and expensive champagne.
Step 3. Libras love luxury
Try to book a room in a luxury hotel, take him to a classy restaurant, travel to exotic places for a picnic together under the stars. Make sure the gifts and experiences you give are elegant, perfect and not tacky, obnoxious or mundane.
- Pamper your Libra with spa treatments and breakfast in bed--part of enjoying luxury is letting her feel pampered without you having to do it yourself.
- Opt for a rose bouquet over a carnation or wildflower bouquet.
- Buy a Rolex for his birthday and make reservations at high-end restaurants to fulfill the Libra's desire for luxury.
Step 4. Encourage your Libra lover to be honest, even if he feels that it will hurt your feelings
Honest communication can be difficult for Libras. While trying to keep things in sync, he can bury or ignore feelings that are messed up, like when he's angry with you or doubts your relationship. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying something that might be unpleasant. But in the long run, staying silent can be a far more dangerous thing.
- Tell the Libra that you value his opinion and emphasize that fairest all he can do is be honest with you, even though he feels that honesty will hurt.
- Libra people may seem unconcerned about emotional situations. As a symbol of the wind, they tend to look at things from above and try to escape chaotic engagements. This doesn't make him unfeeling, it's just that he tries to be impartial and fair by staying away from the problem.
Part 3 of 3: Finding Out Which Zodiac Matches Libra Best and Disagreements
Step 1. Get ready for a passionate and long-lasting relationship if you're a Gemini dating a Libra
You both love traveling, spending money, socializing, and adventure. You and your Libra partner are so in sync that it really makes other people jealous. While both of you can be very flirtatious, the romance and spontaneity in your relationship will keep you attracted to each other. Share ideas, debate and be careful not to tire each other out!
- Remember that both Gemini and Libra can be indecisive. If your Libra partner isn't progressing in decision-making, you have to take charge and keep things from stagnation.
- Pay attention to your finances both. Since you both love luxury and like to spend money on expensive things, you may be at risk of getting into debt. Pamper each other, but remember that you are responsible for your money.
Step 2. Get the best of friends and lovers if you're an Aquarius dating a Libra
You and your Libra lover will never run out of things to discuss and you are both very sociable and love fun things. Choose a date activity that will spark conversation and allow you and your Libra to really dig into the issues being discussed--try thought-provoking movies, self-taught artistry, or read the same book and have an in-depth discussion with him or her..
Try to keep your naughty temper under control--you may not really care what other people think, but this is very important for Libras. Don't tease him for caring so much about things like his manners or his desire to be liked by everyone
Step 3. Prepare yourself for a turbulent relationship if you are a Cancer dating a Libra
Even though you're both looking for a relationship, Libras are looking for a mental fit and can seem uncaring for someone who's primarily looking for an emotional connection. Cancers' moods can be fickle, while Libras are obsessed with harmony and don't want much turmoil. You have to work hard to understand each other's point of view to make this difficult relationship work.
- Being very sociable and flirting is part of being a Libra--try not to get angry or see it as a form of disloyalty if your Libra lover wants to go out and spend time with his friends. Libra is actually a very loyal person.
- Tell your Libra lover what you want--he's less likely to have his own intuition about this.
Step 4. Let the Libra's cheerfulness bring you relief if you're a Capricorn trying to date a Libra
Capricorns are very serious and career-minded people, while Libras are very sociable and think more about relationships than their careers. A Libra needs to be flattered and likes to be constantly acknowledged, while a Capricorn is often stingy with compliments. If you want this relationship to work, you have to open yourself up to be more social and save some of your energy and attention for your partner instead of just focusing on work.
- Try to let the Libra's sociability and sociability help you in your career. He would make the perfect match for office occasions--bosses, colleagues, clients and everyone else will love your charismatic Libra partner.
- The traditional roles of breadwinner and housekeeper may work for both of you, but they can also make things stagnant and boring. Make sure you separate work from vacation and don't spend every weekend away from your Libra.
