Do you want to look adorable in front of your idol so that he will take steps to approach you? Do you want to remind your boyfriend of the first thing that attracted him to you? Or, do you want to show your ex that you are better than him? This article contains a powerful guide to getting a guy interested and wanting you more.
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Method 1 of 2: Improving Appearance
Step 1. Impress others with your clothes
Try to dress feminine and stunning. Men tend to be attracted to women with an hourglass body shape (slender at the hips). This means, you need to accentuate the charm of your hips by wearing a belt or shirt that fits your body shape so that their attention is focused on your hips. Also wear light clothing, such as lace, as well as clothing with a feminine cut (eg a shirt or dress with a heart-shaped top or a sweet-heart neckline). Several studies have shown that men are also attracted to teenage girls who wear red.
Step 2. Let your hair down or tie your hair in a simple style
This means you don't have to style it into complex curls or braids. Instead, try to style your hair in a casual, random style, or let your wavy hair flow freely.
Treat your hair with conditioners and heat protection sprays if you curl or straighten your hair often
Step 3. Use makeup that makes you look naturally beautiful
The makeup used can draw attention to certain parts of the face.
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Lip:
Full and plump lips are attractive to men. Try using a pink (or dark pink) lipstick to color your pretty lips.
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Eye:
Big and clear eyes will attract men. Try to beautify your eyes without making the men glued to the eye makeup used. Instead of trying a smokey eye style, try using a white eye shadow on the corners of the eyes and under the eyebrows, then apply liquid shadow (just a light) on the upper eyebrow line and use mascara to increase the volume of the eyebrows.
Step 4. Spread a mesmerizing body fragrance
This can make a lasting impression, and it does. Spray enough perfume so he can smell it when he leans towards you. However, don't overspray. If you use too much perfume, use rubbing alcohol so the perfume doesn't smell too strong.
Step 5. Take care of other factors that support your beauty
This means, you need to make an effort to give your best appearance.
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Tooth:
Get white and brilliant teeth by brushing your teeth with whitening toothpaste. Every five months, try using a bleaching strip to make your teeth appear whiter. Always use mouthwash after brushing your teeth to prevent bad breath.
During this time, there is a myth that chewing gum can freshen breath. In fact, things like that encourage the salivary glands to produce excessive saliva so that your breath smells even worse. Instead of chewing gum, try sucking on mints (or use a mint-based breath freshener)
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Skin:
Get bright and glowing skin by washing your face every night and removing dead skin cells once a week. This way, your skin will look fresh and new. If you want to beautify your skin with a touch of exotic color, combine the use of bronzer with your daily makeup routine instead of the tanning process. Actually, tanning can actually thwart your efforts to look adorable in front of your ex, idol, or lover.
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Body:
Get soft and smooth feet by shaving with a men's razor instead of a women's razor. Use a body scrub product that can prevent the growth of hair / hair on the feet (or that serves to shed dead skin cells). If you can show the beauty of your legs, your ex, lover, or idol will definitely see you as an adorable figure.
Method 2 of 2: Improving Attitude
Step 1. Every now and then throw a flirt at him
Be approachable by others, show your cheerful side and show an openness to chatting with other people. If you want to look adorable, don't be over-the-top or ignore it. While this may seem like a cute thing to you, guys are actually more attracted to girls who are cheerful, outgoing, and don't take things too seriously. Therefore, instead of pretending not to notice his presence, approach him and give him a compliment. He will be impressed by your courage to take the first step, and will be interested in continuing to interact or chat with you.
Step 2. Be confident
Even if you want to be approachable, you shouldn't seem desperate. Enjoy the atmosphere and the fun because eventually, he will notice you (and approach you). Men are attracted to young women who can make or find their own pleasure, and enjoy life. By showing that you can make your own happiness (and enjoy it), he will also be interested in enjoying the happiness you feel.
Step 3. Show a genuine smile
A smile is your best characteristic. Keep in mind that your smile can be a big draw, especially if you've followed the previous steps. Therefore, smile sincerely. Men are attracted to girls who are fun and cheerful.
Step 4. Use appropriate body language
Look at him when you listen to what he has to say or talk to him. Eye contact can make him think you are interested in what he has to say. Touch his arm with your hand (in a "neutral" or non-sexual way) to show your interest in him. Also, make sure you can imitate his body language. This subconsciously shows that you and your idol are on the same "frequency".
Step 5. Always bring up positive small talk topics
Men will feel bored when listening to women who can't stop complaining. Therefore, keep bringing up positive stories and light topics so that he can remember you through the interesting conversations he has with you.
Tips
- If you like wearing jeans, make sure you've zipped up your pants.
- Don't be too shy when you're with him. Even so, a little shyness might be cute for him.
- Try to be cute and stand out from the crowd, but don't overdo it so you don't get a bad reputation.
- Try to talk to him more often. You can also chat with his friends. Things like this will grab his attention and make him aware of your presence.
- Show a friendly attitude and throw in a bit of flirting.
- If you don't have cute clothes (as explained earlier), and don't have enough money to buy new clothes, try visiting clothing stores (especially discount stores) in shopping centers. You can also wear the best clothes you have. In addition, thrift stores may sell interesting clothes for a very cheap price (or even free).
- Use shampoo products that suit your hair type, and update your hairdo according to the latest styles.
- Read trend magazines if you don't know the latest fashion trends.
- Don't come up to her when she's chatting or interacting with other women. Wait for him to finish chatting with her.
- Remember that you don't have to laugh when he says something that isn't funny. Even if things get awkward, think about whether you really want to be in a relationship or appear cute to someone who thinks they're funny when they're not.
- Get up early to prepare for school. This way, you can style your hair and make sure your clothes are ready to wear the next morning.
- Don't get jealous when he talks to other women. Instead of sinking into jealousy, try chatting with other male friends. In the end, he will still be attracted to you.
Warning
- Before kissing him, chew gum or suck on gum min. Remember to throw it away before you kiss it.
- If you want to get the attention of your crush, or are going on a first date with him, don't be "easy". It will not make you look cute and in the end, you will give the other person the wrong impression so you can get hurt.
