True love is someone who loves you unconditionally, cares, helps you in good times and bad, treats you like his own family, regardless of your physical appearance, status or wealth, and is always by your side. Read on to find out if your partner's love is real.
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Step 1. Talk to your lover
If you have doubts about your relationship, have him have a mature conversation to make sure you two are on the same frequency.
Step 2. Identify if your lover is bound to certain restrictions or conditions
True love is unconditional and can be seen from the attitude of trust in the relationship.
Step 3. Consider the effect of money
Sometimes money can make people look like they love you when they really don't. Make sure your lover loves you and can make you feel special even if you fall into poverty.
Step 4. Reflect on how often you talk to your loved one
What happens if you don't talk to him? Does he get angry or frustrated, or does he not react?
Note that you don't have to talk every day--you can have a healthy relationship without having to talk every day
Step 5. Think about your physical relationship
Physical contact is important but not mandatory.
- If your boyfriend wants to be more intimate with you, he may be more influenced by lust than love.
- If you refuse to get closer physically and it doesn't change your lover's behavior, it may be a sign of true love.
Step 6. Think about family influences
If your boyfriend is ready to introduce you to his family, maybe he really is serious about you. And if he gets angry when you ask him to tell his family about you, it's probably a red flag.
Remember that everyone has a different relationship with his family and he may have good reasons when he hesitates to introduce you to his family
Step 7. The importance of mutual respect in relationships
Mutual respect is a sign of true love and a healthy relationship.
