Increasing success in life starts with choosing the right friends, partners and partners. Your physical appearance and personality play an important role in how well-liked you are to new people. Take a look at the best ways to optimize your desires before your next trip or job interview.
Step
Method 1 of 2: Desired Personality
Step 1. Relax
A cheerful attitude is well-liked, because so many people are depressed and worried. They want a positive, worry-free relationship.
Try to joke around to break the silence that makes you uncomfortable. Laugh without covering your mouth to show that you are someone who understands when it's time to have fun
Step 2. Be confident
Meet other people or start a conversation with them. Don't feel insecure when you meet new people.
- Say "You caught my eye and I hope we can have a chance to talk."
- If you've tried but the person doesn't seem interested, walk away confidently. Give the impression that the person has missed the opportunity to know about you.
Step 3. Strengthen emotional abilities
Understand physical and emotional cues, such as body language. Someone who is socially intelligent and is a sensitive person is usually a preferred partner, because these people will pay attention to the feelings of others.
Step 4. Have a passion for something
Employers, family members, friends and colleagues will appreciate someone who has a purpose in life. Be it in terms of work, charity, hobbies or culture, passion will set you apart from the rest.
Step 5. Be yourself
Instead of trying to mold characteristics that you think people will like, try not to change your actions according to those around you.
Step 6. Independent
People who are not independent and too dependent will make people uncomfortable. A man who can cook or a woman who has a brilliant career is well-liked for their independence.
Method 2 of 2: Physically Attractive
Step 1. Pay attention to your appearance
Don't leave the house with wet hair, sweaty pants or ill-fitting socks. In general, ironing your clothes, shaving, and combing your hair can make other people like you more.
Scientific research in 1997 found that “self-care” had a significant effect on attraction compared to height, body shape or other irreversible factors
Step 2. Style
Buy clothes that fit your body. You don't have to buy “sexy” clothes, but both men and women respond to people who are self-conscious and well-dressed.
- Make sure that you wear clothes that are appropriate for your age and reflect your character.
- If you need help with this, ask someone whose style you like to shop for clothes. Ask someone of the opposite sex what suits you best when you shop.
Step 3. Exercise
Someone who does sports shows a disciplined attitude and commitment to health.
- If you are a woman and want to do sports to increase people's liking for you, measure your waist and thigh circumferences. See the difference between the before and after sizes. Aim for decimals below 0.8, which is the sign of the hourglass shape.
- If you are a man and want to do sports activities to maximize people's liking for you, Aim to have a larger waist to shoulder circumference. Many women and men who have a triangular torso shape are preferred over those who have a flabby body shape in the middle.
Step 4. Value your health
Love for a partner is rooted in the desire to find a healthy partner. Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of activity and avoid smoking or drinking alcohol.
Step 5. Pay attention to your lips
Use lip balm, or if you are a woman, use red lipstick. In social situations, red lips are considered attractive and sensual.
Step 6. Look luxurious
An expensive watch or a good suit can attract the attention of someone who is looking for a good match. While this won't create a lasting relationship, it will lead to more choice of partners.
Step 7. Have good posture
Standing straight with your chest outstretched can describe your self-confidence, a healthy body and a tall body. Consult a physical therapist if you find it difficult to change your own posture.
