In the world of love, a girl may act like a big deal to test your level of commitment and tempt you to work harder in pursuit of her. He may be too busy to go on a date or take a long time to return your calls. But how do you know if a girl is selling a fortune or if she just isn't interested in you.
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Part 1 of 2: Knowing If He's Playing Big Sale
Step 1. Ask her out and see if she rejects you outright
This technique helps you to catch up with the small hopes he gives you. He might say that he can't, but he can some other day. He may say "no" but tell him about an interesting place he wants to go. Or he may not promise to date, asking you to wait according to the situation and conditions.
- For a clear and obvious refusal, a "no" means he's not interested in you. He won't offer you another chance or won't contact you again.
- Know when to give him space and when to stop. If you ask him out too often, you will become less attractive to him and look pathetic.
Step 2. Call him and see how long it will take him to respond
If he's always taking a long time to answer your phone or text, even if it's just to say "hi," he's probably on a high note. And when he finally responds, he's probably making excuses about how busy he is. He would say he was at a party or hanging out with someone. She shows you that she is a busy girl and is not totally dependent on spending time with you.
- His delayed response will be continuous and almost strategic. If he doesn't respond to you for days or makes some weird excuse, maybe he just isn't interested enough in you to intend to reply in a timely manner.
- Some girls just aren't used to responding immediately to text messages or incoming calls. Don't overanalyze this or get annoyed with him. If he shows signs of being interested in you, be patient and understand that many people are often busy or forgetful.
Step 3. Notice if he shows your competitors
A girl who plays for sale will want to look hard to come by. It's his way of showing you that he has a lot of options and he can be snatched up by someone else at any time.
- He might bring some of his handsome friends to the party to make you jealous.
- He will tease you with stories about people who have tried to seduce him, but failed. Maybe he would look like he was making fun of them, but really she just wanted to show how attractive he was.
- If he's talking about the people he's dating you, he probably isn't interested and just sees you as a friend. Do not think of this as a failure but as the beginning of the growth of a friendship. However, not everyone can stay just friends with someone they are interested in, so know when it's time to forget about it and find someone else.
Part 2 of 2: Finding Out If He's Interested In You
Step 1. Look for physical signs of seduction
Even if a girl plays for sale, there's still a chance that she's attracted to you. And if he's really interested in you, he'll send subtle signs that he's interested in you. It can be difficult to tell if a girl is flirting with you, so watch her body language closely for the following common signs of flirting:
- He keeps touching you. He may touch your shoulder or arm when talking to you. Maybe he'll move closer and lean against yours. There will be many reasons and causes that make the two of you always touch.
- He smiles at you very often. He may meet your eyes from across the room and give you a sweet smile on his own.
- He draws your attention to his body. She may be biting her lip, smoothing her hair or crossing and straightening her legs. He may do these things unconsciously or involuntarily, but these subtle movements will draw your attention to certain body parts.
- He gives you a special hug. If he's not someone who likes cuddling, it's easy to tell when he's giving you a hug that's just for you. This hug is a reason to be closer to you and is an expression of affection. Even if you're not sure if the hug is special, rejoice that you received such a sweet gesture from him.
Step 2. Listen carefully to the way he talks to you
An interested girl will try to give you subtle suggestions through her words. So it is important that you learn to read these signs. A simple "hello" can be teasing if you try to listen carefully enough to the way he talks.
- He laughs at your dry jokes. You can tell the same joke to your friends and get a modest response, but when he or she listens the joke gets really funny. He wants you to feel like the star of the show. But don't be misunderstood by an awkward laugh.
- He often compliments you. According to him, you are very funny, kind and your hair is beautiful. However, some girls may do the opposite and make fun of you. This is an old-fashioned seduction technique that almost everyone has used. This technique lowers the target's self-confidence and oddly makes the bully look much more attractive.. But don't get this wrong with a girl who is completely uninterested in you. Some light teasing may be harmless, but if he continues to throw hurtful taunts, then he probably doesn't like you.
Step 3. Pay attention to the way he acts around you versus the way he acts around other people
He may change drastically around you. Whether she gets nervous, very distant or flirtatious; changes in his behavior often indicate that he has different feelings about you.
- You can usually tell what his normal behavior looks like when he's with his friends. If you can, watch his behavior when he doesn't know you're in the same room. Notice if he changes when he notices you. He may be tense, silent, serious or overjoyed when he sees you.
- Watch how his friends react to those around you. Chances are you are the subject of their conversation and they are judging you.
- Don't assume a change in attitude means he's interested in you. He may be playing high-priced or just completely disinterested.
Step 4. Make an effort to overcharge too
If you are still not sure, do your turn in this game. This move will be more successful if you know he's playing a big game or is genuinely interested in you.
- Seduce him as necessary. Keep him wondering if you're really interested in him. This appeals to both of you and keeps things fresh and entertaining.
- Stay mysterious. Give hints about yourself to keep him curious about who you are. You will make him more curious and look more attractive.
- Some girls-even those who hit the high-end first-may not like this approach. After all, the point of playing high-priced is to force the person you're interested in to go the extra mile in chasing you-not the other way around.
Step 5. Back off and give him some space
In the end, you have to let him figure out his own way of telling you whether he likes you or not. The worst thing you can do is to become obsessed with wanting to be with him. This could trigger an incident of harassment on your part.
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No means no.
If he rejects you first or tells you to stop contacting him, respect his wishes and stop.
- Don't keep asking her out or demanding her attention all the time.
- Don't follow him or his friends to gather information.
Tips
- Know when when a girl is playing too much. If he makes things feel too difficult, it's best if you step back and reevaluate your goals with him. Your time is as valuable as the girl you keep trying to seduce.
- Be yourself. It's not good for a girl to fall for your fake self. This will not result in a good long term relationship and the effort to maintain an image can be exhausting.
- Once the two of you are in a relationship based on mutual liking, then it's better for both of you to stop selling things off. This is the time to show him who you really are and learn about him. Give him the love and respect he deserves.
- If you're having a hard time figuring out if he likes you, the best and most definitely effective way is to tell him that you like him. This step may be daunting, but it frees you from all the hassle of figuring it out and sort of helps you move forward.
Warning
- There are exceptions to the signs described above. Not all girls will do the same. Treat each girl as a unique individual.
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Every relationship must be built on the basis of agreement. Both of you should seek approval from each other before moving forward on some things together. It is very important to get consent before engaging in sexual activity. Consent must be a verbal, enthusiastic and voluntary "Yes" statement.
