Getting a woman to like you can be challenging for many men. Instead of just giving up, do the following tips to win her over. First of all, try to grab his attention by maintaining a good appearance and showing a good personality so that it is easier for you to get to know him. If the two of you already know each other, be a good friend so he'll want to build a friendship so that you both get to know each other better. The next step, take an approach and then express your feelings to him honestly so that the friendship continues to become a love affair!
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Method 1 of 3: Seizing Your Dream Woman
Step 1. Keep your body clean
A clean and tidy appearance makes you seem like a friend, so the chances of being liked by the woman of your dreams are even greater. So, make it a habit to shower 2 times a day. Use soap and deodorant to keep your scent fresh. Wash your hair with shampoo and use conditioner regularly. Brush your teeth twice a day and then use mouthwash to prevent bad breath. Get used to taking care of yourself so that you always look good.
- Clean your face 1-2 times a day to prevent acne or blackheads.
- One way to maintain body hygiene is to wear clean, fragrant clothes so that you always look presentable and attractive.
- Do not use too much perfume or cologne because other people may not like the smell.
Step 2. Find out what hobby activities you are really interested in
Take time to develop skills that match your interests so that the woman of your dreams wants to be friends with you. Decide on a hobby activity that you enjoy, such as playing sports, playing board games, or painting to fill your spare time while having fun. Do new things to make him more interested and want to know more about you.
- If you're still in school, join the team he's on so you can meet him and enjoy hobbies with friends.
- Don't force yourself into an activity you don't have an interest in just because he likes it. Choose a hobby activity according to your heart.
Step 3. Show Be-Confident|confident when interacting with the woman of your dreams to make her more attractive
Don't compare yourself to others as this will make you feel less confident. Find out your talents and strengths to be able to appreciate yourself. To build self-confidence, do activities that feel uncomfortable, such as greeting people you don't know or completing tasks that are still pending. If your confidence increases, the woman of your dreams will see it and want to chat with you.
To make you seem more confident, get in the habit of standing or sitting with your body straight and making eye contact when interacting with other people
Tip:
learn to face failure because this is a natural thing. Work on overcoming failure so that you remain confident in the face of things in everyday life.
Step 4. Be polite and show respect to the other person so that he knows your character
Respect others and don't be rude to anyone so you don't sound mean. Listen carefully when the other person is talking and respond wholeheartedly so that the other person realizes that you really care about him or her. Use the words "please" and "thank you" when you ask for help to let him know that you are polite and respectful of others.
Even if you're not with the woman of your dreams, be polite and kind to others so you don't sound like a hypocrite
Step 5. Smile when you see it to make it seem like you're gregarious
When the two of you meet and stare at each other, give him a friendly smile so he knows you as a friendly person. Interaction feels more comfortable when you smile because you seem gregarious and kind. If he smiles too, maybe he likes you or wants to get to know you better.
- Don't stare at him for too long as this will make him feel uncomfortable.
- If he doesn't smile, there's a good chance he doesn't like you.
Step 6. Introduce yourself when the situation allows
If you both smile at each other and you feel ready, meet the woman of your dreams and say "hi." Say your name then ask for his name and how he is doing. As a conversation material, discuss topics of mutual interest or activities that both of you are involved in. When chatting, make sure you make eye contact and smile to appear friendly and gregarious. If he wants to get to know you better, he will continue to chat or give you his cell phone number.
- For example, say to him, "Hi, I'm Joni. How are you?"
- If you're nervous about greeting her at school, wait until class is over and then invite her to meet you in the hall or ask her if she's willing to join a study group if you're both in the same class.
- If he seems evasive, tell him, "I'm sorry for interrupting" and then leave him alone. Do not continue to talk to him or follow him because he will feel annoyed.
Method 2 of 3: Make Friendship With Him
Step 1. Discuss things of interest
When you start a conversation, ask him what he's interested in so you two get to know each other better. Find out what interests you have in common and then bring them up so that both of you are actively involved in the conversation. Don't interrupt when he's talking to show you have manners and listen to what he's saying.
- You can discuss work, favorite movies and songs, or hobby activities.
- If you are both in the same class, discuss the subject matter you just explained, a school activity, or a team activity you both participated in.
- Don't talk too much about yourself or brag as this will make you seem selfish and don't care about him.
Step 2. Ask him to tell you about his daily life so you can get to know him better
Ask him what he enjoys or activities he enjoys. Listen to what he has to say while looking at him to let him know that you really want to hear his story. If the conversation feels good, ask about things that are more personal, such as his goals and plans to make them come true.
- If he asks, answer honestly so he knows you too.
- Don't ask about his personal life if he seems uncomfortable during a conversation.
Step 3. Show a sense of humor by telling jokes and making jokes with them
Be humorous when chatting so that the atmosphere is more intimate and fun. Tell him a funny experience you've had or leave a witty comment in response to what he's saying. If you can make him laugh, maybe he likes you or is happy that the two of you are friends.
- For example, if he likes taking care of cats and asks about your experiences with pets, tell a funny story about a time you took care of a hamster to make the two of you feel connected.
- Don't just tell jokes or keep on joking because you don't seem capable of being serious.
Tip:
watch his eyes as he laughs to find out where he's looking. If he looks at you laughing, there's a good chance he likes you.
Step 4. Be prepared to be a good listener if he needs someone to talk to
If you talk to him often, you can feel what he's feeling. Ask how he's doing and tell him that you're here to help and to be a good listener if he wants to talk. Give advice only when asked. Show sincerity by paying attention to make him feel calm. When you accompany while listening and chatting with him, he may realize that you feel happy when you spend time with him so that he likes you too.
- For example, you could say, "You seem to have a lot on your mind. What's going on?"
- If he doesn't want to talk or seems evasive, tell him you're ready to listen if he ever wants to talk and respect his wish that you don't intrude on his privacy.
Step 5. Send him a message to keep the two of you connected even if you are far apart
Start the message by asking about his daily routine or his activities over the weekend to start a conversation. Ask questions and make them joke as if they were face to face. Pay attention to how long his messages are and how often he texts because long, continuous messages can be a sign that he's starting to like you.
- Send a message to say good morning and good night to let him know that you always remember him.
- Don't send a barrage of texts without a response because you're looking like you're going after them.
- If he never replies to your messages, chances are he doesn't like chatting with you.
Step 6. Tell me something you're keeping secret to show that you believe it
He's willing to open up and share his personal experiences if he feels comfortable talking to you. Listen carefully to what he has to say and don't tell anyone so you don't lose faith. If he shares a secret with you, do the same to make him feel trusted too. Sharing personal secrets can strengthen your relationship and make the woman of your dreams like you more.
For example, tell of an embarrassing incident that happened to you if he told the same thing
Step 7. Set aside time to interact with him with his friends
If the two of you are closer, look for opportunities to do activities with him and some of his friends. Show respect and be polite when you meet them. Just be honest so they can get to know you. Your ideal girl may like you more if you are nice to her friends and they like you too.
- Join him in activities with friends, such as bowling, eating at a restaurant, or going to a concert.
- Only do this step if you are invited. Don't hang out with his friends if he doesn't like you as this will make him feel uncomfortable.
Method 3 of 3: Expressing Feelings
Step 1. Take an approach to find out the response
If the two of you are good friends and the relationship is getting closer, start making approaches to ascertain his heart. While chatting, lean towards him while looking into his eyes and smiling. Invite him to joke or laugh to establish closeness. It could be that he imitates your movements and approaches you to show that he likes you.
- Don't flirt when you approach, as this will make you sound like you don't have any manners.
- If he doesn't respond or seems unconcerned, there's a good chance he doesn't want to like you.
- Approach them by texting them via cell phone if you don't meet them in person. If you use this method, do it when you both see each other so he doesn't doubt your seriousness.
Step 2. Show interest by complimenting the woman of your dreams
Pay attention by complimenting her appearance and personality. Mention the things you admire about him, such as his personality or his habit of grooming himself to make him more likely to see you. Give him sincere compliments so he doesn't feel cheated.
- For example, tell him, "Your hair is beautiful" or "Your clothes are cool. That suits you!"
- If you want to compliment his personality, say to him, "You're so funny! Nice to be your friend" or "You have great tenacity! I really appreciate it."
Step 3. Give a friendly touch if the two of you are close friends
First of all, lean towards him when you talk to him or sit next to him. Observe his reaction when you tap his arm or shoulder. If he doesn't respond as expected, don't touch him in a presumptuous manner or be rude. He may also touch you if he likes you and wants to be in a relationship.
To make sure he doesn't mind if you touch him, ask him directly so he knows you respect him
Warning:
Never touch a woman if she refuses. Respect privacy and personal boundaries.
Step 4. Tell him how you feel so he knows you like him
After some time being close friends and you know what's in his heart, be honest about your feelings. Explain as is everything you feel and want. After that, ask for his response to confirm his feelings for you. Listen carefully to what he has to say and respect his decision.
- For example, say to him, "It's great that we can be friends and get to know each other. You're funny, smart, and don't give up. Can I be honest? I like you more and more every day."
- Don't ask for a response right away. Continue friendship to establish closeness so that both of you become closer.
- If he doesn't like you, accept his decision and then ask if he's willing to stay friends. Rejection often occurs in everyday life. Learning to accept rejection makes you more confident.
Step 5. Ask her out if you both like each other
If he likes you too, ask him out so he can have a longer chat, such as while taking a leisurely walk in the park, having dinner at a restaurant, or watching your favorite TV show. When dating, take the time to get to know his personality. Show your seriousness by paying attention and compliments.
Don't be disappointed if he refuses a date. Tell him you accept and respect his decision. Don't keep chasing him if he doesn't like you
Tips
Show respect for the woman you like so that she doesn't feel harassed when interacting with you
Warning
- Never touch a woman if she refuses. Respect his wishes and don't be rude to him.
- Don't approach a woman who already has a boyfriend.
- If your ideal woman doesn't like you, respect her decision and be polite to her. Don't be angry or pushy if he doesn't want to see you.
