Eyes can be used as a tool to seduce. There are several ways to use your eyes to show interest and attract someone. First, establish eye contact, and from there, initiate flirtation through gazes.
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Method 1 of 3: Making Eye Contact
Step 1. Take the initiative to establish eye contact
If you want to seduce, don't be shy. Take the initiative to make eye contact. It shows confidence, which many people find very attractive.
- We tend to be attracted to people who are also attracted to us. If you deliberately look into the eyes of someone in the same room, it will make him curious. So try to make eye contact first, not wait to be noticed.
- Look for signs that he may also be interested in you. Use this as an opportunity to make eye contact. The cues are sometimes very subtle, like glancing at you. Women sometimes play with their hair to convey interest.
Step 2. Start with a few quick glances
If you're shy, start with a quick glance. A glance twice is sure to convey interest. Try glancing at someone, then looking the other way, and glancing again. This shows that you are attracted to someone and want their attention.
Step 3. Watch him out of the corner of your eye
Apart from making direct eye contact, you can also look at someone from the corner of your eye. If you haven't had a chance to chat yet, try watching him out of the corner of your eye for a few minutes.
- Try paying attention 5 or 10 minutes. Just relax and don't worry if what you're doing is too obvious. See if he looks at you too.
- You can also look at someone from the side when you laugh at a friend's joke. Laughter is contagious and attractive to someone you want to seduce.
Step 4. Smile
A warm smile is not only conveyed through the mouth, but also through the eyes. If he catches your eye, smile. A genuine smile shows that you are friendly and don't mind being approached. Hold her gaze for a moment and then smile.
Step 5. Match eye contact with confident body language
Use body language to convey confidence in addition to eye gaze. The combination of gazes with confident body language will add to the appeal. Make sure your body is relaxed and comfortable. Don't strain your muscles. Stand straight with your shoulders pulled back.
Method 2 of 3: Encouraging Someone to Approach Using Eyes
Step 1. Give him a seductive look when he smiles back at you
If you smile at him, wait for him to reply. When she smiles, throws a seductive look. Use your eyes to show sexual interest.
- Curl your lips wider, looking him up and down. This shows that you are paying attention to her body and measuring her attractiveness.
- To show that you like what you see, look him in the eye and smile one more time.
Step 2. Continue what you were doing before, but occasionally glance back at him
After sending the "cue", continue the chat with your friend. Keep smiling, laughing and chatting. However, once in a while look at the person again. A quick glance is an invitation for him to approach you.
Step 3. Make sure you're interested by looking him in the eye after the chat
Even if you've managed to get him to come over and talk to you, it's still important to make eye contact. During the conversation, keep eye contact, glance at him out of the corner of your eye, and look him up and down. Continue seduction with eye contact. This will convey sexual attraction.
Method 3 of 3: Maintaining Eye Contact While Chatting
Step 1. Don't overdo it
While eye contact is important in attracting a person, excessive enthusiasm can actually make him lose interest. Try not to overdo it when making eye contact.
- Once the conversation has started, stare at him as he talks occasionally. However, don't take your eyes off your phone or other people either. Look to the left or right briefly so that your eye contact is not too intense.
- You should try to look into someone's face about three-quarters of the time you talk to them. Stare at him for between one and seven seconds. This shows genuine interest that is attractive, but not so much that he feels uncomfortable.
Step 2. Use eyebrows
The movement of raising the eyebrows is sometimes also interpreted as seduction. Raised eyebrows indicate interest and recognition. So, try to raise an eyebrow when the chat starts. This can increase the success of seduction.
Step 3. Don't glance
The way you view someone affects the success of a seduction. Maintain smooth, steady eye contact while chatting, don't look away from the corner of your eye. Side glances are helpful for initial eye contact, but when chatting, the other person usually responds better with direct eye contact than side glances.
Step 4. Throw the gaze up and down
Every now and then, look your crush up and down. This will convey your interest.
- You can also tell if someone is interested by the way they look at you. If he looks at your hips and thighs, he's more likely to be attracted to you.
- You can show someone you are interested by looking at their head and shoulders when they are talking. This way of conveying interest can help you flirt.
