Many love relationships start from friendship. However, before your feelings are revealed, you may be impatiently waiting to see if a girl loves you, or just wants to be friends. It's hard to determine how he feels without a declaration of love, but by studying a few signs, you can tell if he wants to be friends, or is in love with you.
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Method 1 of 3: Paying Attention to Signals
Step 1. Seek eye contact
If a girl looks down when she sees you or looks down with a smile, that's a strong sign that she's interested. Sometimes, it's hard to look into the eyes of the person you like when your feelings aren't revealed.
Eye movement which is a strong indicator of feelings of love in a woman is a triangle pattern. He will look you in the eye, then the other, then your mouth, and repeat the sequence again
Step 2. Notice if she's twirling her hair around her fingers
Playing with hair keeps the blood flowing and keeps us connected to the body. So, if he plays with his hair, that's a positive sign.
Step 3. Pay attention to his body language
If he leans in closer, makes excuses for touching, or allows touch for longer, he may see you as more than just a friend.
- If he touches your shoulder, rubs your hand, or hugs you for no reason, it's a positive indication that he's attracted to you.
- If he's willing to share a drink or a meal, chances are he likes you.
Step 4. See if he laughs at your jokes, even if they aren't funny
If he has a big smile on his face when he talks and laughs non-stop, it means he really enjoys being with you. It's an unconscious way of saying, "I like you, and it's good to hear you talk."
When we are in love, we look at the loved one through pink glasses so that whatever he says sounds perfect and funny
Method 2 of 3: Considering His Attitude Around You
Step 1. Watch how he treats you, and compare it to how he treats other male friends
If he likes you, he may be more shy or blush a lot when you're around him. If he treats you the same as any other guy, chances are he just wants to be friends.
Step 2. Observe his behavior in the group
If a girl likes you, she may pay more attention to you even though there are lots of other people around. That's because he prefers to chat and enjoy time with you.
Step 3. See how well he knows your interests
A girl in love will remember specific details about whatever you say. For example, he may remember when you said you prefer chicken over steak, or know all your favorite songs.
Step 4. Do the jealousy test
See if he gets angry or jealous when you flirt with other girls. If he seems irritated or asks what you were talking about with the girl, it means he has other feelings for you.
Step 5. Pay attention to how his friends treat you
If their friends suddenly become interested in you or ask a lot of personal questions, they may want to get to know you better because their friend has deep feelings for you.
If they tease you when the girl is there, it's probably because she likes you
Step 6. Listen to certain statements that he utters near you
Girls who have feelings of love will express their feelings indirectly. Here are the words he might say:
- "I enjoyed chatting with you."
- "You are my favorite person."
- "You are very funny."
Step 7. Pay attention to who started the chat
If he's always the one starting the conversation, especially if there's no reason to talk, he's clearly interested in you.
If he texts just to say hello or to say he's thinking about you, that's a great sign
Method 3 of 3: Direct Inquiry
Step 1. Ask her how she feels directly
We can ask what other people feel about us. It's embarrassing at first, but if he loves you, as a friend or more, he won't really care about the reasons and will be glad that you're comfortable enough to ask honest and open questions. Here's a question you can try:
- "How do you feel about me?"
- "You consider me a friend, or more?"
Step 2. Ask questions about love and relationships
If you don't want to ask him outright how he feels, ask him something about love, which will help you figure out what's in his heart. Here are examples of questions you can ask:
- "What do you think falling in love is like?"
- "Do you think people can fall in love with their own friends?"
Step 3. Ask your mutual friend how he feels
Women share almost everything. If you're too nervous to ask the person directly, ask a close friend. Realize that once you start asking questions, the friend will probably report what you said to them. Here's a casual question you can try:
- "Does he like someone?"
- "Has he ever talked about dating?"
Step 4. Find out how he talks about you when you're not around
If a girl is looking for excuses to carry on with your name, talk positively about you, or smile when your name is mentioned, then she has strong feelings for you.
Step 5. Ask her out on a date
Gather the courage and take her to a movie or dinner. If she's putting on more than usual make-up or makeup, then she's trying to impress you. Girls who love you want to look special by looking beautiful and fun.
Tips
- See if he's always trying to do something for you. If he offers unusual favors or wants to help you with a project, chances are he loves you.
- A girl in love may flirt a little, or mention your past relationship while flirting.
- If you like someone, express it.
- Is he always waiting for you in front of the class or office, or sitting near you at lunch? If he continues to show concern or you hear from him often, it may mean that he loves you.
