Preparing for an application can be a very exciting and stressful experience at the same time! Whether you are applying or being proposed, the many things to prepare for the application ceremony often weigh on your mind. This wikiHow debunks the myths about proposals and engagements so you can prepare for your special day in peace.
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Method 1 of 9: Myth: Rings should cost 3 months salary
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You are free to determine the price of the ring.
The myth about ring prices was widespread through advertising campaigns in the '30s. So, it is no longer relevant today. The ring that makes the lover feel happy is the ring that is affordable! The most important thing in a relationship is love. The proposal ceremony can still be memorable regardless of the price of the ring.
There is still an opinion that says that the majesty and luxury of the engagement party is determined by the price of the ring. Don't waste money on expensive rings because you still need to prepare for the wedding
Method 2 of 9: Myth: Purchased rings must be kept secret
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You both need to discuss the specifications of the ring to be purchased.
If you're the one who wants to propose, keep your proposal plans a secret when talking about rings to surprise you. If you are going to be proposed, please provide input about the model, shape, and size of the desired ring. It's best to buy the ring if there is an agreement because this is very important for both of you.
If you still want to surprise him, ask him to give you some of his favorite ring models, then choose one
Method 3 of 9: Myth: You have to buy a diamond ring
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There are many types of gems other than diamonds.
Gemstones, such as amethyst, turquoise, or opal also make the ring look attractive and so are very popular for engagement rings. Currently, chemically manufactured diamonds are also quite popular because they are cheaper (and more environmentally friendly) than mined diamonds. Consider a variety of gemstones, instead of buying a diamond ring right away.
There is still another reason that the two of you need to discuss the ring you want to buy. A ring with real diamonds is very important to some, but to others, it is not so important
Method 4 of 9: Myth: there must be an engagement ring at the time of the proposal
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rings are part of the marriage proposal tradition, but not mandatory.
Maybe you don't have enough money to buy a ring or your lover doesn't like wearing jewelry. Whatever the reason, it's okay if you both decide there's no need to buy an engagement ring!
You don't need to buy an engagement ring with a specific model. If the gemstone is very large or doesn't suit your taste, buy a plain and simple metal ring
Method 5 of 9: Myth: only men should propose in a heterosexual relationship
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women can propose to men.
Usually, it is men who propose to women, but there is no rule that requires this. A woman who is in a heterosexual relationship and wants to get married can buy a ring and propose to her boyfriend!
An ancient Irish tradition holds that in a leap year, a woman may ask a man to marry her. If you are a woman who is dating a man, but you want to propose, apply by February 29 (if you can wait)
Method 6 of 9: Myth: proposal events have to be massive
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You are free to apply as you wish.
If neither of you want to involve a lot of people, have a simple proposal event! Some propose to their girlfriends at the coffee shop, in the car, or on the couch while watching TV. In fact, you can simply ask without a festive party.
Of course, you need to consider his wishes. If he expects the proposal to be held in a romantic setting, you may need to put in some time and effort to prepare a fantastic proposal ceremony
Method 7 of 9: Myth: You two have to be dating for a long time before the proposal
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Many couples decide to get engaged even though they haven't been in a relationship for a long time.
You don't have to if you're not ready and you're free to choose the time! Make a proposal if you both agree (after in-depth discussion).
This often occurs in middle-aged people. They got engaged not long after getting acquainted
Method 8 of 9: Myth: You must be engaged for 18 months before getting married
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You are free to determine the length of the engagement period.
If you want to get married the day after getting engaged, that's fine because there are no provisions that regulate this. Do what's best for you both.
A long engagement period is also good. Sometimes, couples postpone marriage because they want to save so that they have enough money
Method 9 of 9: Myth: a proposal should come as a big surprise to your lover
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The two of you should discuss marriage before the proposal.
The date and place of the proposal may surprise her, but before the proposal, you should ask her if she is willing to marry you. Before buying a ring, make sure the two of you discuss engagement, marriage, and future plans as a family.
