Moans indicate that you are aroused or feel good about your partner. In theory, moaning is a sexy, unintentional sound. You groan in the hottest moments because your body has been overwhelmed by the sensations you feel. Not everyone can moan naturally, but you should train yourself to moan and show that you enjoy your intimacy with your partner. Read this article for tips and how to moan.
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Part 1 of 3: Understanding Moans
Step 1. Know that in theory, moaning isn't intentional
Moans are sounds of desire that come out when the body is defeated by the pleasures and sensations felt, usually in a sensual context. Moaning is a way of voicing the pleasure your body feels. However, not everyone can moan out loud, and many people find it difficult to express their sensual feelings in front of others. Thanks to practice, confidence, and a supportive partner, you can learn to vocalize your moans and make them sound natural.
Research also suggests that at least some aspects of moaning are consciously controlled, especially in women. So, if this doesn't feel natural to you, don't worry! You can still learn to moan
Step 2. Listen to the moans of others
Watch videos and sound clips of people groaning mutually satisfying each other. Watch YouTube videos that teach you how to moan. The best way to master your moaning is to imitate someone else who can moan well. If you hear someone making a voice that sounds sexy, wait until you're alone, and try to imitate the voice.
Step 3. Don't feel like you have to moan
Everyone responds to great pleasures in their own way, and don't feel like you have to moan if you can't do it naturally. While some people tend to be loud in bed, the moans that usually appear in movies or pornography are made-up versions. If your partner really likes your company, they won't care if you moan well or not.
You may even feel that your partner (however long you've been in a relationship) doesn't care about moaning. Don't assume that most people think moaning is interesting just because it appears in movies so often
Part 2 of 3: Knowing the Right Time to Moan
Step 1. Avoid faking a moan
You should only moan as an expression of the peak of your feelings. If you pretend to feel good, your partner may clearly notice it. Think of a time when you enjoyed how you felt, but you didn't express it clearly. In essence, moaning is an outward expression of perceived pleasure. This is a way of sharing those feelings with your partner.
In some cases, you may feel compelled to fake a moan. Maybe you want to make your partner feel appreciated, even though you don't really enjoy it. Maybe you think your partner would like it if you were a little louder. Practice moaning when you really like it so that when you fake it, it will sound real
Step 2. Moan slowly while warming up (foreplay)
A low moan is a great sign to let your partner know that you like how you are feeling right now and want to continue. Release a low moan or "mmmm" when your partner's touch makes you feel good. However, don't overdo it so it doesn't sound like a lie.
Step 3. Moan loudly when the atmosphere gets more intense
Moaning louder can take your intimacy to a higher level. Moan a little longer. Let go of the restraints, and don't be afraid to lose control. The more you enjoy it, the more natural the moaning will be and the more aroused your partner will be.
Know the place and time. If for some reason you can't make noise, don't get too carried away with moaning. Maybe your walls are thin, or your roommate is present, or your parents are in the next room. Save the loud moaning when the time and place allow
Part 3 of 3: Training a Moan
Step 1. Start with a slow sigh
A pleasurable sigh is the simplest form of "moan". You can remove it whenever possible. Sigh at the first touch, or when warming up, or when lowering the intensity. However, in general a sigh is the sound when you are "just getting serious".
Step 2. Inhale and exhale clearly
As the situation gets more intense, allow your breathing to quicken, and try to sound your breath so that it is clear. As the situation heats up and worsens, your breath will be in rhythm with your partner's. Don't be afraid to let your breath be rough and loose as you sink into the feeling of pleasure.
Step 3. As your breathing becomes more intense, add sound and tone to your breath
Each time you inhale, make a “uuunhh” sound. For women, try to raise your voice, and for men, try to lower your voice. However, don't get too hung up on normality and moan as freely as you want.
Otherwise, make a sound when you exhale. You may find it easier to lower your voice when you exhale than when you inhale. Either way doesn't matter because the muscles involved are the same
Step 4. Add a little "mmmmm"
Use inflections that highlight the pleasures of the relationship you feel. Don't say "mmmmm" in a monotone, use a sexy and seductive tone. Pretend you're a cat that purrs when it's happy.
Step 5. Try it when you get back with your partner
Real experience is the best way to build confidence and master moaning. Do it even when you are self-conscious. The more you practice, the more natural and easier it will sound to moan.
- If you've been together long enough, it's best to start little by little. At first, make sighs, “mmmmm”, and low moans. Do not immediately moan loudly and reduce the interest of your partner.
- If you have a new partner, take this as an opportunity. Try to let yourself go and explore a new side of you that has never been seen before.
Step 6. Remember, there is no absolute way to moan
The most important thing is that you feel pleasure with people who feel the same way. Let everything go naturally, happily and beautifully.
