Do you ever expect all eyes to be on you when you walk into a room? Many people get attention without much effort because they are calm and confident. Cultivate good qualities and present yourself in the right way so that people can turn to you!
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Part 1 of 3: Wearing the Right Clothes
Step 1. Choose an eye-catching color, red for example
Color plays a very important role in forming a first impression. Other colors such as gray or beige will only make you look unattractive, so don't wear this color often, or combine it with other colors that are more attractive.
- Among the existing colors, the color that most often makes people want to turn their heads is red. You can get people to turn to you with color by wearing a red dress, or a dress that's a little lighter in color and wearing red lipstick, a red sweater, or a red scarf.
- The color of the jewelry can also attract attention. If you can, try matching the color of your eye makeup to your jewelry to make your eyes look more attractive. Try purple and green (though they don't need to be combined.)
Step 2. Show off the best assets you have
Trying to show more than one good asset (wearing tights, for example) will only give the impression that you're trying hard to get attention. You may be noticed, but this is not the same as getting other people to turn to you.
- Choose something to highlight. For example: if you want to highlight your beautiful legs, you should wear short skirts, high heels, and sweaters so that everyone is interested in looking at your feet.
- Soft, silky fabrics (wool or soft silk) can reveal the best parts of your body. This fabric will hang easily and attract others to see your full body shape, not just certain parts of your body.
Step 3. Wear attractive accessories
Attractive accessories not only attract the attention of others, they can make conversations enjoyable. Try to find something that is unique and earns you compliments.
- If you enjoy making crafts, try making: scarves with very interesting and intricate patterns, beautiful jewelry, even clothes.
- You can also look for them at shops selling outdated vintage-style items, and local artists' bazaars. You will find unique items while supporting economic growth where you live!
Step 4. Make sure your clothing size fits
Of course, no one ever looks perfect, but you can look good by making sure you're wearing the right size for your body. Again, clothes that are too tight will make you look unsightly, and show that you really want to be noticed. Clothes that are too loose can make you feel like someone who doesn't want to be noticed at all.
- Wearing the right bra will make a huge difference to your appearance and make you feel comfortable. To find out the right bra size, ask someone who is an expert. There are a few things you should pay attention to. The right bra will not cause redness on the skin or uncomfortable to wear because it is too tight in certain areas.
- You have to make sure that whatever you wear, including jeans, is the right size for your body. Don't just buy used jeans that roughly match your size. Wear one that isn't too tight around the waist and is the right length (or can be easily hemmed to adjust the length.)
Part 2 of 3: Having a Good Appearance
Step 1. Make sure your hair is shiny and shiny
Nothing is easier to see than the condition of your hair. Research has shown that men are more attracted to shiny hair, as this is a sign of healthy hair. You should wash your hair and apply conditioner regularly.
- People will pay particular attention to the amount of hair. Allow yourself to appear convincing with a fluffy hairstyle so that people are interested in looking at you.
- Several other studies say that men tend to be more attracted to women with long hair. So if you have long hair, just let your hair fall on your shoulders, don't hide it from other people's eyes in a bun or tie it in a ponytail.
Step 2. Take good care of your skin regularly
One of the important things that a person pays attention to is his skin. Healthy and glowing skin will look attractive to others and attract more attention than untreated skin.
- Eat well. You need to eat plenty of vegetables and fruit (the best are dark green leafy vegetables like kale, and blueberries.) Make sure you eat at least five servings of vegetables and fruit each day, with more servings of vegetables.
- The health of your digestive tract also plays an important role in the health and smoothness of your skin. Make sure you eat lots of foods that contain probiotics to smooth your digestive tract. Probiotics are in the sugar-free yogurt which is great to eat with blueberries!)
- Exercising can also improve the condition of your skin, as it can reduce stress (which can have a negative effect on your skin) and can increase blood flow, making your skin glow and look healthier.
Step 3. Make sure your teeth are well cared for
Because people tend to judge other people more attractive if their teeth are whiter, so make sure your teeth are healthy. White teeth can be used as an indicator that you are taking good care of yourself and that your body is healthy.
- Make it a habit to brush your teeth at least twice a day and use dental floss at least once a day. The habit of cleaning your teeth will keep your teeth healthy and prevent cavities.
- Try whitening your teeth in a safe way using over-the-counter whitening products, if you are unable to whiten your teeth with the help of a professional. Although this method is not necessary to support the health of your teeth, white teeth will look healthier and more well-groomed.
Step 4. Treat your lips to look beautiful
Lips are another aspect that people notice about you without even realizing it. Treat the lips to look good, groomed, attractive, and can provide a pleasant kiss.
- Make sure that your lips are always moisturized. Drink lots of water and use lip balm if it feels dry. Look for a lip balm that contains sunscreen to protect your lips from the sun.
- Do not lick your lips because it will dry out your lips. If your lips feel dry or uncomfortable, use a lip balm.
- Give a little color to your lips. The best way to get people's attention is to use lip tint. You can use a lip balm that has a color or a bright red lipstick, which invites everyone to see, after applying the lip balm.
Step 5. Amplify your aura by wearing a little makeup
There's nothing like makeup to make your happy face even more beautiful. If you want people to turn to you, don't just stick to a mediocre "natural" look or even darken your eyes in a smokey eye style. Of course a little red lipstick will do you good, but there are a few other ideas you can use.
- Try eye makeup that sparkles and looks seductive. Eye makeup that will catch the light and sparkle is a surefire way to style one's appearance. It also makes you look a little bold, which in turn will arouse the curiosity of those around you.
- Nails that are painted with nail polish can also create a pleasant impression. Try bright colors to grab the attention of others, or interesting patterns so people want to take a closer look. Keep your nails well-groomed and clean, because people will notice them, perhaps unconsciously.
Part 3 of 3: Making a Good Impression
Step 1. Radiate confidence
One of the things to know about getting people to turn to you is that it's not important to try to get other people's attention if you're the most attractive person, or you have the best clothing collection. If you don't feel confident enough, there's no way you'll be able to attract people's attention the way you want.
- Walk with an upright posture. You should be able to radiate confidence in the way you walk and sit. Act as if there is a rope tied around your chest gently pulling you up. Not only will this make you walk with more confidence, but it can also show off your chest.
- Show calm in the way you move. There's no need to walk proudly like a famous model or be in a hurry. Don't slam doors, run, or drag your feet on the floor while walking.
Step 2. Don't self-sabotage with negative thoughts
Unfortunately, you can't completely rid yourself of negative thoughts, but you can work to keep them from controlling your life. Constantly thinking negatively about yourself will also determine how people think about you.
- Pay attention to how you think about yourself. Do you have a tendency to think things like "No one ever wants to pay attention to me" or "I'm never attractive enough to make other people turn to me."
- Once you've found some of your negative thought patterns, it's time to replace them with positive ones, or at least with neutral ones. For example: if you're thinking "No one wants to pay attention to me," replace it with "My new red boots are so cool, I'm sure other people will think the same way."
- Don't compare yourself to other people. This is a complete waste of time, because there is always someone who wants to get more attention than you, be more attractive, have better admirers, and so on. Work on developing self-confidence, and don't worry about comparing yourself to others.
- This will take a little time and attention to achieve. You can't beat all negative thoughts in just one day, but by giving yourself a little time and trying to go through the strenuous process gradually, you will notice that negative thoughts about yourself are diminishing and so are other people.
Step 3. Make yourself approachable
Stepping straight ahead without looking at anyone else would be useful to people like model models and famous actresses. If you want people to notice you, show that you are interested in other people and open yourself up to others' attention.
- Smile at others. This will expose your white teeth (needed to attract attention) and show that you are paying attention to someone else.
- Make eye contact with other people. This will make it impossible for you to be ignored upon entering the room.
Step 4. Don't withdraw if you've already got the attention
This seems like a strange way, but it is done by many people, especially women, they withdraw. They want attention, but once they succeed, they tend to withdraw or start to feel awkward.
Getting other people to turn to you is all about keeping it rolling. Once some people start to notice you, if you allow this condition to push you forward, instead of being a withdrawn person, you will realize that you are getting more and more attention
Step 5. Develop a sense of humor
People are attracted to good humor and laughter which is usually contagious. It is also a good way to make friends with other people. You don't have to be a laughing stock, but develop a sense of humor to get your attention.
- For example: if you're at a party, it's okay to tell a funny and true anecdote. It might tell you that you got lost on your way to the party, or that your cat left its fur on the dress you prepared to wear to the party. Telling things like this will be fun because this story is funny and shows the human side of you.
- This will also save you from embarrassment if things don't go according to plan (for example, when your heels come off when you confidently step into a room, or when you're running after something.)
Tips
- Stand near a large bowl of drinks at parties, or where drinks are served. People will be attracted to that direction because there is a drink and they will start chatting with you and then invite you to join them to go with them.
- More sociable. If you don't like to talk, you won't get noticed.
