Sometimes, we feel like we're invisible to the people we like. They are constantly dating people who will break their hearts, without even realizing that you are there! If you want your crush to notice you, this wikihow can help. Start with step 1 below.
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Method 1 of 5: Dress Okay
Step 1. Take good care of yourself
Take good care of your body. Not only will this make you more attractive, but it can also help your crush see that you're worth thinking about. Take a shower, keep your hair neat, and exercise (for health, not weight loss).
Step 2. Smell good
The fragrance is very attractive. You don't need to use a lot of perfume. You just need to shower regularly and use deodorant. A little body spray can come in handy if you really want to smell good.
Step 3. Dress well
Stop wearing clothes that are torn, bloated, outdated or don't fit your body or your body shape. This can make your person lack a sense of self-worth, as it shows that you think you don't need to be cared for.
Step 4. Be confident
Confidence is so sexy! Everyone likes someone who is confident! Of course, you just need to make people think that you are confident. Everyone was a little awkward. Make sure you never mock yourself and speak up if you have an opinion. Allow yourself to be in control of the situation from time to time and talk to the person you want to talk to.
Method 2 of 5: Getting Noticed
Step 1. Follow your passion
If you want to be noticed by your crush, you have to get everyone to notice you too! Get out of the shadows and start following your passion. Do things that make you happy and do them without thinking about what other people think of you. People will admire your dedication and you will be happier!
Step 2. Learn new skills
Learn new skills so people can see how great you are. You can learn to play an instrument or learn other skills, like track running or something else. Do the things you always wanted to do!
Step 3. Mingle more
Of course, getting people to pay attention to you means you need to talk to people. Go out there and so hang out with other people. Join events with your friends, make new friends, and get involved in what's happening.
Step 4. Live your life
The most important thing is to get up from your chair and start living your life loud and proud. If you just sit still, you will become boring to other people as well as your crush.
Method 3 of 5: Building Friendship
Step 1. Spend time with them
How will your crush will notice you if you hide in the shadows all the time? Go out, talk to them, hang out, and let them get to know you better. This is a very good way for you to get to know each other.
Step 2. Recognize them
Get to know them for what they are. Spend time talking to them about what matters to them, what their dreams are like, and their beliefs about politics or religion. This will show them that you really care about them, not just who they are.
Step 3. Share their passion
Look for something that will unite you with them (for example, if they are in a club, join the club). Don't give fake love, but learn to appreciate it. But don't start stalking them. It will only scare them. You just need to be patient and let your relationship form naturally.
Step 4. Support them
Support them in the things they love. For example, if they like sports, go to a game. But you must also support them when they are in a difficult situation. Help them with their homework or be a good listener when they have problems..
Method 4 of 5: Ways to Interact
Step 1. Stay calm
When you talk to them, don't get super interested or start acting weird. Stay calm. They are also just ordinary people like you. Just act casual and it will be much easier for you to interact with them.
Step 2. Speak
Greet them every now and then, warmly at first, then a little more flirtatious. Greet them in the hallway or talk to them a bit.
Step 3. Be friendly
Smile at your crush and make eye contact, but don't be scary. For example, if you don't know the person you have a crush on well, slowly start getting to know them (asking them about the clock, talking about the books they read, etc.). If they are friends, start to approach them a little.
Step 4. Listen to them
When talking to your crush, make sure you spend as much time listening to them as you talk.
Step 5. Don't scare them or act too weird
Don't send them a lot of paper or wait for them after school. Don't get their phone number from someone else or from stalking. This will only keep them from talking to you or spending time with you. Think about how your actions will look to them, especially if they don't feel the same way.
Method 5 of 5: Revealing Your crush
Step 1. Avoid drama
Don't make other people ask them questions for you, don't be rude to the person they're dating, and don't be dramatic about whether or not to talk to them. This will only stress you out and make other people (including your crush) not want to talk to you.
Step 2. Just ask directly
If you want to go with your crush, just ask them. Get rid of your worries and do it. At least you will know their feelings and you can move on. After all, they will appreciate your courage.
Step 3. Ask them personally
If you really want to ask them, do it in private. This will reduce stress for you and they will not feel forced to answer you. They may never think romantically about you, even if they want to go on a date with you! Give them a chance to decide.
Step 4. Have a clear plan
When you ask them out, ask with the date you have set. This will avoid getting awkward. Ask things like, “Would you like to see a movie with me this week?” or “Would you like to go with me to the arcade this Friday?”
Step 5. Don't care about rejection
If they don't like you either, don't feel like it's the end of the world. Even if the person you have a crush on looks perfect to you, remember that there are many people in this world. You want someone who likes you too – so if your crush doesn't like you, they aren't the right person for you. You will find someone special for you!
Tips
- When you see him in the school hallways smile at him and make eye contact, but don't glare at them!
- Always be friendly – not just around the people you like, but to everyone else. This will make the person you like realize how good you are. However, don't be annoying. Many men and women do not like this attitude.
- Don't get too close to them. Maybe if you say hi and then leave, it will make them want to talk to you!
- Be yourself!
- If you really want the person you like to like you, try using a popular body spray. They will associate you with this fragrance. Don't be too sharp. No one likes a strong scent. Science shows that men are naturally attracted to the scent of vanilla, cinnamon, and pumpkin pie. Women can try using a perfume with a vanilla scent. A discreet way you can make them more interested is to chew cinnamon-flavored gum and share it with them!
- Don't let your friends chat with them via Facebook or text them embarrassing things because it can ruin the friendship between you and the person you like.
- Don't protect them if they don't want to be protected. You don't want to make them look weak and you look overprotective!
- Make sure you dress well. You don't want to be rejected because you're wearing that ugly sweater your grandma made! Make sure you dress what you feel comfortable with.
- Become smarter. Dress in newfangled clothes, apply perfume – you will be noticed more easily!
- Don't try to approach him or everyone will think you like him and tell everyone including your crush
- Get a new haircut, they will most likely compliment you or at least pay attention to you
- If they are interested in something, try to be interested too. For example, if they are interested in video games, try playing!
Warning
- Avoid glaring at the people you like, this can make them think you're a crazy stalker and will avoid you even more.
- Talking about serious problems in your life too early "will" frighten your crush. Avoid talking very deeply when your relationship is new and still developing.
- Don't tell the person you like that you like them. This can make them run.
- As you begin to get to know your crush even more deeply, it's important to remember to “leave your things at the door” – for example, on a second date, you should get to know that person more deeply, but that doesn't mean you can talk about all the problems in your life. If you want to find out that the person cares, try mentioning a minor problem you're having (example: "I really don't understand the book we studied in English class; can you explain what it says?")
- Don't give your crush the "wrong message". You are a person, not an object to be "toyed with by others". Just as you are honest with them, make sure they are also honest with you. As long as there is the same feeling, you have succeeded.
- Avoid various types of deep emotional feelings at the beginning of your relationship. There's no need to talk too much until you know they feel the same way.
