Attractiveness is subjective. Anyone, regardless of age or physical characteristics, can be an attractive person. In order for you to always look attractive, you must show your best appearance, feeling, and attitude.
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Part 1 of 3: Taking Care of Yourself
Step 1. Maintain a healthy diet
Maintaining the best possible health is important in being an attractive person. Make sure you drink plenty of water (at least 8 glasses per day is recommended). Consume fruits and vegetables every day. If you like meat, try to eat low-fat meats such as chicken, fish, and turkey. It's fine if you want to enjoy other types of food (eg fast food or low-nutrient foods), but try to eat as healthy as possible.
If possible, don't drink fizzy drinks
Step 2. Exercise regularly
Apart from improving your physical appearance, exercise also makes you happier and more confident. Ideally, do cardio exercise 5 times a week for at least 30 minutes a day. Also look for other types of exercise that you enjoy, such as running, swimming, or dancing.
If you can't exercise 5 days a week, try to work out 3 days a week
Step 3. Maintain good hygiene
One of the important factors so that you can look attractive is to maintain personal hygiene and body fragrance. Brush your teeth at least twice a day and clean between your teeth with dental floss every day. Shower every day and wash your hair according to a schedule that suits your hair type.
- To maintain cleanliness, you should also wash your hands after using the bathroom.
- Use deodorant every day.
- It's a good idea to use perfume or cologne, but don't overspray the product to prevent the smell from overpowering.
Step 4. Take care of your skin
Having moist and healthy skin is an easy step to look attractive. Moisturize your skin, protect your skin with sunscreen, exfoliate, and use facial cleansing products according to your skin type. If you're not sure what skin care routine to follow, visit a beauty supply/product store and ask a skin care consultant.
Step 5. Have an alluring haircut
Some haircuts or hairstyles seem more suitable for different face types. However, the best hairstyles are ones that make you feel confident. As long as the hairstyle makes you feel attractive, it doesn't matter if you prefer short, medium, or long haircuts. If a new hair color makes you feel more confident, don't hesitate to give it a try!
Step 6. Get up early to prepare for each day
How early you need to wake up will depend on the time it takes to prepare. It may take you 20 minutes or even an hour to get ready. Make sure you have enough time to brush your teeth, shower, get dressed, do your hair, and apply make-up (if necessary).
Part 2 of 3: Dress Well and Neatly
Step 1. Wear clothes that make you feel confident
Any outfit can look attractive if you feel comfortable and confident wearing it. Take the time to explore your personal style. If you wear clothes that make you comfortable, confidence and happiness will radiate through your attitude and body language.
Step 2. Choose clothes that match your body size
It's fine if you want to wear whatever you want, but clothes that are too big or too small are usually seen as less attractive. Look for pants that follow the natural shape of your waist and make you feel comfortable. Choose a top that has a wrist-length equivalent. Basically, choose clothes that don't hide your shape.
You can also take old or new clothes that don't fit well to the tailor for readjustment
Step 3. Wear red to attract attention
When in doubt, wear red. The color red attracts attention and reflects passion. In addition, this color is considered to make a person appear more attractive. For example, you could wear a red accessory (such as a scarf), or choose a red top.
Step 4. Buy a suit or formal wear
It is important for you to always have a formal suit or dress so that you can wear it to formal events. Even if it's just for dinner, a neat and formal outfit will make you look attractive.
Step 5. Follow the latest fashion trends
You can observe fashion trends by reading the latest fashion blogs or magazines. Update your clothing collection according to the latest fashions you see or like. If you can't afford new clothes, simply update or complete your wardrobe with accessories like belts and scarves.
Step 6. Make sure your clothes are neat and unwrinkled
Even if you wear nice and luxurious clothes, you will still look untidy if your clothes are wrinkled and messy. Make sure any clothes you wear are wrinkle-free, free from stains, and worn neatly. For example, don't let one side of your shirt tuck into your pants while the other side is left out.
Part 3 of 3: Be Attractive
Step 1. Show hospitality to everyone
There is nothing more attractive than a kind and friendly person. Don't be rude or think you're better than anyone. Show kindness to everyone you meet, and you will be remembered positively by others.
- Even if you're in a bad mood, don't take your anger out on others.
- Say hello to a shop clerk, waitress, or neighbor waving to you.
Step 2. Have a good sense of humor
Of course it's nice when someone doesn't always take everything seriously and can laugh at something. Feel free to laugh and make others laugh too! People are attracted to someone who can make them laugh.
Step 3. Be confident
Arrogance is not an attractive character, but appearing confident is certainly an attractive aspect. Show confidence in your appearance and your talents or abilities. This confidence will radiate and be seen by others, and make you more likable.
Don't brag and, on the other hand, don't put yourself down. For example, you could say, “I worked really hard on this project. I think I gave a good effort.”
Step 4. Reflect positive body language
Gestures or body language such as bending over and crossing your arms in front of your chest can make you appear shy and insecure. Always stand straight. Drop your arms to your sides and use hand gestures as you speak.
For example, when talking to someone else, stand or sit up straight and look the other person in the eye
Step 5. Try to smile often
You don't have to smile all the time, but it never hurts to smile. Throw a smile when you greet others or whenever you feel happy. A cheerful facial expression is believed to make a person look more attractive.
Tips
- Study as much and as often as you can. Intelligence is always seen as an attractive aspect.
- Surround yourself with good friends that you enjoy spending time with. Your self-attractiveness can increase when you are often seen with other friends.
- Having self-confidence and good self-esteem is an important part of being an attractive person.
