Enjoying free time alone can be a lot of fun. You can fill your free time in various ways, from developing creativity to pampering yourself in useful ways. Read on for some ideas that can help you fill your free time while enjoying those precious moments of solitude.
If you still need some pointers on how to have fun alone, you probably aren't used to being alone. Extroverts usually feel more comfortable with other people around them
If you are an introvert, you may prefer to be alone and know the pros/cons. This article may not be of any use to you.
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Method 1 of 6: Learn to Love Being Alone
Step 1. Enjoy the freedom of being alone
In order to enjoy being alone, start by learning to accept it. Begin to learn to appreciate the benefits you get by being alone and change yourself to be able to be positive about it.
- Accept solitude by doing, saying, thinking, or acting as you wish. When alone, don't worry about other people's thoughts or judgments. You don't have to be ashamed of being yourself and don't doubt what other people will think or say.
- Enjoy the freedom you get from being able to give yourself some time. You are free to make decisions without having to consider the tastes, preferences or desires of others. When you want to watch your favorite TV show, no one will nag or ask you to change channels. If you want to walk or jog further, no one will complain how long you've been away or change your plans.
- Enjoy the freedom of not having to keep your appearance in front of other people. If you want to wear your pajamas all day with tousled hair and haven't brushed your teeth, go for it! No one will ban or comment on you for wearing cute and fluffy one-horned fur sandals.
Step 2. Be happy that you are free from the awkwardness
Hanging out with people sometimes makes us feel awkward.
On the other hand, while typing can be aloof, we don't need to avoid feeling awkward when you're asked about your love life or when you have to listen to a friend tell a long story about her cat suffering from agoraphobia
Step 3. Love yourself and all the stories about yourself
Giving yourself time can be an opportunity to take a break from the stresses of everyday life and the many activities and interactions. That way, you have time to enjoy and appreciate being with yourself.
- In order to truly enjoy solitude, make the decision to be who you are. Learn to accept yourself as you are by talking to yourself, talking to a chair, dancing like a freak while brushing your teeth, dragging your feet as much as you can while walking, etc. After that, try to appreciate yourself as a great and unique person.
- Begin to define yourself based on your unique traits, not based on certain relationships or the opinions of others. By being alone, you can reflect on who you really are without connecting with other people.
Step 4. Appreciate the little things
Another important aspect of enjoying solitude is the ability to notice and appreciate the little things in your life. Getting away from the distraction of other people makes you more able to pay attention to the little things that you might have overlooked or forgotten over the years.
- Start looking at what is around you. Pay attention to the little things in detail. Notice the little things that are nice and then try to feel and enjoy them.
- Be an observer for yourself. Pay attention to small changes in your mood, thoughts, feelings, and perceptions. Try to find out why and how it affects you physically and emotionally. As you get more in tune with yourself and know what excites you, you'll begin to get to know who you really are that you never realized before.
Method 2 of 6: Doing Artistic Activities
Step 1. Create a blog
Write about movies, games, bands, books, computers, celebrities, or just about anything you enjoy. Look for free blog templates on the internet, choose a design that matches the theme of your blog, and set a creative title.
- If your blog features interesting content to add and write, other people might enjoy reading it. Share a link to your first post on Facebook so your friends can give feedback.
- The good side of blogging is the constant presence of fun. Upload new things that you can share whenever you have free time.
Step 2. Experiment in the kitchen
You don't need to make something perfect because the food you prepare is only for one person.
- Cook recipes that you haven't had time to try or prepare simple, filling menus, such as omelettes or fried rice.
- Cook a new menu of your own creation. Use ingredients that are easily available, such as tofu or tempeh and then add spices to taste. Use other ingredients that you have never prepared, such as mini cabbage, button mushrooms, duck meat, and basil seeds.
- Make a chocolate chip cookie and take this opportunity to create a new recipe just for yourself.
Step 3. Make a painting or drawing
Buy some painting/drawing supplies at a craft store or use the pencil and paper you have at home.
- If you are not interested in painting, you can color the image by number on the template. This activity is quite fun and easy to do. After finishing coloring, you can display this picture in your room.
- Create a comic story or webcomic website (webcomic). You yourself, celebrities, family members, or friends can be featured as characters in this comic. You can make comic drawings with artistic details or in the form of sketch lines. Make a comic story that is funny and funny and then show it to your friends.
Step 4. Make a scrapbook
If you've been collecting photos, ticket stubs, restaurant menu lists, and other knick-knacks, start scrapbooking.
- Purchase scrapbooking books at a stationery or craft store.
- Group the contents by date and type.
- Arrange it for an artistic look and then paste it onto a scrapbook page.
- Write funny or sentimental words.
Step 5. Write a book
Moments of solitude like this may never come again, so make the most of this time. Silence can help you concentrate. If writing a book feels too heavy, start with something easier, but just as expressive. For example:
- Continuing the journal or starting a new journal.
- Write a letter to someone you haven't seen in a long time.
- Write down all the goals you want to achieve in the next month or next year.
Method 3 of 6: Pamper Yourself
Step 1. Eat at a restaurant
You don't have to be shy about eating alone in a restaurant. In fact, it's really nice to be able to go wherever you want, order whatever food and drink you like, and then enjoy all the menus that are served at the table alone.
- If you enjoy socializing, sit in a cafe. People in cafes are usually more welcoming, open, and friendly.
- Go to your favorite restaurant and order the food you want the most. Bring a book if necessary or enjoy your meal while watching the passers-by.
Step 2. Soak in the tub or enjoy the shower water to your heart's content
If there are usually other people in the house waiting in line to take a shower, take this time out to use the bathroom freely. Use your favorite body wash and body care products.
Fill the tub and then pour in liquid bath soap or oil to treat the skin. Light a candle, play some music, and start relaxing or enjoying the shower
Step 3. Take care of your nails
Make an appointment or come straight to the salon to treat yourself.
If you want to save on manicure costs, do your own nail care. Don't just use nail polish, but do nail care by filing, soaking, and applying a protective layer of nails. If you have time and nail polish, take care of your toenails too
Step 4. Rest
When you have free time to be alone, you can use it to sleep!
- Treat yourself to a nap or an early night's sleep.
- If in the morning you have free time to be alone, just sleep again. Or, prepare breakfast and then head back to your room for breakfast in bed!
Method 4 of 6: Improving Yourself
Step 1. Complete your tasks
The best thing about being alone is being free from distractions. Make the most of this time by finishing homework, studying for exams, tidying up your room, managing your finances, etc.
- Reorganizing a room can be a lot of fun. After cleaning, rearrange the placement of the furniture to make it seem new. Give new decorations to make the room atmosphere more pleasant.
- Save your files using a color coding system or create a calendar and fill it with plans for the next few months.
Step 2. Learn a new skill
If you want to develop new skills while being alone, you can do this well.
- If you have an old guitar in your house or a piano that is rarely played, take advantage of it!
- Work on games and puzzles that require logic. There are lots of online games to choose from and puzzle apps built into your device.
- Or, you can play the slightly outdated Rubik's cube to become a genius.
Step 3. Take the course
Learn the skills you need or find a topic you want to know about and take a course on it.
- Many courses are free or at a low cost over the internet and in community centers.
- Free courses usually have no homework or exams. So, if you've been putting off taking a course because of your grades, choose a course that you don't have to worry about.
Step 4. Call someone you haven't had a chance to call recently
Time to call relatives and friends who live elsewhere.
Send them an email or text if you don't want to call them right away. When you're alone, you can greet people you haven't spoken to in a long time
Step 5. Meditate or just meditate
Having some time out that is free from distractions gives you the opportunity to calm down and reflect so you can reflect in peace.
- Think about your decisions that have been burdensome lately. What are the pros and cons of each option? Write them all down if this makes it easier for you to think.
- Use your imagination. While daydreaming, imagine that you are going to another place with different living conditions. Maybe you will get a new idea to write a story or write on a blog.
- Do meditation. Sit quietly, close your eyes and pay attention to the sounds, smells, and sensations around you. Calm your mind and focus on your breath.
Method 5 of 6: Doing Activities
Step 1. Go outdoors and enjoy the outdoors
Walking alone allows you to observe nature without distractions. You'd be surprised how nice it is to be alone in the great outdoors.
- Enjoy a picnic by visiting a park, lake, river or nature reserve, especially somewhere you've never been!
- Travel by bicycle. Seeing the world while cycling gives you a surprising amount of freedom. Look for a quiet location with beautiful views or look for dedicated cycling lanes in your neighborhood.
Step 2. Get in the habit of exercising
When you can be alone, use this time to keep yourself in shape. You can pass the time while improving your physical and mental health, for example by:
- Jogging in a residential neighborhood or running on a treadmill.
- Watch videos of exercises on the internet, such as yoga or pilates and then practice with the guidance of an instructor.
- Play some music and dance in front of the mirror. Better yet, create a dance and then teach it to your friends and family members.
- Start exercising like you've never done before. Find out the equipment needed and join a club or team.
- Join the fitness center. This method keeps you in shape while socializing.
Step 3. Go on an adventure
You don't owe anyone anything. So find a place on the map that you've never been to and head for it!
- Head to the beach to spend some time sunbathing or swimming.
- Go to a city you've never seen or visit a park you've never been to. Take a photo so you can show it to others later.
- Go fishing to catch fish for you to show others or cook and enjoy your own catch.
Method 6 of 6: Pleasing Yourself
Step 1. Enjoy as much media as possible
Watch your favorite movies all night long, read every page of books and magazines, or relax while watching your favorite TV show.
- Watch movies/TV/music shows all night long. Choose a certain theme and then make a series so you can watch it sequentially, for example films with horror themes, comedy, then musicals, or whatever you like.
- After indulging in your favorite shows, start looking for new things, such as music groups, movies, or TV shows. Look for music blogs and podcasts, read recommendations on Spotify or Pandora, or look for information you haven't had time to dig up on Netflix.
Step 2. Pass the time by playing games
If you are not a fan of the game, start giving it a try. If you've played the game a lot, broaden your horizons, for example by:
- Play a new video game or find a new store that sells video games. Look for old or lesser-known games at a thrift store or online.
- Take part in a video game match if the equipment is available. You can play games with many people virtually. So, if you're alone, you can still play with people you don't know around the world.
- Play new games that aren't video games, such as pretending to play a certain role, being a doctor, teacher, or any other role.
- Remember your childhood then play games using your favorite board. What if you need a playmate? You can be another player! Compete with yourself and have fun because you already know that after all, you are bound to win.
Step 3. Reminisce about your past
Open photo albums, scrapbooks, and yearbooks and reminisce about your past experiences.
- You'll be moved to find an old friend or family member you haven't had contact with in a long time. If necessary, seek information about them, for example through social media.
- Use the memories you remember as a source of inspiration for writing short stories, short autobiographies, blogs, comics, etc.
Step 4. Explore the wonders of the internet
When you're alone, you're free to explore all kinds of new places, including digital exploration. There is so much you can explore in the digital world.
- Take a virtual trip to find information. Start by going to a website page and then follow where this site takes you. Look up the various terms or ideas mentioned or browse links about them. Do the same for every new page you visit while observing what you get from the start. Have fun with all the new knowledge you can gather along this journey.
- Go to websites that provide guidance on new things and how to do anything and start experimenting. If you enjoy doing hair and makeup, look for information on websites that teach you how to do your hair/makeup and be the model. If you enjoy doing crafts, find a guide to making them (stuffed birds, accessories, pillows, etc.) and make the best of them. Who knows you may discover a new talent that has been hidden for so long.
Tips
- Take the time to be alone and do whatever you can't do when you're with other people.
- Start doing something you've never done before.
- Make a list and start doing them one by one.
- Don't waste your free time just doing routine activities. Do new things every day.
- Think about how grateful you are to be able to live your life enjoying moments like these!
- Do silly things that are very embarrassing if done in front of other people. It would be so much fun!
- Read books and play games!
- Relax and watch YouTube while relaxing in bed.
- If the weather is nice, head outside for a walk or just enjoy the fresh air in the morning.
- Decide on a theme for writing the song. Make up song lyrics so you can sing them when you're hanging out with friends.
Warning
- Do not share information on the internet or tell others that you are alone at home other than friends or loved ones.
- Be careful and aware of the conditions around you when you are alone.
