Sometimes saying "I love you" isn't enough, or maybe you're a little shy to show and tell your mom. However, you can write your affection for him on a card or letter. You can also show him that you love him by doing nice things for him, showing affection, or giving him a special gift.
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Method 1 of 5: Writing a Card or Letter
Step 1. Make a greeting card
Making it yourself will show him that you spend time saying "I love you."
- Make a heart card. Fold the pink or red paper in half. Cut it into half heart shape. Start with a rounded shape at the top, then taper down. Write as on a regular card, but when he opens it, the card will become a heart.
- Use watercolors to create beautiful backgrounds. Make sure you let it dry before writing it down.
- Start with a decorative sheet of paper in her favorite color. Place a heart shape in the middle.
Step 2. Write down how much you love him
Include a special message to show him that you care.
- You could write something like "I'm grateful to have a mother like you. You mean a lot to me, and I appreciate everything you do. Thank you for being with me. I love you!"
- Try writing "I Love You" in another language. Fill in the front of the card with sentences in another language. You can use an online translator or just visit the page that translates the sentence. Start with "Jeg elsker dig" from Danish, "Ik hou van je" from Dutch, "Je t'aime" from French, "Ich liebe dich" from German, "Te amo" from Spanish, or " chăn rák kun " from Thai.
- Include a poem, by you or someone else. You can write a special poem for your mother, but if you don't want to, you can use someone else's composition and include their name.
- Write down a specific list of what your mother has done. Thank him for specific things he has done, and say what you like about him. You can also make it an alphabet adventure. Write something you like or appreciate with each letter in the alphabet. You can simplify it by using the alphabet with the name.
Step 3. Decorate your card
Add embellishments to make it special.
- Add dried flowers. You can pick wildflowers and place them between the pages of a book to dry them. If you're worried about staining your book, fold a sheet of paper and place a flower inside before placing it between the books. Paste it on the card with a pretty arrangement.
- Collect paper scraps and pretty things. Add to card as decoration.
- Add a touch of stitching. Use the thread to sew the outline of the paper you are using, or use it to write a message on the front of the card.
Step 4. Leave it for him to find
Wrap it in a piece of paper with his name on it, and leave it for him to find.
Method 2 of 5: Showing Affection
Step 1. Give your mother hugs and kisses
Give love without being asked.
Step 2. Massage the shoulders
If he looks like he's had a tough day, give him a shoulder massage to show that you care.
Step 3. Give a smile
Even if you're having a bad day, try to smile at him instead of grumbling. He will appreciate your good behavior.
Step 4. Don't refuse his kisses and hugs in public
You may feel embarrassed to be hugged in public, but you don't want to hurt her feelings.
Step 5. Forgive
Also forgive your mother's mistakes. If he forgets to pick you up or make your favorite lunch, tell him it's okay instead of getting mad.
Step 6. Tell me about your life
Your mom wants to know what's going on with you, and by telling her about your feelings and your day, you're opening up opportunities for her.
Step 7. Support him, and listen to him
Your mother has had bad days, and she has things she loves too. Be available when he needs it, and support his hobbies.
Step 8. Say "Thank you
Sometimes, your mother may feel unappreciated. Pay attention to the things she has done for you, and tell her that you appreciate her.
Method 3 of 5: Do Nice Things For Him
Step 1. Cook dinner for your mother
You don't have to cook anything complicated. He will love whatever you make.
For a simple meal, try making spaghetti. Cook the pasta, and heat the sauce on the stove. Add a salad as a side dish for a simple meal
Step 2. Make her favorite dessert
A warm, freshly baked cookie is a surefire way of saying "I love you."
Step 3. Ask him what he wants to do in one day, and do it
Make sure you keep your phone, and pay attention to him while you do the activities he wants to do.
Offer him options if he can't think of them. Maybe you can go to the library, to the movies, or to the spa. Maybe you can have a picnic in the park
Step 4. Clean the car
Take it to the car wash, or wash it yourself. Don't forget to take the trash out of the house and vacuum. Also, take the time to wipe down the dashboard and other surfaces.
Step 5. Clean the house
Nothing shows a mother more "I love you" than a clean house.
Step 6. Bring a cup of coffee or tea
If your mom is sitting on a break, bring her a glass or a cup of something she likes to help her relax.
Step 7. Offer to look after your sister
You can give your mother some time off, something she will enjoy, and she can do something fun.
Method 4 of 5: Say it
Step 1. Write "I love you" on a clean table with his favorite cake or candy
Be sure to keep pets away, and warn other family members not to touch them. You can also leave a note to let your mom know that this is for her.
You can also use a small candle if you can be careful
Step 2. Leave sticky notes around the house
Write "I love you," "XOXO," or some other sweet note. You can also write it down on plain paper and leave it where she'll find it, like in a flour box or her makeup box.
Step 3. Write "I love you" on his car window with shoe polish
Make sure you don't stain the car paint with polish. Also, make sure he can still see ahead.
Step 4. Make your own fortune cookies, and fill them with fortune that reads good things for your mother
You can also buy ready-made ones, take out the luck with tweezers, and put your own fortune in it.
Method 5 of 5: Giving Gifts
Step 1. Find a piece of jewelry that says "love"
You can find necklaces, bracelets, and earrings that say "love" to show your mom that you love her.
You can also make your own with letter beads, or you can use wire to write them down
Step 2. Make a playlist for her
Go through your music and find a song you think he'll like. Include some classical and contemporary music too. Add it to his cell phone or MP3 player, or transfer it to a CD if he's a bit old fashioned.
Step 3. Buy her favorite candy
This shows that you care about him and will encourage him.
Step 4. Make a scarf or hat for her
You can knit or crochet it.
