Shy women are also human beings who want friendships, careers, and romance to go hand in hand. While it may sound like they don't want to be in a romantic relationship with anyone, basically they just don't know how to do it. Do you like a girl who is shy and wants to know her feelings? If so, then make sure you take a proactive step! Want to know more detailed information? Read on for this article!
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Method 1 of 3: Identifying Romantic Body Language
Step 1. Observe his eye contact
Eye contact is an important part of human interaction. If a person harbors a romantic interest in the opposite sex, pupil dilation is a common natural response. If he's looking you in the eye for longer than usual (or if he seems to be stealing glances more often), he's probably really interested in you.
Shy people tend to prefer indirect confrontation; Chances are, you'll have a hard time catching him staring at you openly. But don't worry; if he seems to be completely avoiding your gaze, this can also be interpreted as an indicator of a deeper interest. You may also think so if he is constantly looking at the clock, the blackboard, or looking around the room except where you are
Step 2. Observe his jealousy
Shy women tend to feel jealous if they see the person they like close to another woman. Does he seem bothered after catching you conversing with another woman? Or does he seem annoyed that you can't always be by his side? If so, chances are he really likes you.
Does he get mad if you don't attend an important volleyball game for him? If so, chances are he's actually harboring a greater interest in you
Step 3. Observe her hands and wrists
Women tend to expose their wrists if they are romantically attracted to a man. If he touches your arm or holds you in a crowd, chances are he wants to hang on to you on a deeper level.
Shy women often make physical contact accidentally. Often times, they will repeat it again to see how you react
Step 4. Observe if her cheeks are red
Girls tend to blush easily when they're around someone they like. Make sure you always observe his face and cheeks; if his cheeks turn red when he's around you, he's probably hiding his crush on you.
Step 5. Observe your distance from him; also observe the position of his body
Some people believe that the strongest indicator of attraction is the distance between two people. The closer they are to you, the more likely they are to like you romantically. In addition, the position of his feet also determines whether he wants to get involved or distance himself from you.
Step 6. Observe her dress style and posture
If he dresses up or looks more presentable than usual when he's out with you, chances are he's doing it to impress you. If you catch him looking in the mirror or trimming his bangs, that kind of posture is also a strong indicator that he likes you.
Step 7. Observe if he often tilts his head or leans toward you
If he keeps doing it while you're talking, chances are he's really interested and wants to be more involved with you. The more often he does it, the more likely he is to like you romantically.
Method 2 of 3: Recognizing Verbal Signals
Step 1. Observe the simple compliments he makes
Has he ever complimented your new shoes? As meaningless as it may seem, the fact that he notices a small change in your appearance (and offends it with a compliment) shows that he's more attracted to you.
Step 2. Pay attention to the way he talks
Most shy people are always afraid to say the wrong thing (which may make them appear quiet in front of you). On the other hand, nervousness can also make them talk more than usual! Regardless of the circumstances, research shows that if he always responds quickly, he's more likely to want a romantic relationship with you.
Step 3. Compliment him
Simple compliments can have a tremendous impact on most people, especially for people who have the potential to have a romantic relationship with you. Does he smile when he hears your compliments? If so, chances are he likes you too!
Step 4. Listen to her laugh
If he always welcomes your words and jokes with a genuine laugh, chances are he wants you to like him. Observe the frequency of his laughter. If he laughs with you more than anyone else, chances are his subconscious is already in love with you.
Step 5. Observe the volume and pitch of the sound
A low tone of voice indicates that the person's subconscious wants to impress the other person. If he speaks in a low voice or sighs a little, he may be trying to impress you! If he tends to be chatty in front of other people but quieter in front of you, chances are he also wants to impress you.
Step 6. Ask your mutual friend for help
Shy people tend to dislike direct confrontation. Therefore, there is no harm in asking for the certainty of his feelings to his friends or friends with you. Remember, he's likely to know what you're doing and sometimes that information will be used by those who know about it to tease you or him. Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with liking someone and confirming their feelings for you.
Most shy women are very introverted and tend to keep the identity of their crush a secret (even from their closest friends!). Therefore, make sure you take the time to read the situation before making any decisions
Method 3 of 3: Be Straightforward
Step 1. Make him feel comfortable talking to you
Since she's shy, don't force her to talk if she doesn't want to or isn't ready. Most likely, he needs some time to get used to your presence; rushing him will only make him more stressed and depressed. Don't rush into serious topics; start with light topics like the weather, classmates, workmates, or everyday events. Be patient and let him make himself comfortable around you.
He may take a while to come out of his shell, so make sure you keep trying and don't give up easily
Step 2. Start having regular conversations with him
Research shows that humans tend to talk more easily around people they like (whether romantically or not). If you feel like you're talking to him more often, or if he seems to talk more around you, chances are he's really interested in you! As time goes on, he will definitely feel more comfortable and used to your presence. As a result, your chances of asking him out will increase significantly. Some of the topics you can bring up include:
- Future plan
- Favorite hobbies and types of sports
- Family
- Favorite class
- Dream job
Step 3. Use the right communication style when asking him direct questions
After weeks of questioning his feelings, you may feel that this is the right time to ask him out. Be careful, the situation is a little different for shy girls. Think carefully about your communication style; don't let her feel uncomfortable with your question or statement.
- Whatever you do, don't comment on her shyness! Doing so will only make him more self-aware and less likely to talk.
- Instead of asking, “Want to go to the movies with me?”, try saying, “Hey, this movie was great, you know. I want to watch but no friends.".
Step 4. Try asking her out
If you feel like you're receiving positive signals from him (and if you're sure he likes you too), trust that instinct. Accepting rejection is painful. But if you never try, how will you know?
Tips
- Be a confident person.
- Some people who are shy often give less clear signals, mainly because they often have difficulty giving the right response. If they feel uncomfortable, they will usually back away slowly.
- Start the conversation by asking him what he likes.
- Don't tease or embarrass her; Shy girls will feel very awkward if you do.
- Be a wise observer.
- If he doesn't want to tell you things about himself, don't force him.
- Don't make him stand out! Shy people don't like it.
- Show genuine and honest effort. Trust me, he will appreciate it.
- Be yourself.
- At times, he may come across as rude or irritable. Do not rush to conclusions; he most likely did it out of nervousness.
