Kissing the woman you like is the desire of most men in this world. So do you? The toughest part you may have to go through is mustering up the courage to ask the woman of your dreams to watch a movie together; but after that, trust that things will definitely get easier for both of you. After all, a kiss is an expression of affection that is hard for a woman to resist. If he likes you too, chances are that your efforts won't be rejected by him. Are you ready to do it? Make sure you follow all the tips listed in this article and try to stay relaxed while applying them!
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Part 1 of 3: Making a Plan
Step 1. Find out which movies are currently playing in theaters
Browse the internet to find the most appropriate selection of films. You can even download a phone app to make the search process easier.
Step 2. Choose the right film
Try to find movies that you both have seen – or don't want to see. Because cinema ticket prices are already very expensive, you should wait until the film has been screened for a month or two in theaters so that it is no longer too crowded. If you know there's a movie he wants to see, try offering it to him.
- Choose a movie that most people are unlikely to see.
- Consider the length of the film. Think about whether you need to watch a very long movie or feel like a 1.5 hour movie is enough.
Step 3. Consider the genre
Kissing while watching a movie that is too serious will certainly not feel comfortable; therefore, try taking him to a comedy, romantic comedy, or even a horror movie. After all, films of this genre usually attract less audiences than the very popular blockbusters.
Step 4. Ask for his opinion
Make sure the two of you come to an agreement about which movie to watch; one of the easiest ways is to invite him to watch a movie trailer together. Be honest and straightforward if there's a movie you'd like to see, but don't push yourself. In the end, make sure you both reach a decision that satisfies both parties.
Part 2 of 3: Building the Right Situation
Step 1. Get him to meet up early
By doing so, you have the opportunity to launch a flirtation or seduction before the movie starts. Do not be nervous! Remember, he accepts your date; therefore, he is likely to be attracted to you too. Be yourself.
Step 2. Invite him to play
One powerful way to deepen the connection between the two of you is to invite him to play on the game machines available in the cinema area. While playing, try to look him in the eye periodically.
Don't be too competitive. If you seem overly competitive and don't want to lose, chances are that his attraction to you will drop drastically
Step 3. Invite him to buy a snack
Try asking him to buy popcorn and fizzy drinks that the two of you can eat together. If this is your first date with him, make sure you offer to buy the treats.
Step 4. Choose the right seat
Choose a seat that is most remote and has the least risk of exposure to other audience members (for example, choose a seat in the back row or in a corner of the cinema). Your main goal is to choose a seat that is not too close to the rest of the audience.
Step 5. Make sure your lips are moisturized and not chapped
If you want, you can even apply lip balm before meeting her. Don't use lip balm in his presence or during a date; doing so will make you look nervous and want to kiss him. Try to stay in control in front of him!
Step 6. Prepare the menthol candy
Instead of spending money on fizzy drinks, always keep the cheaper option of menthol candy in your bag. Trust me, you will be grateful for bringing it!
Part 3 of 3: Kissing her
Step 1. Be patient
Trust me, kissing him right after the movie starts will only make the situation even more awkward and awkward. At least, wait about 20 minutes before trying to kiss her; the ideal situation will be created if you do not do it in a hurry.
Step 2. Make eye contact with him
Don't stare at him all the time if you don't want to be seen as scary! Instead, simply glance at him periodically until your gazes meet, then immediately return your gaze to the cinema screen.
If his cheeks look flushed after making eye contact with you, your chances of kissing him have increased tremendously
Step 3. Hold her hand
If he has his hands open, chances are that he really wants you to hold his hand. However, don't grip his hand too tightly; instead, gently place your hand on top of his and wait for his response.
Step 4. Assess the situation
If he leans or tilts in the opposite direction from your sitting position, he doesn't want you to kiss him. Try waiting for her to tuck her hair behind her ear; doing so will expose his neck and indicate that he is interested in kissing you. Make sure you do everything strategically!
Step 5. Try kissing her
Turn to him and touch his chin gently. This is the clearest signal that says, I want to kiss you. After he leans his face towards you, slowly move your head to meet his lips.
If he doesn't get a positive response, it's best to stop trying and don't do it again until the film ends
Step 6. Measure the reaction
Trust me, you'll know right away if he responds positively to your kiss. Also make sure you give him a manly and polite response after your first kiss; in other words, don't do ridiculous things like saying, "Wow, that was okay," or "You're good at kissing, aren't you."
Step 7. Pause for a moment
Don't kiss her without a break throughout the film! Instead, give a quick kiss and then return your gaze to the cinema screen; 20 minutes later, kiss him again. He should warmly welcome your second kiss if he enjoyed the first kiss.
Generally, men are always the ones who take the first steps. Therefore, make sure you do it with confidence to make him feel more comfortable
Step 8. Praise him
After the movie, tell him that you're happy to be traveling with him (if you really feel that way!); after that, offer to take him back on another trip. Don't ask if he's also excited to be traveling with you; express your interest in an implicit way that doesn't sound aggressive.
Tips
- Be confident, not arrogant. Show that confidence through your body language; surely, he will be tempted to kiss you afterwards!
- If he puts his hand on any part of your body, it means he really wants you to kiss him!
- Don't do old-fashioned, cliché tricks like pretending to yawn and putting your arm around her shoulder, unless you know it's going to look cute or adorable in her eyes.
- If he puts his hand on the arm of the chair but acts like he doesn't want you to notice, he probably wants you to hold his hand.
- Go to the toilet before the movie starts.
- If he seems to like it, don't rush to end it!
- Show your efforts gradually and do not act in a hurry.
- Don't make your wish too obvious.
- Don't ask her friends for her response.
- Show a positive attitude during the film; look him in the eye and smile at him to build the mood before kissing him.
Warning
- Don't kiss him too hastily; In addition to risking making him uncomfortable, your teeth could clash and potentially mess up a situation you've worked so hard to build.
- Make sure there are no drinking glasses between the two of you; Spilled drinks due to being knocked over can quickly destabilize the situation!
- Try not to get your teeth together; believe me, the situation can immediately ruin the romance that has been built.
- Remember, the world doesn't just belong to the two of you! Giving a light peck is fine, of course, but don't kiss it too long or too intensely if you don't want to annoy the rest of the audience in the theater.
