A kiss at the end of a date is one of the most exciting parts of a romantic encounter. The long-awaited kiss at the end of the night is actually a timeless gesture that can make the heart beat faster and eyelashes flutter. This kiss is also one of the first indicators of affection for a new partner, a little intimacy and physical attraction. However, the question that is always raging in the minds of many people is how do we know when is the right time to do it? Success in giving a kiss at the end of a date requires the ability to read your partner's body language and have the courage to take action.
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Part 1 of 3: Creating Opportunities
Step 1. Take your date to your doorstep
After a romantic evening is over, take your partner to where you picked him up, whether it's his front door, his car or the bus stop. Most first kisses happen right before you say goodbye to your date. So, the first step that needs to be done is to find the right atmosphere to enjoy this special moment. If you don't make it to this stage, chances are that the breakup will end on friendly terms.
Try to keep both of you in a dark, quiet and somewhat private place. That way, you can focus all your attention on each other
Step 2. Position yourself closer to him
Reduce the distance between the two of you so that you can be closer to your partner. Try to stand about a step away from him, or closer if at all possible. If he doesn't pull away when you try to approach him, it's a green light signal. The more comfortable and intimate the situation between you and your partner, the more likely you are to give a goodnight kiss.
- By standing face to face, you have the assurance that the kiss you hoped for will come true.
- However, avoid unnecessary contact with your partner or try not to violate his personal space. If you don't, you can scare him off instead of impressing him.
Step 3. Maintain eye contact
Look your partner in the eye and give a warm and seductive smile. Making constant eye contact can help build a connection between two people and open lines of communication that aren't expressive. If your partner looks you in the eye, there's a good chance he won't mind accepting the kiss.
Watch out for the so-called “lover's triangle”: the gaze goes to the eyes, then to the lips and back to the eyes. This is an almost indisputable signal that your partner is anticipating a kiss
Step 4. Notice the pauses during the conversation
Assuming that you are both still in conversation and not looking at each other, pay attention to the frequent speech intervals in conversation. This may mean that you are both thinking about something other than talking. Pauses in conversation are often a very good signal for a kiss.
- The best time to get into action is usually when one of you says something like “Tonight was really fun.”
- If you're both running out of things to talk about, but neither one wants to end the night, there's a good chance your partner is waiting for your kiss.
Part 2 of 3: Reading Your Partner's Body Language
Step 1. Reflect on how successful the date night was
Think back to how that night went. Was it fun? Did you two have a long chat? Does your partner show genuine interest in you? Evaluating the success of a date doesn't necessarily tell you when to give a romantic hug, but it can at least give you an idea of how your partner feels and whether a kiss would be a great way to end the night.
- You can't conclude that your partner is ready for a kiss just because he or she had a great time that night. You have to understand that not everyone proceeds at the same speed. Therefore, it is important that you understand your partner's emotional state before planning your next course of action.
- Don't hesitate if you feel this is the right moment. Many people consider a kiss at the end of the night the perfect way to end a great date.
Step 2. See if your partner wants to rush into the house
Pay attention to whether your date is procrastinating on saying goodnight or not. If he starts rummaging through his bag for keys as soon as you both get to the door, he's pretty sure he's not interested in going any further. On the other hand, if he's not in a hurry or seems reluctant to end the evening, he may be waiting for a warmer goodbye.
Try to be aware of signs that your date is trying to put some emotional distance between the two of you, such as not talking much or showing interest, sighing or turning your back on you
Step 3. Have the ability to recognize disparaging behavior
Regardless of what you think about the night, your partner may really want to end it. If he insists that you don't have to walk him to the door, or keep your distance once the two of you get there, consider leaving before things get uncomfortable. Other behaviors to watch out for include covert body language (e.g., turning around), reluctance to look you in the eye, pursed lips, and worst of all, that dreadful handshake.
- Listen carefully to firm farewells, such as “I'll call/text you”, “I have to get up very early tomorrow”, or simply “Good night”. The final tone in this sentence usually indicates that someone wants to end something as quickly as possible.
- Hugs can have different meanings. If your partner accepts the hug to get closer to you and hold on to it for a long time, you can take it as an encouragement to kiss him. If you think the hug is just platonic, try to understand the cue.
Step 4. Look for signs of anticipation
On the other hand, your partner may actually be giving you signs that he or she is interested in you. Notice if he's looking directly at you, opening his lips and constantly glancing at you teasingly (or watching you, then looking away with a blush). This kind of behavior is instinctive and is a blatant invitation to you.
- Some other promising signs that you should watch out for are rapid and shallow breathing, constant lip licking and a rapid heart rate.
- Most of the time, your partner will give you a clear signal whether he wants you to kiss him or not.
Part 3 of 3: Giving a Kiss
Step 1. Wait for the right moment
You have to be ready to take the opportunity to kiss him as soon as the moment comes. You'll need a little intuition in this case, depending on the situation. For every farewell kiss, there is a unique “time span” when everything looks perfect. Try to assess your partner's attitude and body language and decide if the moment is really the right one.
- In some circumstances, your cutting off the conversation by kissing him could be construed as rude behavior, while in other situations, your partner might see it as romantic. So, use common sense before acting.
- Sudden pauses during a conversation are usually the perfect opportunity to initiate a kiss.
Step 2. Lean slowly
If you feel the time is right, act immediately. Make sure you are standing close enough to your partner so that the kiss can be natural. Lean slowly to avoid misinterpreting your meaning. This will give him time to prepare, or withdraw if he doesn't like it. The moment of anticipating the first kiss is so thrilling!
- You can immediately kiss his lips or pull your head back for a moment to intensify the tension before finally nuzzling his lips.
- If your partner turns their head away as you lean in, try to apologize, laugh and walk away with dignity intact.
Step 3. Make the kiss special
Give him a kiss he will never forget. As you lean forward, close your eyes and tilt your head. Open your lips and press gently against hers, then kiss her harder. You can place your hands on their cheeks, hips or back and pull them closer, or you can slide your fingers between them.
- Keep your eyes closed until you end the kiss. It must feel weird to see your partner look you in the eye during a meaningful kissing moment.
- Know when to end the kiss. Wait until the passion reaches its peak, then be the first to stop the kiss. Let your partner be curious and want more.
Step 4. Don't overdo it
A good first kiss is opportunistic, sensual, and not excessive. Unless the date is very enthusiastic, don't try to stick your tongue in his mouth, or grope him, breathe heavily or do anything else that might offend his self-esteem. Just enjoy the burst of sensation for a few moments, then say goodnight or wait for him to invite you in. Oh, the beauty of love!
- Even if you receive a signal that your partner wants a kiss, it doesn't mean he or she is willing to be fondled or treated harshly. It's best not to touch any of his private parts until you've received a cue to do so as well.
- Excess excitement when kissing your partner will surely ruin the moment itself, and potentially embarrass you.
Tips
- Bring chewing gum or mints to keep your breath fresh if you think your partner and you will miss an intimate moment.
- There's no right time to give a goodnight kiss. Consider the atmosphere around you, the nonverbal cues your partner gives and the attraction between the two of you and if you feel the moment is right, act immediately.
- Don't worry too much about making mistakes. Even if you don't succeed when you try to kiss him or let a good opportunity slip by and stay silent for too long, as long as your date likes you, he will find it adorable.
- Give praise. Let your partner know that you had a great time with them too, and be sincere.
- Excuse yourself immediately after kissing goodnight to avoid an uncomfortable situation where neither of you know what to do, unless your partner suggests extending the date night.
- Turning his head back briefly as he walks away, there's a good chance he's watching you.
Warning
- Don't get too excited and spontaneously say that you love him. Such feelings need to be nurtured and only expressed after you have allowed the relationship to progress and progress to a more serious stage.
- If your partner doesn't want you to kiss him, don't force it. It was considered aggressive and disrespectful. Learn to accept rejection.
