Whether it's your first kiss or your thousandth kiss, with a new boyfriend or long-term partner, kissing always leaves a lasting impression, especially a kiss that evokes deep emotions and feelings, or a sensual kiss. In fact, experts believe kissing has an important role in building a relationship and determining how much compatibility between you and your partner. When kissing, you are actually communicating with your partner romantically through physical actions, rather than through mere words. If you want to give a sensual kiss, follow these steps.
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Part 1 of 2: Preparing for a Kiss
Step 1. Tidy up your appearance
If you intend to do something intimate with your partner, you should make sure your mouth, face, and body look seductive and attractive to your partner. While everyone has their own self-care routine (for example, you might opt for menthol candy, like vanilla-scented perfume, or musk-scented cologne), good basic self-care generally includes:
- Brush your teeth. No one likes inhaling the smell of onions or garlic left over from lunch or the same pungent smell as when you wake up in the morning. So, before you approach your partner for a kiss, brush your teeth and suck on some menthol to keep your breath fresh and pleasant.
- Wash your face and make sure it's clean. Washing your face is a part of self-care that should not be neglected if you are planning on kissing your partner. In fact, 53% of women prefer kissing with a clean shaven partner. Whether you like the appearance of a mustache or a neat shave, make sure your face is clean and attractive to your partner.
- Wear clean clothes. You certainly want to feel confident about getting a romantic and sensual kiss from your partner. Therefore, wear appropriate clothes and make sure they are clean. Avoid clothes with nail decorations, sharp metal, or details that will interfere with this sensual pleasure.
- Spray some cologne or perfume. Smelling a scent can be arousing for both men and women, but in women the effect is much greater. Research shows that among all other physical characteristics, women place a man's scent on an important feature of their sexual attractiveness. Of course, the important information to note here is the word "little" because the smell of cologne or perfume that is too strong actually stifles sexual arousal. So, just spray a little fragrance on the body, don't overdo it.
Step 2. Have a conversation before kissing
Don't be shy about telling your partner what you like or asking what your partner likes about a nice kiss. Instead of feeling shy about talking about what you like and don't like about kissing, communicating with your partner will ensure that you both have a good time. Make sure you talk about what you prefer before kissing, not in the middle of a kiss so your partner doesn't take your comment as a rebuke.
Step 3. Get in the mood
Create a private and romantic atmosphere for you and your partner, such as an intimate dinner at home, or a beautiful view in the garden. Try to remember if your partner ever mentioned a special place or location that is fun, where he likes to spend time there, and is it suitable for an intimate moment? If so, suggest going there or taking him there. A comfortable and romantic atmosphere will support the creation of a passionate sensual kiss.
Part 2 of 2: Enjoying a Sensual Kiss
Step 1. Do foreplay (game before making love)
Physical interactions such as holding hands or hugging before kissing can serve as a prelude to the next phase and will show your partner that you are interested in the hot and passionate kissing action.
Step 2. Make eye contact and lean towards your partner
When you lean in to initiate the kiss, make sure your partner does the same.
A rule worth considering is to always close your eyes when kissing because passion will cause the pupils to dilate and make it look a little scary or weird to your partner. So, you should not leave your eyes open
Step 3. Tilt your head
About 95% of the time kissing, the partner will tilt his head to the right. If you don't know which way your partner will tilt their head, to the right is a safe option. However, if your partner starts to tilt their head in one direction, tilt your head in the opposite direction so that your noses don't bump into each other before your lips can meet.
If you miscalculated and tilted your head in the same direction as your partner, or your lips missed theirs when you closed your eyes and leaned in, laugh and continue what you were doing. A certain awkwardness can result in a great kiss that is unforgettable
Step 4. Kiss your partner gently, without rushing
Research shows that women think the biggest mistake men can make when kissing is that they are too aggressive with their tongue. While men complain that women do not open their mouths wide enough when kissing. So, find a comfortable style between an open mouth (not too wide, as if you're about to eat a plate of pasta) and a gentle kiss (not a lustful bite or excessive tongue play).
Step 5. Apply pressure and increase the tempo of the kiss
After the lips are touching each other, give a little pressure on the lips of the partner. You can smell it a little faster and deeper.
If at this point your partner is responding positively to the kiss, you can start French kissing. The French kiss is a fantastic way to use your tongue when kissing. Let the tongue in a relaxed state and touch the partner's tongue with a calm, gentle motion, like an ice cream licking motion. Try not to let the tongue go completely limp or completely stiff, and don't stick or aggressively stick your tongue into your partner's mouth
Step 6. Add some variation
One of the most important aspects of creating a sensual kiss is to vary where you kiss your partner. Try kissing different parts of your partner's face, paying special attention to the ears and neck. You can gently bite your partner's lower lip or gently nibble on his earlobe. If you're flirting with an old partner sensually, kiss different parts of your body so your intimate moments don't feel like routine procedures or something repetitive.
Step 7. Engage your body
Kissing isn't just about bringing your lips together. Therefore, pay attention to posture and body position when doing it. Close your body to the partner's body, and gently caress or touch the partner's neck, back, waist, and buttocks. Once you've found a relaxed, gentle rhythm, you can step up the game by sitting astride your partner, or lying across from each other while kissing.
As kissing becomes more sensual, it's important to always listen and tune in with your partner. By paying attention to your partner's breathing, body language, and lip movements, you can predict whether he or she is enjoying the kiss and is ready to take it to the next level
Step 8. Whenever the opportunity arises, kiss your partner sensually
Don't let kissing become a tedious activity, especially after you've gone through the early stages of a relationship or the honeymoon phase starts to fade. Often times, people in long-term relationships stop kissing and lose that intimate and sensual connection.
In fact, the intensity and emotion involved in kissing early in a relationship can become even more exciting as you get to know your partner better and the communication between the two of you becomes stronger and more open. The old adage that "practice is the base of perfection" certainly applies to kissing
Tips
- Pulling your partner's hair and being very aggressive towards his body should only be done if your partner agrees, and realizes that you will involve more physical action when kissing. Approval will create a deeper, more passionate kiss between you and your partner.
- A passionate, sensual kiss can lead you both to a hotter making out session, and at this stage you and your partner are trying to be as intimate as possible without completely crushing each other. This is the most intense kissing act, and can last for a very long time. However, not all sensual kisses will lead to making out sessions. So, remember to always take it slow with your partner and try to have longer and deeper kissing sessions
- There's no right way to kiss! No matter what style of kissing you want to apply, you must feel the emotion and passion in your partner. Remember that a great kiss is an adventure in itself, not a stepping stone to something else.
