Dealing with land crocodiles or men who like to play with women's feelings is not easy. Men like this are generally good at squeezing all the attention and interest of women, but spit it out long after they feel there is a woman who is more attractive to them. Want to repay their treatment? Read this article for tips!
Step
Step 1. Stop flirting with the guy or responding to his temptations
If he seems busy flirting with other women, ignore him! Even if it hurts, believe that you are the most attractive woman in the world; therefore, you can surely get any man you want easily. Believe me, self-confidence is one of the characters that can increase your attractiveness in the eyes of others!
Step 2. Flirt with people he knows
Do you have a Facebook account? If so, make it clear through the account that you have an interest in another guy (only if the guy reciprocates your interest). Have him chat through the Facebook wall, exchange gifts, etc. After all, at one point, he will definitely notice your behavior.
Step 3. Show that you are a woman who is always busy
Busy yourself to plan many things and do various activities with the people closest to you.
Step 4. If you are already dating the guy, keep your appearance to always look perfect
Do your best to make other men aware of your existence; also show that you are also aware of the existence of other men besides your partner. Treat your relationship like a game. Remember; it takes extra effort to control a man who likes to play with women's feelings. But whatever you do, make sure it won't hurt you in the future.
Step 5. Show that you are a cool, independent, and untouchable woman
Stay in your comfort zone, and change your behavior only in front of the guy and a few of his friends. Don't give yourself up too easily to the guy, and don't betray any of your friends. Remember, they have always been there for you; if you treat them well, they will surely reciprocate in the future.
Step 6. Start playing with it
Approach yourself right after he's sure you're not interested in him. Treat him well; at the same time, act as if you didn't realize you were giving him the attention he wanted. Remember, such men live because of the constant injection of other women's attention; their existence will be extinct if they no longer receive the attention and treatment they want. Therefore, show your interest in him, but at the same time, show that your life is not only centered on him. In other words, feel free to interact with other men or even flirt with them.
Step 7. If he starts to depend on you, start saying things like, “I need you, here,” and other flattery; draw him closer to your game
Don't do what he expects, but try to show your interest implicitly.
Step 8. Make the right decision
Did you finally manage to control it? Or is he actually turning his back on you? Don't act like the other women around him! Wait at least a few weeks to observe his demeanor and assess your relationship. If you want to be in a relationship with this guy, at least assess whether he really can be trusted. If you just want to play with him, forget about him and don't interact with him anymore; make him feel what his previous victims felt.
Tips
- Be prepared for the worst. Although it really depends on your age, some men have a tendency to not be able to commit to just one woman, or even hook up with a woman just to take advantage of her. The situation is of course very embarrassing, but you have the choice not to get involved in this vicious cycle! Prepare for the worst: he's just using you and will dump you afterward. Don't let yourself be fooled by anyone's sweet mouth!
- Seduce another man in front of the man. Flirting with other men will surely grow a little jealousy in the man. If you want, you can even flirt with one of his friends who isn't very close to him. In other words, instead of flirting with her best friend, target a guy she isn't very close with, but she knows as a nice guy.
- Improve your appearance, make sure you smell good, exercise regularly, and be proactive. Remember, your life doesn't revolve around just one man!
- Motivate yourself! Remember, you are a great and charming person.
- Get rid of all the romantic emotions you feel for the guy. If you are still attached to it in any way, all the methods in this article will be useless for you to implement.
Warning
- Don't flirt or date a guy you don't like; nor do you want to lose your best friend because of any man. After all, your friends are the most valuable people in your life.
- Don't make yourself look stupid.
- Do not discuss things related to the man in front of his friends. Be careful, any question or comment you pass on to his friend will surely reach his ears.
- Don't manipulate nice men! Practice the methods in this article only with men who like to play with women's feelings (including yours).
