Having a crush is exciting, stressful, and makes you think about a lot of things. You want him to see you when you look beautiful. While there is no guarantee that your love will be unrequited, there are some things you can do to make him like you. Give yourself time to get to know your crush to make sure he's a match for you. Try to appear cool and calm when he's around you, then try some flirting techniques to show how you really feel!
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Method 1 of 3: Get to know your crush
Step 1. Smile and say hello to your crush when they see him
Don't blush and stare at the ground when you see him – give him a wave and say "Hey!". If you want to win her heart, you have to believe in yourself, even if it's just a little.
This is a great way to lighten the mood if you and your crush aren't close
Step 2. Try hanging out with people your crush knows
If you and your crush have different circle of friends, spending time with them can be a bit difficult. However, if his friends are your friends too, getting to know them better can give you a chance to get close to your crush.
- For example, if there is a girl in class who is dating your crush, and you are used to chatting with her in class, ask her to be your teammate.
- You can also invite your crush and friends to hang out together as friends. That way, you can meet him without feeling the pressure of sitting alone.
- Don't give your crush the impression that you like one of his friends. For example, you need to avoid being too friendly with your crush's friends or you'll be spending time as a “group”, not a couple.
Warning:
Spend time with people you like. If you only approach someone to win over your crush, you will get caught and come across as insensitive or manipulative.
Step 3. Ask open-ended questions to get to know your crush better
When you have a chance to talk to your crush, ask questions about their hobbies and interests so you can find out what you two have in common. Don't ask questions where he only needs to answer "yes" or "no" – this will give him a clearer answer.
- For example, you could say something like "How was your English exam yesterday?" or “What music do you like?”
- If your crush shares your interests, extend the discussion. For example, if he mentions baseball and you like the sport, say “Oh, I love baseball too! Which team are you supporting?”
- Give your crush your full attention when talking to him. Saying something like "Oh, really?" and “Wow, that's great!” or "Wow, I just found out" when your crush is talking shows that you're interested in what he has to say.
Step 4. Tell me something about yourself little by little
While continuing to get closer to your crush, you can slowly open yourself up to explain who you are. However, arrange to keep the focus on the person you have a crush on. This way, you can show that you are interested in what he has to say.
- Not only will you appear to be a good listener, you will also appear more mysterious, so that he is more interested in getting to know you better.
- For example, you could tell him that you went out with your family all summer, but you should wait some time before telling your crush that your aunt gave you a valuable family inheritance at that time.
- Once you and he get closer, opening up will give the impression that you trust him and he is an important person in your life.
Step 5. Be friends with your crush before dating him
The best way to get to know someone is to spend a lot of time with them. Spend time with him as part of a group, then go out with him if you get the chance. Over time, you will get to know what each other likes and hates, so you can determine if you are really a good match.
- After getting to know your crush closer, pay attention to whether he is in love with someone else. This could be a sign that he only sees you as a friend. However, if your crush is flirting with you or pretending to want to date you, he could be talking about other people just to make you jealous!
- If your crush is very busy or isn't interested in spending time together, wait a few days to ask him back. If you give him the opportunity to miss your presence, he may be more than happy to see you another time.
Method 2 of 3: Look Cool and Confident
Step 1. Take care of yourself
Every morning, wash your face, take a shower, then brush your teeth. After that, wear clean and neat clothes. Trim your hair, then choose an accessory to wear. You can also put on a little makeup if you want, but don't overdo it – you want your crush to like you for who you are. So, let your natural beauty out!
- For an example of a casual and cool look, you can use jeans combined with a tight T-shirt, brightly colored sneakers, large bracelets, and chokers.
- If you want to look more feminine, you can wear beautiful shirts, leggings, sandals, and necklaces.
Tips:
Your personality and character are much more important than appearance, but if you want to get your crush's attention, dress up and improve your appearance every day.
Step 2. Stand or sit up straight to appear confident
Your posture can make a strong impression on your level of self-confidence. So, sit or stand with your back straight, shoulders back, and head held high. However, let both hands remain relaxed so as not to appear too stiff.
When sitting or standing naturally, your back should be slightly arched like an S
Step 3. Take a deep breath if you start to feel nervous in front of your crush
Sometimes, you may feel a little shy or nervous around your crush. This is perfectly normal, but if you want to stay calm, take a deep breath while counting to 4. After that, exhale and count to 4 again.
Breathing deeply sends a signal to the brain that everything is okay. So, your body will be more relaxed
Step 4. Smile and laugh around your crush
If you want to stand out from the crowd, smile and laugh. A genuine and cheerful smile can make anyone look attractive. Your crush will realize that you are a happy and positive person!
- Pay attention to the things that make your crush laugh, then try to make jokes that he finds funny. For example, if your crush likes puns, you could say something like: “What do clotheslines and telephones have in common? When the "Kring" both are lifted!"
- You can also make jokes about things around you. For example, if the food in the cafeteria isn't very good, you could say "Wow, I don't think I'm going to eat anymore today!". However, avoid bad-mouthing jokes, as they can make you appear mean and negative.
Step 5. Be yourself, no matter who is around you
You may be tempted to act in such a way when your crush is around you. However, never pretend to be someone else. It's important to remember that if your crush doesn't like the real you, he doesn't deserve your precious time.
For example, you may feel pressured to appear presentable and presentable, even though you actually enjoy being stupid and free-spirited
Step 6. Make time to see your friends once in a while
When you are invited to play with friends, don't immediately refuse because you want to be alone with your crush. Having an active social life will make you appear more confident, cool, and attractive. Plus, you can show your friends that they're worth more than whoever your crush is.
- Also take time to pursue hobbies, such as exercising, making crafts, or doing something you enjoy, such as going for a walk in the city forest or listening to music in your room.
- If you and your crush end up dating, continue to make time for your friends. However, if you don't match, be grateful that you keep your friendship with your friends.
Method 3 of 3: Seducing your crush
Step 1. Make eye contact and smile when you're around him
Eye contact and a smile are two of the easiest and most effective ways to seduce someone. Even if you're not close, you can get your crush's attention when he passes by. If your eyes meet, hold your gaze for 2-3 seconds, then smile and look away.
This can make your crush curious so he comes over and greets you
Step 2. Lean your body towards the crush while he or she is talking
Body language can send subtle messages to your crush about how you feel. While the two of you are chatting, tilt your head toward him, or lean forward slightly. Don't get too close – changing your body position a little can give it a natural and unintentional feel.
- Notice if your crush is leaning towards you too. If he does too, it's called "mirroring," which could mean that he's attracted to you.
- If you want to give a clearer message that you're interested in him, touch your face, neck, or hair.
Step 3. Compliment your crush
When you get a chance, say something about him that you like. You can compliment her looks, but if you want attention, try to compliment her personality.
- For example, you could say something like “I like how easy it is for you to get along with different types of people. Everyone likes you!”
- You can also say something like “You always know how to make me laugh!”
- A good compliment to your crush's appearance is something like "I love your new haircut!" This will show that you care about her appearance. You can also say something like "That t-shirt looks great on you" to compliment the look and style choices at the same time.
Step 4. Touch your crush's hand or arm to show interest
When you meet your crush, look for opportunities to gently touch their hands, shoulders or shoulders. For example, you can put your hand on his shoulder when he's throwing a joke, or nudge his hand with yours when you walk beside him.
If your crush tugs at him, he may not be interested. However, if he approaches or doesn't react, he might like you too
Step 5. Send a short message to your crush while you are away from them
If you have your crush's number, exchanging text messages can be an alternative way to
- For example, you could send a message like “Oh my gosh, where were you at the team meeting earlier? The head of our school mascot was ripped off!”
- If you both know each other well, you might be able to flirt more casually, like "Hey handsome!".
- Don't send your crush more than 1-2 text messages at a time. If he doesn't respond, wait and message him later – he may be busy or asleep.
Step 6. Ask your crush out on a date to show your feelings openly
If you feel like your crush likes you, but doesn't want to make the first move, don't be afraid to start! Find a chance to be alone with your crush, then tell him how you feel and ask him out on a date!
- For example, you could say “I like you more than a friend. How about we go to the movies on Friday to talk about this?”
- If you feel nervous, express your feelings in a text message. You will have time to plan what to say and your crush will have time to think about the answer.
Step 7. Accept rejection gracefully if he finally says “no”
Remember, if you ask someone out and they turn it down, there's nothing wrong with you. It just means that the person doesn't want to date you right now.
- Say something like "I respect your feelings, and I hope we can still be friends."
- Don't be afraid to take the time to get away from him if you're feeling awkward or heartbroken.
