Kissing someone you like even for just a few seconds can be quite thrilling or exciting, but making out takes it to a whole new level. If you want to make out in the right way, then you have to know how to maintain the passion, vary, and make your partner feel appreciated. Whether you've been with the same person for a while or kissed someone new, read on to learn how to make out like a pro.
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Method 1 of 3: Starting a Making Out Session
Step 1. Make eye contact
Look your partner in the eye and give a small smile to show that you are ready for the action. You can also gently lean the front of your head towards your partner, put your hand on his face, touch his leg, or even give him a quick kiss on the lips before actually starting to kiss him. This will help kickstart the relationship and make your partner more ready to kiss you. If you suddenly kiss her on the lips, the kissing session may be unexpected, and won't go well.
Eye contact doesn't have to be intense, especially if you're just starting out with him. Just a few seconds of eye contact should get the point across
Step 2. Move slowly and gently
This is very important. The best way to prevent head bumps, elbows, and tooth strikes is to take things slowly, especially at the start and when changing positions. Over time, you can do more passionate kissing techniques, but only do it for a few moments. Always return to a slow, comfortable pace. Start with a kiss on the lips, then if you want to do a French kiss (French kiss), slowly move your tongue into your partner's mouth while he does the same.
- Once each tongue is in your partner's mouth, you can move it slowly in a circular motion, move it over your partner's tongue, or do whatever feels good without moving it too fast or getting weak.
- Remember that if you are making out for the first time, you have to be very careful before you start. The first time making out is trying to find out the comfort level, boundaries, and favorite movements of your partner.
Step 3. Keep your hands busy
This doesn't mean you have to scratch your partner every chance you get. However, you'll be more comfortable kissing if you don't let your hands rest on your lap. Once you're comfortable and especially if you're sitting down, try exploring your partner's body, as long as both of you don't mind. Basically, keep your hands moving all the time, so you don't get stuck in the same boring position. Try holding her face, touching her waist, or holding hands.
- If you're kissing a guy, place your arm around his neck or touch his arm, neck, back of head, or chest.
- If kissing a girl, touch her shoulder and waist, and wait for the signal that she's ready to go further.
Step 4. Flirt with your partner
You can still be high-priced in the middle of making out. When things are going well, step back and look your partner in the eye. Eyes that look at each other will excite and make your partner want to kiss you more. While you shouldn't do this all the time, doing it once or twice per make out will work well.
This is also a great way if you need a break from an intense kiss
Step 5. Remember to breathe air
It's okay to take a break from kissing and it can even help you get back to focusing on the kiss. If you're feeling tired but don't want to stop yet, take a breath, slow down the speed of the kiss, or don't be afraid to go to the bathroom for a bit or ask for a glass of water. If you are uncomfortable with so many kisses, then you will not be able to enjoy them or give your best effort.
It does not matter. Taking a break from time to time will actually make you a better kisser
Method 2 of 3: Keeping the Atmosphere Fun
Step 1. Speak a little
A little verbal communication will keep things pleasant. But this is not a good time to start a deep conversation. Just a few sentences in a soft voice, especially with eye contact and a smile will convey a sense of closeness during making out without talking too much. You don't have to be silent to be exciting, and if you have something to say, do so as long as it doesn't spoil the mood.
Obviously, you shouldn't change the subject completely from something romantic. And now is not the time to ask about math assignments
Step 2. Create a relaxed state
This is not a movie, where everything is perfect and passionate! You are both human and there will be awkward moments, no matter how many instructions you have read. If something awkward happens, quickly fix it with a light laugh or a gentle nudge. Making out is about having fun as much as being passionate.
If you fumble awkwardly, it's better to joke about it than pretend to be an expert at it
Step 3. Kiss your partner's face and neck
Vary your kissing routine by occasionally moving away from his lips. Again, do it slowly. If you move too quickly, he may not know what you're doing and you may bump your lips against his nose. Kiss the corner of his mouth gently, and towards the area along the chin line. You can move up to your partner's temples and forehead, or down to their neck.
Try giving your partner a slightly wet kiss on the neck and then blow on him to make him shiver
Step 4. Trim the couple's hair
If your partner is a man, run your fingers through his hair along his scalp from front to back, down his neck. If your partner is a woman, you can run your fingers down through her hair, letting the strands pass through your fingers. The head is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. Don't underestimate the hair as an important area to touch during making out.
But remember that some hairstyles are not suitable for this. If a woman's hair is tied up or curly enough, you can get caught in your fingers. Instead, gently run your fingertips along the top and around the ear, as if you were tucking a strand of hair behind her ear
Step 5. Give it a few gentle bites
Biting your partner's neck, ears, or even lower lip can make a big difference when making out. Don't be afraid to try it once you're comfortable enough with your partner to experiment. Make a very gentle bite from his lower lip, then switch to biting his earlobe or neck and see how he responds. If done correctly, these small bites can make a partner lulled with pleasure.
- Warning: the soft or not-so-soft bite isn't for everyone, but if your partner likes it, then he or she will absolutely love it.
- If you're nervous about this, practice on your hands first.
Step 6. Whisper in your partner's ear
Whispering in your partner's ear is a great way to maintain passion when you take a break from kissing. Pause, lean into your partner's ear, and whisper something short and sweet that lets them know how much you love the kiss. Just say, "You're so hot," or, "I've been wanting to kiss you all day," and your boyfriend will love it.
While saying it, you can blow on your partner's neck to make him shiver
Step 7. Continue to vary what was done
The most important thing to remember when making out is to keep things fun by trying new things every now and then. Just sitting with the same hand position, kissing the same way, will quickly become boring. So vary between quick kisses on the lips, soft love bites, passionate French kisses, and the other things you have to do to keep things fun.
You don't have to try ten thousand new ways in the middle of making out. But trying at least two or three different things can help freshen things up
Method 3 of 3: Rest
Step 1. Let your partner know when you need a break
There are two options after making out, you both continue on to more intense and hot activities, or you feel like taking a break. Assuming you want to take a break or stop kissing, slowly move away from your partner, and give him a passionate final kiss. You don't have to end it abruptly. When you feel tired, or know that you have to leave immediately, then you should slowly move one part of your body away from him in the situation.
No need to apologize about it. Everyone needs a break all the time
Step 2. Let your partner know how much you love being kissed
Give your loved one acknowledgment by giving him a hug, a final kiss, or a big smile, or even by saying, "That's amazing," or, "I love kissing you." Even a sentence like, "I keep wanting you," will do the trick if you really mean it. Your partner should feel confident and happy about what just happened so that it can happen again.
Do not be shy. You don't have to say, "I love you," but if you're feeling good, let him know
Step 3. Let your partner want more
Once you've finished making out, you have to make sure it's going to happen again in the near future. After you're done kissing, you have to keep it exciting, have affection, and make your partner want more. When you get home, you can say that you can't wait to see him again, or even send him a message saying how much fun you had.
While it's hard to stay in the same mood all the time, try to keep things exciting for as long as possible after the making out session. This will make your partner much more eager to see you again
Tips
- Before making out, make sure you know how far you're willing to go. If things get hotter, be prepared to tell your partner that you're not ready to do more than you want.
- Making out doesn't just involve the lips. Depending on the level of the relationship, move your hands towards more sensitive areas, or wrap your legs around your partner or move your hips closer. But make sure your partner is ready and take it slow.
- There is no "mandatory" way to kiss. Let it happen naturally and with the flow, then stop when you want.
- Make sure your partner is ready. Signs of readiness include licking lips, constantly touching your mouth, suggestions for eating or drinking, placing your head close to you and looking at you with your head tilted. When you start kissing, brush your lips lightly against theirs, with your mouth slightly open. This shows your intentions and will give you an immediate signal of readiness or unwillingness.
- Try kissing your partner the way you want to be kissed. Kissing is an interactive experience, and each partner needs to follow their partner at a time.
- Make sure you have a great time! If you're not comfortable making out with someone, you need to make sure they know it.
- Try to always have fresh breath, no one likes to kiss people who have bad breath. A breath freshener, chewing gum, or a box of mints are great things to carry around with you.
- Close your eyes when kissing. It's fine to have a peek, but most people find it weird making out with someone who has their eyes wide open all the time. Plus, you're more likely to see blurry shadows rather than clear shapes, which isn't pleasing to the eye.
- Don't force it. The best kisses are those that come naturally when the time is right.
- Let him guide you if you're not sure what you should do.
- If you're not ready to go any further with your partner, tell him or her. Better to say it then than regret it later.
- If your partner doesn't know how to kiss gently, guide him or her and show your intentions before doing anything.
- If you don't know how your partner feels about what you're doing then stop and give them time to think by holding hands or hugging them!
- When making out, it's better to "pause" than "hold" the kiss. Kiss, then back away for a second, barely stopping the kiss. Then continue kissing. It's best not to hold back the kiss with your partner by engaging in what's known as a "fight of the tongue." But there are people who may prefer this method because of the pleasure it can bring one.
- A great way to open the door to communication is to ask him if there's anything you could do better or anything he'd like you to try. By doing this, you may be learning something and they may be able to model well by asking you the same question.
- If you're not ready to kiss, just hug him when it seems like a good chance to kiss him.
- If you think he is your soulmate, tell him and see how he reacts. Make sure he's not just trying to have a sexual relationship with you.
Warning
- Don't push (passionate kisses) unless you know he likes it.
- If you're planning on making out, don't make out after you've had a high alcohol drink as it can lead to something you might not want to do.
- If you don't like the way your partner kisses, think about whether you're just not used to different things. Especially when someone is breaking away from a long term relationship and starting a new one, they may want their ex's way of kissing them.
- Always be tactful and kind when telling someone what you like and don't like about their kiss. This can be a sensitive subject, and your partner may become agitated or feel threatened or hurt, sometimes to the point that he or she won't kiss you again.
