Does your boyfriend stop calling like he did when you first started dating? Or does he seem unconcerned about your company? Unfortunately, romantic relationships often experience problems like this over time. If you're having this problem, your relationship isn't over yet. Some of the following things can be done to make your relationship as intimate as it was when you first started dating.
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Part 1 of 2: Stay Independent
Step 1. Focus on living your life
Don't make your boyfriend everything. Everyone does not want or can be fully responsible for the happiness of others. The burden is too heavy for anyone to bear and will eventually end the relationship. Take time to do your hobby and let your boyfriend do the same. When you're spending time alone, you'll be surprised how much time and fun you'll have with your boyfriend.
Step 2. Spend time with friends
Don't stop socializing for the sake of your boyfriend. Make plans to play with your friends. This will make him think of you as an independent person and have a social life apart from him. Over time, if he wants to stay together, he will realize that he has to spend time with you.
Step 3. Travel for a while
This is especially important if you live with your boyfriend. You have to give him space to make him miss you. Take a two-week vacation to a place you've always wanted to go. Head over to your family's house for a while, or go and visit some friends you haven't seen in a long time.
An important tip: resist the temptation to call or text him, except for a short message to let him know that you've arrived safely at your destination
Part 2 of 2: Make Him Come Back After You
Step 1. Give him space to come after you again
In other words, if you've been chasing him all this time, your boyfriend won't have the desire to chase you. Don't control your love relationship. Let your boyfriend approach you in his own way and at the time he wants. For example, try some of the following:
- If your boyfriend texts you or texts you, don't reply right away. Let him wait a moment.
- Let him plan and arrange his next date. The date will be more satisfying for both you and your boyfriend.
Step 2. Pretend to sell high
Although it sounds cliché, this method is effective. This does not mean that you should stop seeing him. In modern life, this means that you're not always there when your boyfriend asks you to go out or go out together. Even when you don't have any plans, don't agree to see her every time she calls you.
Step 3. Wear neat clothes
You don't have to always wear old-school sweaters and t-shirts to feel comfortable. Sometimes, also wear neat clothes. Studies show that confidence radiates when you like the clothes you wear and that confidence is very attractive.
Choose clothes that fit your body and make you feel confident when wearing them. When you know that you look attractive, you will appear confident. For men, there is nothing sexier than confidence
Step 4. Show appreciation
Your boyfriend loves giving gifts and wants to make you happy. So, when he succeeds, be sure to show him the appropriate response. Be specific in your response: men will prefer compliments related to certain actions over general ones. You could say "Honey, I really enjoyed the date last night. You chose a great restaurant. Thank you so much." Knowing that you're happy will make your boyfriend feel proud of himself for being so lucky to have a woman like you.
