Have you ever felt nervous when you kissed your boyfriend? Can't smell well? Are you worried about not kissing properly? Or do you just want to improve your kissing skills? Read this article in its entirety for a memorable kiss.
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Part 1 of 4: Make Him Want to Kiss You
Step 1. Be in a relationship, spend time together, and flirt with him to create closeness
You can never kiss your boyfriend if you don't know each other. Chatting, planning activities together, and spending time as a couple will build emotional connection and attraction. Time alone will provide a greater opportunity to kiss.
Since most people won't kiss in public, finding a comfortable place to be alone is important, not only for kissing, but for your relationship as well
Step 2. Provide open body language to show that you want to be kissed by him
Give your boyfriend the right message by being close to him, shrugging your shoulders at him, and leaning back when he talks.
- Twistling his hair, taking off his jacket, and looking him in the eye will let him know that you're open to him.
- Avoid crossing your arms or legs, or looking down, as this will make you seem distant and not really there.
Step 3. Overcome "touch restrictions"
You'll find it easier to kiss someone you've touched, so find a way to physically touch them before thinking about kissing them. Gently touching her hair, holding hands, or touching her cheek with your hand can signal that you are ready to kiss.
A good first step is to touch her shoulder with yours while watching a movie or TV show
Step 4. Try to look beautiful
While you don't need to make any major changes, dressing up a little will show him that you're interested and willing to try to get his attention.
- Give a little perfume so you smell good. Smell is the most powerful sense for both men and women, but be sure not to overdo it with perfume. No one likes a pungent smell.
- Protect your lips with lip balm or lip balm so they look soft and inviting.
Step 5. Go to a quiet place alone
If this is going to be your first kiss, go outside for some fresh air, or just have a chat on the couch alone. Take the pressure off of being out in public, and enjoy your time together -- often times, the right time will come by itself.
Part 2 of 4: Using the Right Time
Step 1. Position yourself for the kiss
This is easy to do if you're standing, but if you're sitting, turn your body so that your shoulders are in line with his.
- Move your hips so they are facing him.
- Get closer so you don't have to stick your body towards his face.
Step 2. Say something to let him know that you are interested in him
What you say doesn't have to be poetic for it to be understood. Say something sincere and sweet like "you're handsome," "I love spending time with you," or "do you mind if I come close?"
If you can't think of a better sentence, or are feeling brave, just ask him if he'd like to kiss. Many men will love this directness
Step 3. Bring your face closer to his
This gesture will make it seem obvious that you want to kiss, which is great! Smile a little and don't be afraid to be close to him for a few seconds. You may be able to judge his attraction based on his reaction to you.
If he walks away or looks away, it means he's not interested
Step 4. If he comes closer, stares at your lips, and brushes your hair, go ahead and kiss him first
There is no reason that requires a man to kiss first.
Step 5. If he looks into your eyes and then your lips, chances are he wants to kiss you
If he approaches, follow his movements.
Part 3 of 4: Kissing Your Girlfriend
Step 1. Tilt your head slightly, so your noses don't bump into each other
You can simply tilt your head to one side to avoid colliding with it.
Step 2. Look into his eyes so you don't miss the mark
As you approach each other's lips, look him in the eye. Not only will this prevent you from being misdirected, but it's also very romantic.
Step 3. Close your eyes as soon as they touch
At this point staring into each other's eyes would make the kiss feel weird.
Step 4. Kiss him
Keep your lips light and soft. Start by kissing him gently, but pay attention to the taste and react to the kiss as well.
- Don't purse your lips. Hardened lips are a sign that you are not very interested or not enjoying it. This kiss should feel like sticking your lips onto a soft fruit.
- Kiss slowly, release after 2-3 seconds to see the reaction. If the reaction is good, kiss again for a few seconds.
Step 5. Use the rest of your body to guide it
Pull her body closer, place your hands behind her head, or clasp her fingers.
If you don't know what to do, put your hand on his hip or shoulder
Part 4 of 4: Finding New Ways to Kiss
Step 1. Try another type of kiss
As you become more comfortable with each other, change the pressure, rhythm and length of your kisses to find out what he likes.
- Bring your lips closer to his.
- Kiss him three or four times at a time without pulling your face too far between breaks.
- Kiss longer, hold for 3 - 5 seconds, then 5 - 8 seconds.
- Kiss him on the neck, cheeks, or on the earlobe.
- Don't make quick or drastic changes. Try it slowly and don't rush.
Step 2. When both of you are ready to kiss with your mouth open
An open mouth kiss or "French kiss" is more fun and exciting than a regular kiss. Try starting with:
- Licking his upper lip gently, then shifting to the lower lip.
- Biting his lower lip gently.
- Tilt your head to the side. Kissing like this is easier if your nose isn't getting in the way.
- Open your mouth slightly, thus inviting him to enter.
- Slowly insert your tongue into his mouth.
- If he replies back, or opens his mouth too, then he'll want to do it too, so keep trying.
Step 3. Talk about what you enjoy
Communication is key in every aspect of a relationship, and kissing is no exception. Saying "I like that," or "let's try this," will ensure that your partner does the right thing to please you.
Tips
- If you have long hair, keep it away from your lips and face.
- If you are chewing gum, throw it away so it doesn't get into his mouth.
- Kiss slowly, so that it remains special to you.
- Don't forget to smile afterward, or whisper something nice in his ear before walking away.
- Don't let the teasing of your friends get in the way of your relationship. Kiss if you want, not because of your friends.
- Carry mints with you wherever you go, just in case he wants to kiss you!
- Don't kiss in front of your parents, siblings, and try not to kiss in front of your friends. Kiss in a quiet place alone, or in a dark place. Elevators, bathrooms, hallways, and outdoors are all good examples of places.
Warning
- Make sure to brush your teeth!
- Don't let your hands hang down, place them around his neck and bring them up to his face.
- If you're not sure when it's a good time to kiss her, let her decide!
- When you get close to him, you may start to panic. Do not panic. Just remember how much you like it.
- If you think he's not a good kisser, give him a chance.
