Keeping your relationship fresh is hard work. While you may be more in love with your partner, you still need to make an effort to keep your relationship and love life thriving. If you want to know how to make your relationship more interesting, follow these easy tips.
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Method 1 of 3: Be Brave
Step 1. Make love to a new position
Even if you are in a comfortable position, it may be time for a change in your bedroom. Having sex the old way will feel like a routine, and the more you add variety, the more you'll want to enjoy it more often. Here are things you can do:
- Switch roles. This may seem funny the first time, but you'll love it. If you are always on top and your partner is at the bottom, switch positions. You will be more excited about the change.
- When you make love, make a target not to have sex at all with the usual position. Find new ways to be more excited.
- Don't be afraid to try completely new positions. Look up positions on the internet, read the Karma Sutra, or if you're not shy, ask your best friend for tips on sex positions.
- Be more flexible. Take a yoga class together, or run together and stretch before and after. Prepare your body to be more flexible. If you learn to do the splits (stretching by spreading each leg in the opposite direction), you can use this advantage in your bedroom. If you're a woman, try to be flexible by wrapping your legs around your partner's head when he's on top.
- Making love standing up, or with the person above standing. And don't be afraid to try a little warm-up or oral activity on your partner while he or she is standing.
- Making love when one person is sitting on the sofa and the other is on it.
- Be bold with your position, but don't do a position that makes you uncomfortable. Both partners must be determined to try something new or your intimate relationship will not be enjoyable.
Step 2. Try a new place
Having sex in a new position can amaze your love life. Having sex in a new position in a new place will spice up your relationship astronomically. A new place can be anywhere from the new corner of your room to a hotel or even a tent. Here are a few things to try:
- Stay at the hotel to make love. The hotel doesn't have to be in an exotic location – it can be just a few blocks from your house. You will feel sexier if you stay at a hotel for a clear purpose. Do not prepare your belongings if the location is close to home. This will make it clear you are there for one reason.
- Take a romantic getaway. Plan a trip to a romantic island or beach. Choose a place where you can't do much other than relax on the beach and make out with each other. If you're busy looking at the scenery, you won't have time to prepare the scene for sex.
- Making love in your car may sound uncomfortable, but it can be quite fun, too. Making love in public will get you in trouble, so make sure if you're in a really quiet place, where you won't be found or caught.
- Having sex where you “could” be arrested. Although this is not recommended for many reasons, but if you want to feel unique, look for a place where you can get into trouble, such as a friend's house, or in your house where there are a lot of people.
- Having sex is a new part of you. Promise not to have sex in your bed for a week or two, or even a month. Try it in your kitchen, in the bathroom, or even on your favorite chair.
- Do it on your couch. Your couch isn't just a place to laze around and find channels.
Step 3. Go to an adult or lingerie shop together
Don't be shy to go to this shop. Many couples do this, and you will be excited about buying things you will use in your bedroom. Dress neatly when you come to this shop. Hand in hand. Laugh. This will feel a little stupid, but it can also be fun.
- Buy some sexy underwear. If you are a woman, buy bras and panties with lace, g-strings, fishnet-like stockings, and corsets. Don't be afraid to buy something that you really are more or less like. This is called adventure.
- Buy some scented candles, scented oils and sexy lotions. You can light a candle and alternately massage the oil and lotion into each other to get ready.
- Take some adult toys. Buy some handcuffs, whips, or anything else that can help keep your ship afloat. These toys are not guaranteed to work, but try to see if they work or not. Simply buying them together has made your relationship even more interesting.
Step 4. Role play
You need to make your relationship more interesting because it feels like you've fallen into the same role every day. What better way to make your relationship more interesting than playing a fun role? This will allow you to take some risks, but the rewards will mean more. The next time you make love, try one of these scenarios:
- Pretend you're in a big fight. Make it very hot. Shouting and throwing things. Then make love to make up for it.
- If you're a woman, pretend your husband or partner is knocking on the door to fix a leak, asking you to sign a bill, or simply because he needs direction. Invite him to come in for a drink and take him from there.
- Try using some clothes from an adult aid store. There are lots of ideas to get your imagination going, whether you dress up as a cop, princess or cat.
- Tell your partner your favorite role, no matter how strange it may seem. Just do it!
Step 5. Try something new together
Being brave doesn't mean making love more adventurous. You and your partner can deepen your relationship by stepping out of your safe zone and trying something wild and new together. Here are a few things to try:
- Doing something crazy outside. Do “bungee jumping” or “sky diving”. This will make you feel happy and bring you closer.
- Travel to exotic locations. This could mean Singapore or Argentina. Go to a place that is completely foreign to both of you.
- Try a new hobby. This can be mountain biking or karate. Just pick something neither of you have tried before and stick with it. You will learn something new and will spend a lot of time together in this process.
- Eat food you've never tried before. Make it a point to go to a restaurant that serves food you haven't tried at least once or twice a month. You will indulge your taste buds and have plenty of time for conversation.
Method 2 of 3: Be More Romantic
Step 1. Always look ready for romance
Even if you've been in the same relationship for five or twenty-five years, there's no reason for you to relax in your nightgown until dinner time out. While you don't have to dress a 9 every day of the week, act like you're starting a new relationship and choose your clothes carefully.
- Always be a fresh person. If you are trying to make your relationship more interesting, it will seem like you are open to the idea of making love anytime and anywhere. You should shower frequently, and keep your body fresh and clean so you don't refuse sex because you haven't showered.
- Dress neatly for date night. When you decide to go on a date night, you have to make a special effort to look presentable. You both need to dress more neatly than you need to just to feel good and have fun. Women can wear sexy, charming dresses and high heels, and their men can wear a nice suit or suit. You will feel more if you look sexier walking.
- Even if you don't have a date night, still look tidier than usual once in a while. This will make you want more romance.
- Don't forget to compliment your partner's appearance. So sweet and romantic. Tell him how handsome he looks, or how charming his blue eyes match his shirt.
Step 2. Go for a romantic date
If you're well-dressed and ready for romance, it's time to do something romantic. A romantic date will make your relationship more interesting and will make you more excited when the date ends. Here are some good romantic date ideas:
- Go see the stars. Really. Sit together and watch the stars. Take a bottle of wine and some chocolates with you. Pick a night where you know there's a full moon.
- Listen to romantic music together. Go to a jazz club and hold your partner's hand while you live the music. Dress neatly and watch the pianist's concert.
- Go try some wine together. Tasting some fine wines and strolling through wine-rich areas will put you in a romantic mood.
- Go for a walk. Take a hot air balloon walk, ride a horse, or even drive by the beach.
- Walk on the beach at sunset.
- Romantic picnic. Go to the garden and share some wine, a delicious salad, and some cheese and crackers.
- Romantic date inside your home. You can't go on a romantic date all the time, but you can make your environment more romantic ready. Cook a simple and delicious meal, dim the lights, and light the candles. Turn on some jazz and you'll be even more excited.
- Even if you can't date every night, you should schedule your date nights as often as possible. At least once a week.
Step 3. Make romance a part of your daily life
Whether you're in a hot air balloon or at the supermarket, you can always find a way to add romance to your relationship. You have to learn to think and be romantic wherever you are.
- Say something romantic in a creative way. Leave little footnotes around the house to let him know how much you love him and how much he means to him. Even a sticky note taped to the glass would help.
- Make romantic gestures. If you're a woman, kiss her at the most unexpected times and tell her how charming she is. If you are a man, be a gentle man. Pull up a chair, open the door, and give the woman her coat if she's cold, even if she insists she's not.
- Write a love poem to your partner. Do not be shy! Just pour out your heart. You could even go to the beach and spend an hour writing romantic notes or poems and swap them out for each other.
- Never forget to praise your partner for their best appearance. Tell him how much you love him every morning and afternoon, and before you go to bed.
- Stay romantic when you're apart. If you're both at work or one of you is away for a few days, don't forget to send a text, message, or voicemail saying how much you love him.
- Spend more time kissing. Making your relationship more interesting isn't just about making love. But it's also about enjoying every little thing about your loved one including a gentle kiss.
- Communication can be romantic. Make time to talk to share your thoughts and feelings with your loved ones. Take the time to write a loved one a long letter about how you feel.
Method 3 of 3: Getting More Naughty
Step 1. Get naughty with food
The right foods can make your relationship and love life more naughty and interesting. Don't be afraid to go naughty with your favorite sexy food. Here are some tricks to try:
- If you are a woman, get your man to pour some wine on your chest and lick it.
- Suck on a lollipop, mint, or an ice cube and then either kiss or please your partner. Enjoy new sensations.
- Eat when you are naked. If you eat sexy foods, such as fruits and chocolate, it will make you feel better.
- Prepare the cover for dinner. Put it on the naughty part of your body and let your partner eat it.
- Put some chocolate on your naked body and eat it. Don't use your hands - only use your mouth.
Step 2. Talk naughty
Naughty talk can help you feel more interested and will add spice to your relationship. Whether you're giving your partner some naughty talk under the covers, or via text message or on the phone, naughty talk can help put you in the naughty mood.
- Being naughty on the phone. Tell your partner what you hope he can do for you. Set up a meeting You can make fantasies come true, or have adult conversations.
- Talk naughty before starting. The right words will make your partner more excited even before you kiss him.
- Talking naughty when you make love. Let your partner know how you feel and how much you love their body.
- Send a naughty message. Send a sexy message saying you can't wait to meet up later. Just make sure that it's not in a place where people can read your messages.
Step 3. Watch something naughty
Watching something sexy with your money will put you in the mood faster than taking your shirt off. It will feel a little strange at first, but watching other people can make you more excited, not only will it excite you but it will also give you love and ideas.
- Watch sexy movies together like 9 1/2 weeks or Wild Orchids.
- Watch sexy TV shows. Watching people kissing, holding each other, or even making love on television will put you in a good mood.
- Be classic. See sexy pictures together. This is how excited people were before the advent of adult films.
- If you want, watch an adult movie together.
Step 4. Be spontaneous
Your relationship will be more interesting if you know that you can hook up at any time. While it's important to set up date night and make an effort to communicate and spend time together, it's also important not to plan too much.
- Take your partner for a midday walk and stay at a hotel to make love. Don't tell him where you really went until the last minute.
- If you want to have sex, do it. Unless your partner really doesn't want to, if you want to, don't be afraid to do it.
- Kissing when you are passionate. Kissing can make your relationship more interesting just like sex. If you feel like it, kiss your partner or go in for a kissing session at an unexpected place.
- Prepare for a surprise trip. Pack your things and take your partner at sunset. You'll be able to communicate and have good conversations on the way, and have some amazing and surprising intimacy when you arrive.
- If you're in a place where you can't find it, take your partner's hand and lead him home. Tell him, "I want you. Now." Then rushed to the bedroom to have sex.
Tips
- Not taking advantage of your love is another way to make your relationship more interesting. Don't forget to tell your partner how lucky you are to be in this relationship.
- Know the difference between a gloomy relationship and a relationship that needs a little change.
- Taking dance classes together is a great way to heat up the relationship and try something new.
