Attracting a man's attention sounds like something that requires the help of a magic spell, when in fact science has a big enough role to play in getting a man to fall in love with you. Once you've successfully aroused your initial interest in the guy, you should then work to create a lasting connection with him so that it opens the way for the first date, and subsequent dates. Using the power of body language, engaging conversation, and confidence can help get the guy you've been looking for.
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Method 1 of 3: Using Body Language
Step 1. Smile at him and keep your body signaling friendliness, as if ready to welcome him
Practice showing friendly body language by smiling at him when he talks. Your arms should be relaxed and not crossed or tense.
Don't hide your hand when talking to him. Showing him your hands and wrists so he can see the smooth skin that covers your arms has proven to be very attractive to men
Step 2. Tilt your head and look him in the eye as he speaks
Tilting your head shows that you are interested and involved in the conversation. Avoid keeping your gaze from wandering all over the place such as over his head, around the room, or to the cell phone in your hand. If you do, he will get the impression that you are not interested in him.
Step 3. Lean towards him
Leaning toward him is a way to let him know that you're in on the conversation without saying a word. This method works great if you're interacting with a group of people, but you want to signal that you chose him so he knows you're interested in him.
Leaning toward him unconsciously also means pulling him towards you
Step 4. Don't be afraid to blush in his presence
When we are attracted to someone, blood will rush to our face, causing our cheeks to turn red. This actually indicates that your body is gradually trying to attract the opposite sex. So blushing in front of a guy will let him know you're interested in him and send a signal that he's unlikely to go unnoticed.
Step 5. Position your feet so they are facing him
The position of your feet reflects your attitude towards someone. So if your feet are pointing at him, he'll pick up on it as a signal of interest. If your feet point toward the exit, he could take it as a sign that you're not interested.
Step 6. Don't use your handbag as a shield
The way you hold your bag when you're with a guy can actually be a form of nonverbal communication. For example, if you grip the bag tightly, or hold it in the front of your body, this indicates that you are uncomfortable and nervous while holding the bag casually by your side or not holding the bag at all shows that you are attracted to him and feel relaxed when you are with him..
Method 2 of 3: Using Conversation
Step 1. Show your willingness to share little things about yourself with him
Revealing small things about yourself makes a bigger impact than casual small talk and can create a more intimate bond between the two of you. These little things could be something as simple as telling him how many siblings you have, that you're from a small town, or that you like jazz. Revealing personal details shows that you are starting to trust them. If he responds with small, intimate things about himself, there's no doubt that you're both on the way to building a more serious relationship.
- Be careful not to rush to reveal too much. Telling more about yourself as time goes on or on multiple dates can help foster attraction to each other.
- Deeper questions like, “How is your relationship with your mother?” Or “What do you think of children?” should only be proposed after a few dates and after you have built trust and mutual understanding.
Step 2. Find a topic of conversation that you both enjoy
Fun conversations can be attractive to men, especially if the two of you are talking about things you can both enjoy and agree on. Rules that say avoiding the topic of religion, politics, or money during a date may be outdated, but focusing on topics like your favorite travel destinations or favorite television shows can be a way to keep the conversation going and for both of you to enjoy.
- Finding common ground also shows him that you're interested enough to find ways to make a connection with his tastes and preferences. Even if you don't always agree on everything, finding ways to build mutual understanding can strengthen your relationship.
- If you know he's a sports fan and you like sports too, ask him: "So what did you think of last night's game?" Or if your interests tend toward pop culture, bring up the topic of the latest addicting shows on Netflix, or about the celebrities you idolize.
Step 3. Don't be shy about expressing your opinion
Avoid being passive in the conversation or agreeing with everything he says. Voicing your opinion shows that you have the intelligence to think for yourself and are not afraid to be honest. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes.
If he asks direct questions, such as "What's your favorite place you've been?" or “What do you look for in someone?” give an honest answer then ask him the same question. This will show that you are interested in keeping the conversation going. It also shows that you have a frank and honest demeanor, which is attractive to most men
Method 3 of 3: Using Confidence and Knowledge
Step 1. Show that you have the ability to perform well
It's important to maintain a certain level of personal hygiene (brushing your teeth and combing your hair, showering regularly) but it's even more important to dress in a style that makes you feel confident and strong. This means you are free to wear a tight dress and high heels or jeans and a t-shirt. Showing the right look through clothes, makeup (or no makeup) and overall look will show him that you're not afraid to be yourself.
Most men are attracted to women who dress according to what they think is sexy, rather than following the male definition of sexy
Step 2. Do activities together that make you feel confident and strong
Instead of spending time with him doing activities that don't interest you or pique your interest, suggest activities that you both enjoy and are satisfying while doing. This could be rock climbing together or having an intimate meal together. Sharing the things you love with him can also bring the two of you closer to each other and make your relationship stronger.
Step 3. Try to bring out the best in each one
Do this by giving him encouragement for his passions and giving him support for the goals he wants to achieve, and expect him to do the same for you. As your relationship strengthens, remember to always bring out the positive side of each other. This will ensure that you both feel comfortable with each other and want to stay together for a long time.
