Flirting is sometimes considered an art form, giving it the impression of being difficult and scary. However, in reality flirting is just a way to signal to the other person that you are interested in him or her. Gentle flirting is a great way to get to know someone slowly while deciding whether you want to be in a relationship with them or not.
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Method 1 of 2: Flirting with Men
Step 1. Be confident in your flirting abilities
If you're not confident, just pretend until you can. Smile, try not to tremble, and look the guy in the eye when you talk to him. Generally you only need to do a few steps to get a guy interested in you.
Step 2. Laugh, joke, and keep the topic light
Humor is one of the best silence breakers out there. The occasional joke will show him that you're spontaneous, fun, and easy-going, which may be traits your guy likes.
Step 3. Use body language that is open and gives the impression that you are interested
Body language is a secret weapon for flirting that is generally forgotten. Not only does body language work, but it doesn't go overboard in letting the guy know that you're interested in him. Here's how to flirt with body language:
- Turn your shoulders and hips towards him.
- Twist your hair.
- Look into his eyes.
- Nod your head and smile as he speaks.
- Avoid folding your arms, looking down or looking away, and staring blankly when he talks.
Step 4. Smile
A smile is the best way to flirt with someone. Show off your pearly white teeth every chance you get and your man will smile back.
Step 5. Touch him gently
Breaking down the physical boundaries between two people is a great way to differentiate flirtation from just friends. Gently touch his shoulder or knee, or place your hand on his back for a moment as you go to the restroom.
Want something more challenging? Invite him to play domikado or make a secret handshake together
Step 6. Be sincere
The quickest way to make your guy lose interest is to lie about your crush. Ask him questions, laugh only when you find it really funny, and don't forget to be natural. If you can have fun, chances are your flirting will work. However, if you can't be sincere with your crush, he may not be the right person for you.
Step 7. Avoid questions that are quite heavy and cornering
Don't ask questions about her marriage, past relationships, or her desire to have children. These questions are quite heavy and complex and are usually asked when the relationship has been around for a long time. Remember, flirting should be fun and not serious.
Religion, politics and income are some of the topics of conversation to avoid
Step 8. Understand when to stop
Flirting can go from fun to scary quickly if you don't know when to stop. If your guy wants to meet up with his friends, keep averting his eyes and check his watch, or simply answer him, you need to stop flirting and give him some space.
Method 2 of 2: Get Guys to Look at You
Step 1. Dress nicely when you meet the man you are looking for
Looking good sends a good signal to people that you are interested in finding a partner or just a date. However, you don't need to step out of your comfort zone. Wear something that makes you feel beautiful and comfortable.
Step 2. Watch him from afar
Sometimes to get a guy to glance at you takes more than just a glance. If you can look into the eyes of your target man, don't look away. Smile for a moment or wave before returning to playing with your phone.
Step 3. Talk to him every chance you get
Talking is the best way to build a relationship with someone. By talking, you show interest and you can get to know each other which then provides so many opportunities to flirt. Here are some talking tips:
- Find a topic that you both enjoy. Maybe you liked the same television show, used to cook a lot, or grew up in the same area.
- Ask a question. Show your interest by asking about her life, instead of telling her about yours.
- Make a joke. An occasional chuckle can be a great way to show your crush that you're secretly interested.
Step 4. Be open and approachable
The guy you want should be able to talk to you without feeling guilty because he feels too aggressive. Separate yourself from your group of friends once in a while, smile often, and give him a chance to approach you without feeling overwhelmed.
Step 5. Approach him first
Most men like to be approached by women. Be confident in your beauty, then take a deep breath, and approach the man you are looking for to start a conversation.
- Buy him a drink.
- Ask questions about him, his surroundings, his shirt, etc.
- Call him casually by saying, “I saw you from across the bar earlier. What's your name?"
Step 6. Peck him gently
Slightly irritating is actually a good way to get a guy's attention. Make sure that your jokes don't touch anything serious. You can tease him when he spills a drink or says something silly. Teasing is generally done because you want to tease because teasing shows that you want to have fun and be silly.
Make sure you want to be harassed back. That's a sign he's trying to seduce you
Tips
- Calm and relaxed. Getting too excited to talk to or see her can make you look weird.
- Her lyrics. Make sure he's aware that you're watching him and that you both stare at each other for a few seconds. After that, immediately move your gaze, and glance at him again, as if he's very attractive and you can't stop glancing at him. When you stare at him for a few seconds, smile sexy at him, then don't glance at him again.
- Smile a little. Don't smile so wide that your mouth hurts.
- Use body language such as touching his arm or approaching him.
Warning
- Don't act like someone else and don't be yourself. Men don't like that.
- Don't stare at him all the time. He will be embarrassed if he is not interested in you.
