Stimulating a guy is easy if you know what to do. To stimulate a guy, you need to have confidence, know how to flirt, and learn to be sexy and bold when you're kissing or heading to the bedroom. If you want to know how to stimulate a man in just a few minutes, follow these easy steps.
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Method 1 of 3: Flirting with Men
Step 1. Seduce him through your body language
If you know how to flirt with a guy without having to say anything, he'll turn on, quickly. If you know how to use your body language, you don't even have to say hello to the guy to make him feel attractive and sexy. The little things you do with your body can make a big impact. Here are some ways to flirt with your body language:
- Maintain eye contact with the man, but not for too long. Look at the guy, stare into his eyes long enough for him to see how sexy you are, then look away. This will show that you're not afraid to look at him, and that you're also blushing to stare at him for too long.
- Keep your body position open. Don't fold your arms across your chest, or cross your legs. Your body should be sending the message, "Hi, how are you?"
- If you're wearing an outfit with a zipper or necklace, play the parts near your cleavage to get her attention.
- Find a way to get in touch with men. When you're already talking, lightly touch his knee, touch his hand, or clap your hand on his forearm when you laugh. Do it without exaggeration, so that he wants more. Don't linger at this stage.
- Every now and then, lick your lips. If he's watching you from the other end of the room, take the time to apply lip balm.
Step 2. Say seductive words
When you've managed to attract a guy with your body language and he wants to get to know you better, you need to excite him even more with your words. To say something tempting, you just need to have fun. Show that you know how to laugh and flirt, and turn the guy on even more if you don't say anything out of the ordinary. Here are a few ways to do this:
- Keep the conversation light. Remember to keep it nice, and the guy will want you more. Flirting doesn't mean being too serious, it just shows that you're interested and having fun.
- Maintain eye contact when you speak. Make the man feel important. Every now and then, breaking eye contact to look at your feet or blushing, the guy will think you're shy and will be even more attracted to you.
- Speak in a soft tone. You don't have to whisper, but you should speak in a low voice so that it sounds sexy and makes the guy lean on you or come closer to you.
- Flirt with the man. Show that you are comfortable playing games, and he will want to tease you too. Showing that you don't take yourself too seriously will make the guy think you're great in the bedroom.
Step 3. Seduce through your actions
Any man will be turned on if you can flirt by being confident, independent, sexy, and brave. When a guy understands you more and more because of the way you act, he's bound to be hooked. Here are ways to excite a man with your actions:
- Be confident. Horny man with confident woman. If you can be confident when you talk to a guy or tell him about yourself, he'll think you're confident in the bedroom too.
- Be independent. Men get horny with women who don't need them. Let the guy know about all the things you'd rather do yourself, and tell him about your busy weekend activities. Men will not be aroused by a woman who is constantly dependent, who has nothing else to do but always "stick" to him.
- Sexy style. You don't have to be cheesy when you show a little leg or cleavage. Just show a few parts of your body, and don't be afraid to make some raunchy jokes or make some sexy sarcasm if the mood feels right. The man will be even more excited about your sexiness.
- Be brave. Men get horny with bold women, whether it's in terms of choosing a cup of coffee or in the middle of a make out session. Be bold by doing something unexpected, like wearing something sexy and looking fabulous, or dancing on the dance floor in a crowd.
Method 2 of 3: Stimulating a Guy with a Kiss
Step 1. Master the french kiss
French kissing is a fairly basic technique, but if you really want to stimulate a guy, you need to be able to get the basic technique right. While you don't have to kiss perfectly the first time you do it, remember that kissing is the gateway to other sexy activities. So if you show him that you're a kisser, he'll be even more excited because he'll be curious about what else he can get from you. Here's how to master the french kiss:
- Don't get too excited. Gently put your tongue in his mouth and explore the inside of his mouth. Do not stimulate with your tongue first, until the atmosphere feels right.
- Stay gentle. Slowly and gently, move your tongue inside the man's mouth. Don't poke his throat or leave your spit everywhere.
- Don't neglect the rest of your body. Move your hands around his back, shoulders, and neck, pressing your chest against his body.
- If you are tired of the french kiss, combine it with other kissing variations.
Step 2. Close the "A frame" area
This is another sexy variation of the regular french kiss, in which you are standing about 1/2-1 meter from your man while you are kissing, so you have to lean on each other, and reach for each other to get closer.
Eventually, you'll be rubbing your hips with the guy every time you move back after you're apart, and this means he won't be able to get his hands off you
Step 3. Kiss him on the rest of the body
Kissing is not only done between two pairs of lips. You will stimulate a man even more if you maximize your kissing ability by kissing him all over his body. If you're just starting out, you can kiss him on his neck, upper chest, and even behind his earlobe.
- If you have undressed, you can try kissing her belly, above her belt area.
- Tell him that you will kiss him anywhere, except his lips. It will stimulate him even more.
Step 4. Don't be afraid to bite
Once you're comfortable with the guy, you can increase the intensity of the kiss by adding a few bites to your routine. Just try a few subtle bites on different parts of the guy's body, and he'll be even more aroused. Here are a few bite spots that will really stimulate a man:
- Give him a soft bite on the earlobe.
- Try a few gentle bites on the neck, but be careful not to leave any marks.
- Biting her lip in the middle of the kiss.
- If her clothes have come off, don't be afraid to bite her chest, or even her nipples. Nipples are also a sexually sensitive area for men.
Method 3 of 3: Stimulating Him in Bed
Step 1. Go on an adventure
To stimulate him, you have to show that you are open to connecting in any way that feels good. If you want to have sex in the same place and in the same position every time, he won't be as aroused as if you are open to everything. Here's how to be adventurous when you have sex:
- Making love in a new place. Choose new corners or rooms of your home to make love, stay at a hotel, or make love in secret or scandalous locations. He will be aroused by your adventurous spirit.
- Making love to a new position. While the guy may like it when you're always on top, he'll like it even more if you combine and try to do new positions every time he walks into the bedroom.
- Sexy moments with water. Make love under the shower, or in the pool, or in the hot tub. The guy will be more aroused if you can be sexy in almost every scenario.
Step 2. Be spontaneous
If you want to excite the guy, you must not only be ready for anything, but you must also be ready for it all the time. If you only venture out during your planned intercourse time, it will start to feel like a routine. Here are some hot ways to be more spontaneous:
- Have sex whenever you want, even if the two of you were previously watching television. Show him that you want and he will follow you into the bedroom.
- If you're in a public place and really want to do it, just whisper your wish in his ear and go somewhere more private.
- Surprise him when he wakes up or before taking a shower. Men are always open to the possibility of having sex suddenly.
Step 3. Be a little naughty
Men like it when you feel good about yourself to the point of being a little naughty. Whether you talk dirty, or just do something vulgar, he'll be turned on before you can even rip his clothes off. Here are things that can be done:
- Try some dirty sayings in the bedroom. Let him know how much you like what he did to you and let him know what more you want.
- Tell him your sexual fantasies, no matter how naughty or dirty those fantasies are. See if he can fulfill it for you.
- Tie his hands to the bedpost and do what you want with him. Do this alternately.
- Go to a sex shop and find some sexy underwear, and maybe some sex toys too. Buy whatever you feel you like.
Step 4. Have fun with some new sex scenarios
Any man is guaranteed to turn on if you combine a sex session with some raunchy roles or scenarios. Trying out different scenarios will not only heat up your sex life, it will also add to the fun while exploring your body and desires in new ways. Here are some fun scenarios to try:
- You pretend to be the boss and have complete control over him until he allows you to do whatever you want. Next, switch roles.
- Try having sex with almost all of your clothes on. Or, have sex with only one person wearing clothes.
- Pretend that the two of you are in a big fight and have sex to "make it up again."
- Put on some raunchy costumes from the sex shop and try on some roles.
- Dress very formally and pretend the two of you are going away for a special occasion. Then, take off each other's clothes and move on.
Step 5. Make sure that he always thinks he will be in touch with you
Even though you may not be having sex, sex is never far from a man's mind. Whether you're sitting across from you or next to you at the dinner table, you should always keep him aroused and wanting more. Here are a few ways to do this:
- Still look sexy. Whether you've been dating for a few months or just finished your second date, make sure to keep it hot. Show your body and keep yourself clean, so the guy always wants more.
- Make sure that the guy is thinking about sex when you're not around. Send him a naughty message, have sex over the phone, or simply call him to remind him of something sexy that happened in bed the night before.
- Let him know that you want him. Tell him this when the time feels right, even if it's a moment you're unlikely to get. This will make him want you even more.
Tips
- Men love confidence, so keep your head up!
- Walk around the house seductively. No matter what he did, he would stop, stare, and want more.
- Men also like it when women take the lead, so men don't always feel pressured to do everything.
- Be a nice and calm woman, but still fun.
- Men like unpredictable women. Show him that you are ready for all the possibilities and new positions when making love. For more tips on how to please men, check out magazines like "Cosmopolitan" and the like.
- Smile seductively.
- Apply a clear lip balm or "Vaseline" to the center of your upper and lower lips. This will make both of them look thicker. Perfect!
- Get to know his friends. It's possible that when he talks to them, they might say something about you too.
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