Each woman is different. So is the generator of his passion. So you have to adapt the words you say to a woman. However, there are some things that can excite almost any woman; with a note, they are in a relationship with you. Make sure you spend enough time talking to your partner because slow and sexy communication will do much better than rushed communication.
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Part 1 of 2: Doing It
Step 1. Make sure you say it directly
When you want to excite a woman with words, your voice is very important here; don't try to excite a girl through MSN, IM, or texting. Of course you can use these methods, but your seduction will be more effective if he can hear your sexy voice.
Try using the deepest voice when talking to your lover. Studies show that men with deep voices have more sexual partners. The reason is that women are more attracted to men with loud voices. However, that doesn't mean you have to tone down your voice if that's not how you actually sound. Your lover's passion will not rise. However, if you always use the highest pitch when speaking, try lowering it when you talk to him
Step 2. Build the mood
When you start talking to him, you need to build the mood by saying things like "I can't stop thinking about you," or "I've missed hearing your voice all day." This will build closeness between you and let him know that you are in need of intimacy. Make sure you are alone and in a supportive and comfortable environment. Don't arouse his passion in public.
- Other things to say: "I never thought it would turn out like this, but when I'm away from you, I miss you," or "You look beautiful as always." Keep compliments short and sweet. Compliments that are too long can be misinterpreted.
- Don't compare her to other women. Even if you say she's smarter, prettier, or funnier, avoid making comparisons. He doesn't want to be compared to other women because he doesn't want you to think about other women. He just wants you to think of him alone. If he thinks you're thinking about another woman, his passion can be extinguished instantly.
Step 3. Ask him good questions
Ask him something that will give him the opportunity to answer at length, such as, "Tell me what you've been up to today," or "What are your plans this weekend?" These kinds of questions will make him talk, as well as show you care for him.
- Asking good questions also shows that you are interested in the words. Women want to be sexy "and" attractive. For him, a good conversation is a way to build a sexy atmosphere.
- If he answers curtly, ask him more questions to show that you care and really want to know. Make him talk about the things he is interested in and listen carefully.
- If you can, try to be funny and playful. Girls like guys who are funny and good at having fun. If you can make him laugh and feel happy, you will easily arouse his passion. Try to find a joke that you think he will like and train yourself to tell it, or start making jokes that only the two of you understand so you can pop them when you feel you need to have a joke.
Step 4. Keep praising him at the right time
If he asks how you were that day, let him know that you've been thinking about him. You can add to the excitement by praising him. However, don't overdo it. You can say "I can't stop thinking about you and your sexy smile.".
- Keep the conversation dynamic by asking him questions and showing interest in his answers. You excite him by giving him lots of simple compliments. Make sure you've thought of the little things you can say to make her feel special.
- Girls like it when you notice something about them that they like too. So, if you know he likes the color of his eyes, compliment his eye color ("I love seeing your eyes light up when you smile"). If she likes her hair, say something like "Your hair looks so soft and silky. Don't you know that your hair makes you so beautiful?"
- Start giving compliments that are a little sexier. If he says things like "Ouch, stop praising me!" or "You could!" while giggling, continue to give sexy compliments. You are on the right path.
Step 5. Start a conversation that grazes your naughty plans
Make sure the things you say are sexy and romantic, not gross and disgusting. Don't get too excited when you start talking about what you want to do. You have to build the atmosphere first.
- You'll have to think of your own words, but one good example is: "When we meet, I want to stroke your hair and kiss you. I want to massage your back while I bite your neck. I want to lie down next to you and caress your soft curves." etc. Try to be creative. You can use lots of imaginative images and words.
- Here are some other compliments you can use: "I thought of you when I woke up this morning. The night before I went to bed, I thought of you too. You know what goes through my head? I think of us together, cuddled in bed. It makes me happy."
- Another thing you could say: "You give me goosebumps. Every time you touch me, I go crazy inside because I know only you can do that to me. Nobody is as smart as you. Even your smile makes me flower."
Step 6. Make him feel special
In your own way, make her feel like the sexiest woman in the world. Make him think sexy things about you. Guaranteed he won't stop thinking about you even if the conversation is over. This is the most important thing when it comes to arousing a woman. Don't make him feel like he's just an object.
When trying to excite him with words, make sure he feels like he's the only one who can make you talk like that. Let him know how lucky you are to be with him
Part 2 of 2: Warming Up
Step 1. Say that you want it
One of the most basic things you can say to lighten the mood is these simple words: "I want you." You can add other variations, but saying this sentence lets a girl know how much you want to be physically close to her and may be enough to turn her on. Look him in the eye and show you're not shy about getting what you want and need. Here are other things you can say:
- "I really want you right now."
- "All day I want you."
- "Never have I wanted you like this before."
- "That dress you're wearing makes me want you so much, more than ever."
Step 2. Compliment her body
When you reach the next stage, you can compliment your partner's body in a bolder way. As long as you're sure he's up for the game and willing to accept compliments about his body other than his face, you can up your game by complimenting the parts of your body that excite you. Make sure you don't offend him and that your comments about his body parts are accepted. Here are some things you can say:
- "Your chest looks amazing in that dress."
- "Your legs are beautiful."
- "I love watching how your hips move."
Step 3. Tell him what you want him to do
Now that you know what you want to do to your partner's body, you can take a step forward and convey your wishes to his body. You can be more direct if you want, but it's better to say enough so that he can imagine your hands exploring his body. Supposedly, this was more than enough to excite him. Here are some things you can say:
- "I want to caress your thighs."
- "I can't wait to kiss the base of your neck."
- "I want to caress and kiss every inch of your body."
Step 4. Say what kind of treatment you expect from him
While continuing to excite your partner with words, you can tell him what to do with your body. This will give him a sexy shadow and turn him on in no time. Of course, make sure he's done these things before so you don't surprise him or come across as too vulgar. Here are some things you can say to him:
- "I want you to take off my shirt."
- "I want you to kiss my chest and shoulders."
- "I want you to get on top of me and start kissing my neck."
Step 5. Describe what effect he has on your body
If you want to turn your partner on, you shouldn't be shy about telling him how he excites you just by looking at him. He will feel excited knowing you feel excited just by being around him. Here are some ways to make the effect it has on you:
- "I'm so excited just being around you."
- "You excite me so much."
- “My whole body is shaking just by looking at you. You must not know how you can make me feel so excited.”
Step 6. Reveal your fantasy
Another way to excite your partner is to share your fantasies with him. These fantasies can relate to role-playing, sexy things you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you, or your dream place to do intimate things. Don't be afraid to share what you've always dreamed of and see if you can make it happen together or not.
Let him reveal his fantasies too. Both of you will be even more excited about it
Step 7. Try texting after that to keep her feeling sexy
While it's best to make your partner passionate with words in person, you can make them feel sexy even after saying goodbye by sending a sexy message afterward. That way, he knows you're still thinking about him and his body. Try to keep the message short and sweet, but meaningful enough to get him excited and ready for the next meeting. Here are some things you can say:
- "I can't stop thinking about what happened last night. I can't wait to see you again."
- "When I close my eyes, all I can see is your beautiful body."
- “Last night was amazing. I can't wait to hug you again."
Tips
- Don't overuse this tactic. He will realize that your compliments are only for sex and this can easily destroy your relationship.
- Make him feel wanted so that he is attracted to you. If you see him not talking much, try asking romantic questions while holding his hand. Try to be creative. Remember, indecent things can destroy a relationship.
- Painful silences can be avoided by taking things slowly and heating them up when they are ready.
- Don't praise him too much, as this will increase his awareness of your efforts. As a result, he will know that you are trying to go further.
- For this trick to work, you have to say it in a confident, sexy voice.
- If after making one of those sexy compliments or suggestions he doesn't react at all or doesn't say a word for a long time, it could be that you scare him because he's too enthusiastic or he really enjoys your words. You have to find out how he really feels. (If you're in a situation where you can't figure it out, take physical action, but don't do anything sexual until it's clear he wants it.)
