Is your relationship with your partner starting to feel bland? Do you want your love relationship to be more interesting? Maybe you need to make things more fun. Whatever it is that makes you want to excite your partner, we have a way to help. Read the suggestions below.
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Part 1 of 3: Mental Stimulation
Step 1. Put on perfume
This is a fundamental way to excite a man. You can choose a perfume that you know he will like, but you should choose a perfume with a musky scent, as this smells close to the smells associated with sex.
- Avoid perfumes with strong scents and perfumes that smell like "mothers".
- Make sure you wear perfume correctly.
Step 2. Use body language
Use your body language to convey ideas about sex to his brain. Eat ice cream in a sensual style when you date him. Move your hands up and down your thighs as you sit alone on the couch. Lean while talking to him. Bend in a dramatic way when picking up something from the floor. There are lots of ways to get him to start imagining things related to sex, so make the most of the situation.
Step 3. Whisper something in his ear
Whisper words that are a little seductive, a little naughty, and very arousing. The whispering voice and the closeness of your lips as you whisper the words slowly and sensually will make him beg to take you to bed.
"So, what do you want to do now?", "You are very seductive.", "What do you want me to do to you?", and so on. You definitely know what to say
Step 4. Let him see a bit of your underwear
Step 1, wear sexy bright colored underwear; Step 2, position it so that it pops up slightly above the jeans as you bend over; Step 3, show. Or let him see it. Either way, it's good for both of you.
Step 5. Show that you are passionate too
If he knows that you're passionate, it will excite him more than anything else. If he touches you in the right place or says something that turns your passion on, tell him that. You can also text him or use some other way to let him know that you're excited.
Try saying, "Oh my gosh, I want you right now" or "I can't stop thinking about what you're going to do to me."
Step 6. Bite your lips while chatting
Congratulations: right now he must be thinking about your lips. Very easy, right? Bite your lips while looking at him from under your eyelashes, this will show that you are ready to make love to him, it's just that you are too polite to say it directly.
Part 2 of 3: Physical Temptation
Step 1. Touch him
Touching him lightly on the arm or moving your hand up and down his thigh while he's watching TV on the couch will make him want to be touched all over before you know it. Remember to use light touch and squeeze in the right places and try to touch sensitive areas (back of neck, jaw line, chest, lower back, etc.).
Step 2. Massage her body
Tell him to take off his clothes, then rub the oil on his body and start massaging. You yourself must be scantily clad when massaging it. The massage will improve blood circulation, and since he feels your hands all over his body and the oil makes your touch so slippery, he won't be able to hold back anymore.
Step 3. Start dancing (it's not as hard as you think)
A man's passion will rise if his woman is spontaneous, confident, and does something she didn't expect. You don't have to go to the dance floor, just play some music at home, then invite him to dance with you, and move your body as much as you can. Shake your body naturally and take the opportunity to attach your body to it. Trust me, it's enough to excite him.
Step 4. Lead the hand to touch the body part you want
Taking control of the situation will make a man very excited. Take her hand and lead her to your bottom while giving her a seductive look or whispering something in her ear. Leading his hand where you want him will show that you are passionate and that you want him. For men, this is very sexy.
Step 5. Give it a small bite
Bite his ear a little, then run your tongue from his ear to his neck: indicate that you want to eat him. This sensation will turn him on and get his mind off of where he wants you to lick and feel.
Step 6. Try the temperature game
This can be a powerful stimulant. For example, when he's undressed and you're kissing his chest, give him a long lick and then blow. The warmth followed by the cold would give his body so much sensation that it was hard to focus. This will really ignite his passion.
Don't forget the old ice cube little trick
Part 3 of 3: Increasing Intensity
Step 1. Take off your clothes while dancing slowly
You don't need to have the skills of a stripper in a nightclub. Just turn on some sexy music (e.g. "Cangote" by Céu) and twist your body while slowly undressing, he'll be rushing you right away.
Step 2. Try a role-playing game
This will be fun and make both of you more detached and get more enjoyment in the physical relationship. Give him a chance to choose his own fantasy or surprise him by preparing a scenario, complete with costumes and all necessary equipment.
Try to choose a game that interests him. You can take ideas from comic books, movies, school fantasies, or video games, you'll know what he likes
Step 3. Try something out of the ordinary
A little out of the ordinary sex won't hurt anyone, as long as you both keep playing it safe. Diversifying a physical relationship with something out of the ordinary can really spice up a relationship. You don't have to choose a strange idea, choose a way that still feels comfortable and make sure your partner likes it too. Maybe you like being handcuffed?
Letting him choose an idea that has only been a fantasy for so long can be a tremendous passion generator. Be open to what he wants to try, don't judge. This will imply that he doesn't have to be embarrassed or uncomfortable with you, and will definitely turn him on a lot
Step 4. Try some new positions
If the two of you have only been in the missionary position, he may be a little bored. Maybe you're bored yourself too! Re-energize both of you and add variety to the relationship by trying new positions in bed. Although it has drawbacks when compared to the 69 position, the 77 position is still fun and easy to do, men also usually like the woman's position on top.
Step 5. Take a bath together
There is a hot shower and soap which can make things feel slippery. This is a very powerful way to get him excited and try something new. Give him a bath, let him bathe you too, and see what happens next.
Step 6. Try sex toys
Vibrators aren't just for lonely women: sex aids can work wonders when used with a partner. If you are new to sex toys, use a small cordless vibrator (the simplest form, usually the size of an egg). Swipe around his testicles during sex and feel how much he's ready to explode.
Tips
If you're new to dating, he'll usually feel passionate about himself. This article is more aimed at couples who have been in a relationship for a long time
Warning
- Do not rush; take your time. The longer you do it, the more stimulation accumulates in him. He will obey you all night long.
- Choose carefully what you do with certain types of men, because different men will react differently when their passion is aroused.
- Don't stick around. Give him space, so that when you touch him, he will really feel the touch.
- Arousing his passion is not always about having sex. Get to know some of the alternatives and plan to do something that is both fun and comfortable for both of you.
- Don't be too pushy or pushy. Find out if your partner wants to be stimulated by assessing their reactions. Recognize the half-hearted "stop" that is said with a smile, and compare it to the uncomfortable "stop" that is accompanied by a frown.
