Maybe you're a little scared and nervous about asking a girl to be your boyfriend, and you'd really like to know what you can do to make her really like you. Get his attention by complimenting him, asking him what he's interested in, and being yourself. There are many ways to express your desire to be his girlfriend. Accepted or not, appreciate the answer and be proud because you have dared to ask his heart.
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Method 1 of 3: Catch His Attention
Step 1. Pay attention to your appearance and personal hygiene
This is a simple way to make your girl crush more attractive. Bathe regularly so that your hair and body smell good, and choose clothes that make you feel confident and attractive.
Little things like combing her hair or putting on the right clothes are very likely to grab her attention
Step 2. Hold eye contact
When you catch him looking at you, try to hold eye contact for a few seconds before smiling and looking the other way. This is a sign that you really like him and will make him attracted to you.
- When talking to him, look him in the eye to form a meaningful connection.
- Try not to look him in the eye for more than three seconds because it looks a bit scary.
Step 3. Display positive body language to show that you care about him
You can stand or sit next to him, and turn your body towards him. Smile a lot when he's around, and pay attention to any physical cues he's giving to see if he likes you too.
- Sit or stand up straight for good posture.
- Don't cross your arms so you seem more friendly and approachable.
- If he likes you too, he may come closer, play with your hair, smile more often, or bite his lip.
Step 4. Compliment him to show interest
Compliments should be sincere and state what you like about them as a person, not just focus on appearances. For example, say that you admire his personality, like how he treats friends and family, or that you think he's great at work or school.
- Compliment her for her sporting abilities or artistic spirit.
- Say, “Your smile is cute” or “You can always make me laugh.”
Step 5. Make him laugh to show your humorous side
Tell him a joke or a funny story, or tease him a little to make him laugh. If you manage to make him laugh, he'll be more comfortable and more attracted to you at the same time.
- Tell a funny story that happened to you as a child.
- Tease him about something silly, like his doll collection or cute habits.
Step 6. Use a hug or light touch to show that you are comfortable with him
Gently touch his arm, give him a brief hug when meeting or apart, or wrap your arm around his shoulder when sitting or standing close together. Small touches are a great way to show that you're interested without being aggressive.
- Squeeze his hand gently when walking side by side.
- Touch his shoulder when talking, or squeeze his knee slightly if sitting close together.
Step 7. Show confidence by being yourself
Don't try to be different just to get a girl to like you. Generally, women find natural self-confidence an attractive feature. So even the girl of your dreams is likely to fall in love with you if you were yourself.
- Don't be too serious and afraid to laugh at yourself.
- If you believe in yourself for who you are, he'll notice that and feel more comfortable around you.
Method 2 of 3: Connecting
Step 1. Communicate often to get to know each other better
Communication can be done through text messages, social media, or written messages. By chatting every day, you will get to know each other and also as a sign that you think about him often.
- Send a simple text message that says, “Have a nice day” or “What are your plans this weekend?”
- Slip a note in his book or bag, which he'll find later.
- Do not send consecutive messages. A few messages a day is fine, but if he doesn't reply, it's best to reduce the frequency of your messages.
Step 2. Ask him a few questions to show that you're interested
This is not only to get to know him better, but he will also appreciate your efforts. Ask about school or work, family, and interests.
- Ask him what he enjoys doing on the weekends, his favorite series, or his favorite restaurant.
- If you're able to chat naturally, he'll probably ask you questions too, as a sign that he wants to get to know you too.
Step 3. Forge closer bonds by looking for common ground
For example, you both love sports, study the same field of study, or enjoy contributing to society. Bonds formed through shared hobbies or interests will strengthen relationships, as well as ideas for fun activities to do together.
- If you both enjoy nature, you can take her on a hike or a walk when the weather is nice.
- Maybe you both enjoy reading, watching horror movies, or playing board games.
Step 4. Remember the little things he once mentioned
When he talks, make sure you listen carefully. Talk back to what he's told you before, such as a favorite activity, a place he wants to visit, or a food he likes best.
- If he ever mentions that he likes chocolate, surprise him by bringing him chocolate when you meet him.
- Take her to a park or store she says she likes, or play her favorite music when you're in the car with her.
- You can also send a message that says, “I remember you said yesterday that you were stressed because you had an important exam today. Keep your spirits up!"
Step 5. Ask her out and do something special for her
Make special dishes, take her on a trip somewhere, or make fun gestures like bringing her food when she's sick or helping her with chores. Your willingness to take the time to do something with him and think carefully about your plans will show how much you care.
- Take him bowling, go to the movies, or play mini golf.
- Arrange a picnic for the two of you in the park or backyard.
- Ask him how the perfect date thinks and plan a date like that.
Step 6. Express your feelings
By expressing your feelings, he already knows what your intentions are when you ask him to be your girlfriend. Say how you feel, either by slipping it into casual chat or with a special gesture. Also ask how he feels, if you will.
- You can say, "I like you and want to get to know you better."
- Tell us how you felt at a romantic dinner or when you went out for a walk in a beautiful place.
- If you've spoken, and he doesn't seem to feel the same way, respect his feelings.
Method 3 of 3: Ask Him To Be Your Boyfriend
Step 1. Talk to him in person, if possible
It's best not to express your desire through text messages or social media because it's impersonal, and you won't be able to see his real reaction. Even if you are nervous, he will appreciate your effort and courage.
- If you're nervous, try practicing in front of a mirror first.
- You don't have to make a perfect plan. Normal chatter will suffice, then move on to other topics.
Step 2. Add a personal touch if you text her to be your boyfriend
Send a simple message, like “Would you like to be my girlfriend?” and add the appropriate emoji,-g.webp
- You can send a message that says, “I've liked you since the first time you smiled at me. Will you be my lover?"
- Asking a girl to be your girlfriend via text is highly discouraged because it's always better to do it in person.
Step 3. State your wishes frankly
If you want to ask a no-frills question, meet him alone and ask, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?" or similar questions. Women love clarity, and honesty is able to show your intentions in a polite and respectful way.
Ask him to be your girlfriend when you're out for a walk, at dinner, or when you're enjoying time together
Step 4. Write a letter for a romantic statement
If you're too nervous to talk face-to-face or want to explain your feelings in more detail, letters can be an option. Write down everything you want to say, and add the question “Would you like to be my girlfriend?” at the end of the letter.
- Write as short or as long as you want. You can also write a letter that is more like a short message, starting with a nice word and then a core question.
- Write down the good times you had with him, what you liked about him, or how he changed your feelings.
- When you're done, you can ask him to read the letter in front of you, or just give it to him to read later.
Step 5. Ask indirectly so that the impression is more relaxed
Instead of deliberately asking if he wants to be your girlfriend, there are other ways to get answers without direct questions. For example, ask, "When I introduce you to someone, should I introduce you as a friend or girlfriend?"
- Questions like, “What did you say about us to your friends?” will direct the conversation in such a way that you can continue by asking, "Do you mind if I tell you you're my boyfriend?"
- You can also invite him to certain events with the status of more than just a date to show that you are serious.
Step 6. Compliment him before asking to explain how you feel
Instead of directly asking, explain what you like about him. This creates a more natural chat and shows that you really want to date him.
- For example, “I really enjoy spending time with you and I think you are smart and awesome. Will you be my lover?"
- You can compliment him by saying he's nice, has a nice smile, or is really funny.
Step 7. Ask in a creative way to seem unique
Make sign language asking “Do you want to be my girlfriend?” or write the question on the cake. There are many ways to engage creativity, and he will be very impressed with the effort you put in.
- If you can play music or sing, create a short song asking him to be your girlfriend.
- Write the question in cream on the cake, or form letters on the pizza with the candy or pizza topping itself.
- Frame the question with flowers or chalk in the driveway of his house.
Step 8. Respect her decision if she refuses
Try not to take the rejection to heart. Give yourself time to process your feelings, and rest assured that there is someone who is right for you out there.
- Allow yourself to feel any emotion that comes after rejection, whether it's sadness, anger, or disappointment.
- Try enjoying nature or exercising to improve your mood, or distract yourself with a favorite hobby.
Tips
- Think carefully about whether he likes you too before asking him to be his girlfriend.
- Do not rush. Enjoy the process and ask when you already know each other well.
- Don't be too aggressive or too subtle. You need to be firm and gentle to show that you are caring and loving, but also ready to fight for what you love.
