Asking a guy to make love via text can make you feel awkward and intimidated. To be successful, you need to be able to flirt, send flirty messages, and be ready to date.
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Method 1 of 3: Melt the Mood With Seduction
Step 1. Be yourself when sending messages
Don't lie through text messages because it will feel awkward when you meet him in person. Don't give the impression that you feel uncomfortable when you meet him.
- For example, don't send messages that say you want to have sex that you don't really want.
- Send a short message about something you've done together, then develop a topic from there.
Step 2. Talk about the same experience
You may have had a one-on-one experience with him. Use this to start a conversation. This shows that you value the moments you two spent together.
For example, you might say, “Your favorite band is having a concert on the weekend. Wanna go together?” You can also say, “Hi, Handsome! How was your English test result?”
Step 3. Say the name when sending the first message
Say his name several times in the message. This will make him interested in communicating and feel closer to you.
- Use or create a special nickname for him to make him feel closer to you.
- For example, you can call him “Prince” if he is the man of your dreams.
- A cute nickname like “My sunflower” is the perfect description for a sweet and cheerful guy.
Step 4. Ask open-ended questions to start a conversation
The guy will be flattered when you want to chat with him. He will know that his opinion is respected and that you have a genuine interest in him.
- Keep your questions simple and not too philosophical. For example, ask “How was your short vacation yesterday? Fun, right?”
- Another example you can use is “How was your friend's birthday party yesterday?”
- If you go to the same school as the other person, you can say, “I didn't see you at school today. Are you alright?"
Step 5. Praise his appearance, accomplishments, or abilities
Men love to be praised, just like women. So, say things that make him feel flattered. Don't overdo it because you'll sound ridiculous.
- For example, compliment her appearance, such as “I'm just being honest. You look very handsome.”
- You can compliment her cooking or the entertainment she provided the night before, “I had a lot of fun last night. Thank you for providing me with food and entertainment.”
Step 6. Say something funny to make him laugh
This can lighten the mood, and make him more interested in meeting you. Make a funny statement about something you've seen or talked about recently. You can also say something tempting to make him laugh when he reads your message.
- For example, say something funny as well as teasing, like “Don't make me think about you. I am busy."
- You can also say, “Don't think about me. I said no!”
Method 2 of 3: Making love with the He
Step 1. Decide if he wants to make love to you
If you want to date but don't want to appear too aggressive, ask about it indirectly. For example, tell him what you want to do on the weekend, then watch his response.
- You can send the message “What are your plans this weekend? I want to go eat. How about you?"
- Another example is “I don't know what your plans are, but I think I'd like to go out for drinks after work.”
Step 2. Send him a message that makes him want more
Leave the conversation while you are having fun exchanging messages. This method will make the man wait for the continuation of your communication. It's no fun if you keep texting until you run out of things to talk about or until he stops responding.
- For example, say “It's time for bed… nice to talk to you. Continue tomorrow, okay?”
- To leave a more seductive impression, say “I have to go out with my friends. I'll call you later, okay?"
- That message opens up an opportunity to get him interested in following you.
Step 3. Don't mince words and say you want to make love
However, don't just say "Come over to my place to make out." If you want to increase your chances of tempting a man into making love, you have to be able to find sexier words.
For example, say something like "Let's watch Netflix on the couch, eat ice cream, and cuddle." This doesn't suggest intercourse, but implies that cuddling on the couch could lead you in that direction
Step 4. Ask if he is still awake
Send the message “Are you still awake?” If so, immediately say what you want from him.
- If he responds that he's still awake, say "Want to come over to my place to make love?"
- You can also recall your past romance and say “You remember when we did X? Let's do it again tonight."
Step 5. Ask her out on a date indirectly
Arrange the questions as if you wanted to go out while giving them a chance to join in. You can use something you both like as the basis for the question.
- For example, if you both like Mexican food, say “That new Mexican restaurant serves really good food. You'll like it."
- If you both like donuts, send a message “I just bought donuts from that new shop. You have to try!"
Step 6. Do not mince words when he invites him to make love
If you're not the type of woman who pretends to be shy and sells a lot, it's okay to ask this directly. If the guy doesn't get your message, there are ways to express it without using emoticons and funny messages.
- You can say it directly, like "Want to stop by my place for sex?" or try “I want to kiss you. Come here."
- Saying "Let's make love" is the most frontal way that can't be misunderstood.
Step 7. Offer to pay for transportation to your location
If the guy agrees to make love to you, say something like "Would you like me to order a taxi to come to my place?" This method will allow you to get what you want while at the same time keeping the man from spending money.
Method 3 of 3: Preparing for Love
Step 1. Prepare the condom
It is very important to keep yourself safe and to use condoms. Running out of condoms before making love will make the atmosphere awkward, and eliminate the mood. Don't assume the guy will take it. Even if he does carry it, you may need an extra condom.
Pharmacies must sell condoms. You can buy it the day before you make love
Step 2. Clean up the room to welcome him
Even if you may not have sex in your bedroom, you may be using it with the other person. Cleaning and tidying the room will make you more comfortable when making love. Take out the trash, light a candle, and then pack up all your clothes.
Hide things that show your relationship with other men so that his feelings are not hurt
Step 3. Clean up and dress up before the date
Do things that make you comfortable and look beautiful in front of the man. If you usually shave your body, go for it. Take a shower, do your hair, and put on the makeup you like.
- Check the condition of your skin. Apply moisturizer if your skin feels dry.
- Wear clothes that feel comfortable and look presentable.
- Wear a fragrance that you like so that the body smells better.
Step 4. Prepare special equipment and clothes for sex
You do not know if the man has a special taste for love. If you and he both enjoy pretending to be someone else (role play), prepare equipment and costumes to use.
For example, store sex equipment in the bed closet, then place the costume in the box under the bed
Tips
- Use the correct language structure when sending messages. Excessive use of abbreviations, as well as incorrect spelling without punctuation can spoil the atmosphere.
- Don't be afraid to refuse if he insists on doing something you don't like.
