Are you single and finding it difficult to find a partner? Although there are many dating apps out there, you can still meet women the old-fashioned way, namely in bars. If you want to take a woman out to a bar for a one-night stand, you have to prepare yourself as best you can, try to get a girl's attention, and create opportunities for a one-night stand.
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Part 1 of 3: Increasing the Chances of Success
Step 1. Take care of your cleanliness and appearance
Take care of your cleanliness and appearance to show your most attractive side. You can take a warm bath, style your hair, trim or shave your beard (if necessary), and use a little fragrance. Do not let the smell of your fragrance is too piercing the nose, this will make a potential partner no longer interested in you.
Step 2. Choose a bar that many single women go to
Because not all bars are visited by single women, you have to be more strategic in choosing which bars to visit. Compared to a nightclub, the atmosphere of a bar is usually more conducive to meeting single women due to the lower prices for drinks and a more relaxed atmosphere. There are three types of bars:
- Local bar. This is a bar frequented by regulars who usually already know each other. It may be fun to visit this bar with close friends every weekend, but it may not be the ideal environment to meet single women. If you frequent this bar, chances are you already know the people at the bar and it would be difficult to meet single women in a location like this.
- Leading bars: These bars are the most popular hangouts and are usually in the center of the city. Franchise bars that are always full on weekends also include this type of bar. While this bar is usually bustling with new and familiar people, it can be difficult to get a woman's attention in a bustling atmosphere like this.
- Bars that are not top-notch: These bars are usually considered a bit rundown or unsanitary. The special drink prices at this bar are reasonably priced and the environment is very casual. This bar is one of the best places to meet single women as the customers tend to be more casual and are used to the atmosphere of the place.
Step 3. Ask where your friends meet single women
You can ask your friends who know a good place to meet single women. Ask her the bars she usually goes to or the evening events at a particular venue that are popular with single women.
You can look online for reviews of a particular bar to determine if it is a good place to meet women. Read reviews of the bar thoroughly before you visit it because it may sound like it's a very popular place, when in fact it's not
Step 4. Wear clothes that match the atmosphere of the bar
You should wear clothes that match the place you are going to. Wear more casual attire, such as a T-shirt and jeans, when visiting a casual bar. Wear neater clothes, such as collared shirts and fabric pants, when visiting a fairly popular bar.
Step 5. Invite some friends to help you
Bring a friend or two who are willing to help you out at the bar. Choose friends who are confident and experienced with women, or friends who are also interested in meeting single women.
Don't crowd too much when visiting the bar. This can overwhelm potential partners and make it difficult for you to focus on the woman at the bar
Part 2 of 3: Attracting Women's Attention
Step 1. Make eye contact
Once you find a woman you like, look her in the eye for a moment. Don't stare too long or glance sarcastically at him. Instead, take a quick glance and then give him a smile. If your stares and smiles are returned, he may also be attracted to you.
It's a good idea to display open body language to show that you want to interact with him. Turn your body and gaze toward him, and show that you're relaxed by leaning your arms out to your sides or holding your drink in a relaxed manner
Step 2. Send him and his friends a drink
Steal her attention by delivering drinks to her table or offering to pay for her drinks at the bar. Before ordering a drink for him, take a look at the drinks he has already had and ask the bar attendant what drinks he previously ordered. After that, buy the same or a similar drink for the woman.
- Offering a drink to a friend shows that you also care about her friend. It also shows that you're not just trying to impress her. Buying drinks for him and his friends will also make you seem friendly and less threatening.
- Remember that a woman isn't obligated to give you attention just because she's been treated to a drink. Treating him to a drink is a friendly way to show your presence, not a way to force attention from him.
Step 3. Dare to introduce yourself
If he accepts a drink from you, take this as a sign that he is interested in interacting with you. Take a deep breath and then get up the courage to walk over to his desk and greet him. Tell him your name and start a conversation with him. Introduce yourself calmly and relaxed while showing friendly body language.
- Keep eye contact when talking to him and don't be shy about talking to his friends too. Show that you can talk to his friends and be a personable person to talk to. However, keep the main focus on the girl you like by talking about light topics like “What do you do” or “Oh, I love this song, do you like this band?”
- Directly complimenting his physical appearance is risky, unless he's clearly attracted to you. Make him flatter by showing that you are enthusiastic when you hear him talk about his hobbies and hobbies, or other topics that come up in your conversation.
Part 3 of 3: Asking Her For One Night Love
Step 1. Invite him to play pool or darts
Suggest a fun shared activity, such as playing pool or darts. If there's an arcade game at the bar, invite him to play against you. Doing fun activities with him can help break the ice and allow you both to relax and enjoy each other's company.
He may prefer to sit and chat over his drink rather than play games or work out with you. If it's like this, you can suggest a drinking game that can be played together. It's a fun way to get to know each other and have fun in a comfortable and relaxed way
Step 2. Encourage casual and open conversation
It's getting late, you should focus on talking to the woman you like. Get close to yourself and invite him to joke to keep the atmosphere light and fun. Joke with him while playing games or drinking together.
When starting a conversation, respond to the statement with an open question, such as “Oh, you like football. What's your favorite team?" or “What major are you studying?” If he doesn't walk away and continue to pay attention, make sure your jokes are light and fast. Saying "Having a good night?" can turn things into more seductive than talking about his travel history
Step 3. Make sure he is single and interested
At this point, you probably already know if he's interested, but asking about his relationship status is a clear signal that you want to take it a step further with him. If he says no or looks uncomfortable, you both don't agree.
Throughout the night, you can also read his body language to understand his intent and purpose. Observe if he maintains eye contact with you, laughs at jokes, and displays open body language with his body relaxed and facing you
Step 4. Invite him to make love one night and then consider his reaction
Once you're sure that he's single and might be interested, you can try asking him out for a one-night stand. If your goal is to have casual sex with him, say that you live nearby or invite him to end the night with a drink at your place. This is a clear sign that you are asking him for a one-night stand. If you're looking for a date, or he's just not interested in a one-night stand, give him your cell phone and say "Enter your number."
- You can be more physically intimate with him by placing your hands on his waist or touching his face or hair. Do this if he is really interested in you and is showing open body language, like he likes touching or being more intimate with you.
- If he refuses or feels uncomfortable with your offer, apologize and back off. Say you misunderstood and respect the decision. Don't force or persuade him to come home with you unless he's really interested.
Step 5. Use contraception when making love one night
If you do manage to go home with him for sex, be sure to use birth control while doing so. Use a condom before having sex and make sure she takes birth control pills. Make sure you're safe during any sexual contact with him so you're both happy and don't regret the next day.
