Talking to a guy you like can be stressful. You may be worried about your own appearance and speech, as well as his attraction to you. However, the use of eye contact and topics about him will show that you are interested in him. Also, stay confident and be yourself when you chat with him.
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Part 1 of 3: Look Neat and Attractive
Step 1. Highlight the charm of your body
Everyone has several types of clothes that make him feel more confident and attractive than other clothes. There are also clothes that make one smile wider and go further than other clothes. Choose such clothes when you are planning to meet and talk to the man you love. If he can't take his eyes off you, chances are he's attracted to you too.
Step 2. Don't overdo it
If your first choice is a prom dress, go for the second option. Make sure the clothes you choose match the situation or the moment. There is a possibility that his attention will be distracted if you get dressed in weird clothes.
Step 3. Wear comfortable clothes
If your favorite clothes no longer fit, no problem. Go and buy some new clothes, or choose something else you already have in your closet. Make sure you still feel comfortable with the clothes you are wearing, while still trying to look presentable and attractive. This way, you won't be playing with your clothes while you're talking to him. This can make you seem nervous and make him feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable.
Part 2 of 3: Talk to him
Step 1. Ask a question
Ask open-ended questions to get him involved in the conversation. Talk about whatever you feel comfortable discussing. This can encourage him to talk to you and reflect your interest in him. Prepare a few questions from the start before starting the chat in case a “silent moment” occurs.
- "What do you think about last week's match?"
- "What are your plans for the weekend?"
- "What do you think about the ending of the new film?"
Step 2. Show interest
Watch what he says. Reflect an interest in who he is and everything about him. If you're discussing something he's passionate about, there's a good chance he'll want to talk more about it with you. Don't pretend you like something you don't really like. If you fake it, he can figure it out and of course no one wants to be lied to.
Feel free to disagree, but keep your mind open to their opinions
Step 3. Show an interesting reaction so that the interaction goes well
Don't keep talking and asking questions. Try telling jokes and laughing when you hear the jokes. You can get his attention when you laugh after hearing a joke he throws, even though it may not be that funny. When you seem happy and laughing, it's going to be hard for him not to enjoy the conversation.
Step 4. Speak classy
Do not swear or badmouth other people. When he tells you something he really likes and cares about, swearing or insulting it will automatically be a red light warning him that he shouldn't be attracted to you.
Part 3 of 3: Be Yourself
Step 1. Hold on to your values
Don't get so hung up on him that you start lying about yourself. Don't fake personal interests or opinions. In addition to reflecting bad ethics, these habits or things can actually haunt you. Tell the truth about yourself. If family, friends, or personal interests are something you always think about, share them. Feel free to talk about what you are passionate about and are passionate about.
Step 2. Make eye contact
Eye contact is a nonverbal medium that is as important as speech. You can show confidence, sincerity, and respect through eye contact. In addition, eye contact also makes you more connected to him.
- You can even throw seduction through the eyes. Hold eye contact for 2-3 seconds, then look away at the beginning of the chat. He will look forward to making eye contact with you again. Try this kind of flirting a few times during the chat.
- You can usually tell the color of his eyes after the first chat with him.
Step 3. Be confident
If you seem nervous, he will feel uncomfortable too. Show comfort and pride in your unique and awesome personality. Reflect confidence by showing good posture and speaking clearly. Slouching and mumbling aren't attractive.
Tips
- If he is interested in you, he will show it through eye contact and body language. Plan a time to meet him if he's interested in you too.
- Don't overanalyze everything you say. This will only depress you.
- If he doesn't like you, the world won't end. Maybe this is the way. Lift your head with confidence and look for someone else.
- Make sure your breath feels fresh and spray some perfume on your body before talking to her.
