Caring for grandparents is like showing your love, care and concern for them. For example, don't hesitate to help them with household chores. In addition, treat them with respect and courtesy, and spend as much time as possible to accompany them, get to know them more deeply, and understand their life experiences so far. Treat them with patience, even if their behavior or limitations make you feel frustrated or upset. Remember, old age of course makes it difficult for them to balance your energy and energy. Therefore, be willing to always be by their side and show your affection.
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Part 1 of 3: Helping Them at Home
Step 1. Offer your help
Ask what you can do to help them. If they seem to be having a hard time doing something, take the initiative to offer help without waiting to be asked. If you want, ask your parents about the appropriate and age-appropriate form of assistance.
- Trust me, they will appreciate your help and more than likely, will give you a “gift” in return. For example, they may be willing to play games with you or help you with your homework after school.
- Ask, “What can I do for you?”
Step 2. Help them finish the housework
Most elderly people have limitations in moving so they need the help of others to complete their homework. Therefore, offer to help them do things that are difficult for them to do on their own, such as washing dishes, mopping floors, or doing laundry. Make your grandparents feel more comfortable in their home!
Ask them for help they need or act immediately without prompting if they seem to need your help
Step 3. Offer to help them do a long-term job
If your grandparents are working on something that won't be finished in the near future (like painting the house or training the dog), offer to help. For example, if they're coating the floor with waterproofing, set aside a whole week to help ease their work.
Take the opportunity to spend more time and chat with them
Step 4. Meet their daily needs
If they need help buying medicines at the pharmacy, buying groceries at the supermarket, or taking money from the bank, don't hesitate to offer your help! Contribute as much as you can, especially if your grandparents no longer drive a private vehicle or have difficulty walking.
If you can't or haven't been allowed to bring your own vehicle, ask your parents for assistance
Part 2 of 3: Interact with Them
Step 1. Show them your courtesy and respect
Even if they keep asking the same questions or have trouble hearing what you're saying, don't feel angry or upset. Instead, keep communicating calmly and politely with them. When they are talking, be a good listener and don't interrupt them. Show that their existence is very valuable in your eyes!
Feeling too frustrated? Nothing forbids you to take a moment's distance. After calming down for a few days, come back to them with a smile on your face
Step 2. Spend time with them
One of the best ways to show your care and concern is to spend time with them without hesitation. Take this opportunity to get to know them better. For example, feel free to invite them to watch your favorite television series, take them for a leisurely walk in the park every afternoon, or invite them to dinner with your family on the weekends. Ask them to introduce various types of traditional games that they like, and also teach them the games that are currently occupying your attention.
Do various special activities together. For example, take them to a city park or eat ice cream together every weekend
Step 3. Ask questions about their lives
Ask them to share memorable life experiences, and ask questions about your family history. If desired, ask them to tell about their children's childhoods (your father or mother) and their experiences as parents.
Try getting them to make a detailed family tree
Step 4. Ask for their advice
In fact, the best advice often comes from grandparents and/or grandparents, you know! Remember, they have lived a very long life and, therefore, are able to share advice, advice and/or experiences that will be of use to you. If a problem is weighing on your mind, don't hesitate to consult your grandparents! As well as enriching your perspective, doing so will make them feel more valued and loved by you.
Ask for advice on college plans, love and/or marriage life, and tips on raising your children. Whenever you need a second opinion, don't hesitate to ask grandparents
Step 5. Show your cheerfulness
No human being is happy all the time. In other words, there will always be times when you're not in a good mood so you don't want to do anything for other people. If during those times your grandparents need your help, keep trying to be happy and show a positive attitude. Remember, you are doing it for the people you love!
If your grandparents are feeling lonely, try to make time to be with them and show your joy around them
Part 3 of 3: Being a Good Granddaughter
Step 1. Give gifts to them
Represent your care, concern, affection, and gratitude through memorable gifts. In fact, meaningful gifts are not only in the form of items such as watches or cellphones, but also in the form of experiences such as watching a movie together or taking them on a trip to a fun place. Think about what kind of gifts your grandparents would like, then give it to them!
- Always remember your grandparents' birthdays and celebrate other days that feel special to them too. Don't hesitate to give memorable gifts, OK!
- If you want, ask your parents to help you choose the right gift.
Step 2. Invite them to work with you
In fact, grandparents have a natural instinct to feel proud of their grandchildren. Therefore, do not hesitate to invite them to watch a sports match, attend a concert, or attend your graduation ceremony. Trust me, they must be very happy because they can be actively involved in your life!
If very old age or other conditions limit their movement, make sure you ask them to sit in a special location. For example, ask them to sit on your right and left at your birthday party. Doing so will show your respect for them, you know
Step 3. Monitor their health
For example, make sure they have regular check-ups with the doctor, take the necessary medications, and generally feel fine. Also make sure they can contact someone if they fall ill or need immediate medical help. If they need to see a doctor or need help managing their medication, offer to help!
