Have you ever wondered if a girl is flirting with you, or are you just imagining it? Here's a list of vivid signs that women and men have gathered over the years from their own experiences. Remember that all girls no same! The following signs are common seduction signs for girls between the ages of 10 and 18. (Keep in mind that joking about your sexual attraction, the dictionary definition of seduction, may not be appropriate for children under 16. Women 18 and over usually make different cues when flirting.
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Part 1 of 3: Reading Body Language
Step 1. Look at the position of the legs
If a woman comes and sits, look at the position of her legs; this can show the center of focus. If his toes are pointing right at you, that's a good sign! Don't worry too much if the legs are pointing the other way.
While feet pointing at you may mean he's ready to seduce you, feet pointing the other way don't necessarily mean he doesn't like you. This is not an either/or scenario. He can still like you even if his feet are not pointing at you
Step 2. Pay attention to the way he talks
If he speaks slowly, or very quickly, this is a sign that he is nervous. This is great news for you, as you may be the source of the nervousness.
Step 3. Notice if he's shy, nervous, or giggling
If he looks shy, speaks poorly, or says "ummm" or "hmmm," this may be a sign that he's nervous. If he has to think longer than usual about short sentences, it also shows that he is nervous. Nervousness is most likely a sign that he likes you.
Step 4. Watch for anxiety
Does he look restless? When he's around you, does he move fidgety, like fixing his clothes, playing with his cell phone, or squeezing his hands?
Step 5. Understand who he is seeing or talking to in a conversation
In conversation, he may focus on you, or if he's shy around you (which is nice), he'll try to have a third person don't make it seem too obvious. However, in this case, he will stay focused on you, making you the center of the conversation in return.
However, some women try very hard to avoid the guy she likes knowing she likes him. If she's that kind of girl, she's probably always avoiding you in conversation and you might get the wrong idea. Do not base your conclusions solely on this evidence.
Step 6. Pay attention to the words “awww” and “ohhh”
If a girl says "awww" after you've done something, it's usually a sign she's trying to seduce you. He does this because he thinks you're cute and he wants you to know it. He may do this after you cough, slip, or say something funny.
Step 7. If you happen to run into him, watch what he does
If he likes you, he may smile, big or small, depending on how shy he is. He may also walk past you quickly and give you a small smile, which means he's shy around you, which is a good thing. Or he might just start talking to you.
- If a girl likes you, she will be quiet when you approach you and she is with friends. He may feel awkward talking to his friends while you listen because he likes you.
- Ask how he is when you approach him. If he likes you, he will try to talk to you longer. If he seems happy talking to you even if you're just talking about the weather, he's definitely in love!
Step 8. Remember if he has observed you
Try to catch him looking at you and smiling. If you of course catch him, watch his reaction. Did he immediately look the other way? That's a good sign. Is he smiling and/or blushing? Good sign too.
Step 9. Read the obvious signs of seduction
The omens just reviewed are very small and sometimes difficult to interpret. The next sign makes it very clear that he likes you. If you see him doing this, go on a date right away if you like him too! Does he:
- Always touching you? Does he always touch your shoulder when he has an opinion? Does he always hold your hand? Does he rub your back with a smile?
- Tickle or joke you? Does it pop up from behind and tickle you in a sensitive area? Or is he kidding you about something you are good at?
- Invite you to dance or sit with him at school? A dance invitation is usually more than just an invitation, and sitting near you in class or at lunchtime is also very obvious.
Part 2 of 3: Signs When Talking To Him
Step 1. Remember how the two of you got acquainted
If he gets his friend to introduce you, he'll want to get to know you, which usually means he likes you.
Step 2. Remember if he often makes weird excuses to talk to you
It may make you chuckle if you realize it, but take it as a compliment. If he's brave, he'll come to you by starting a new conversation. Here are some conversation starters that women (and some men) always use:
- "Hey, I forgot to bring my notebook, do you remember the homework given?" He may have completely forgotten the book, but he prefers to ask you about homework.
- "Can you help me with this? I have absolutely no idea what that means." This is a big sign if he is a good student. Why would a smart student need homework help?
- "Can you carry my bag/carry some stuff? It's too heavy/too much to lift!" Women always plan everything in advance. Why does he bring so many things to school if he can't carry them?
Step 3. See if he starts the conversation
If a girl starts the conversation, this is a sign big he likes you. Girls usually wait for a guy to come to her, so this is a very good sign for you.
Step 4. Watch what he does on social media
If you're chatting with a girl on MySpace or Facebook, pay attention to how long it takes her to type her message (it will show a blue chat bubble, “…”). Then see how long the message was sent. If he's writing a more emotional message and it takes him 5 minutes to write 3 lines, that's a good sign that he's taking the time to make sure his response is engaging.
- Does he often use a smiley sign or other emoticon? He was probably trying to tell something.
- Does he always send you messages, videos, breaking news, etc.? His strong communication flow means he really values your thoughts and wants you to think about them often.
- Does he say things like "Do you think I look fat?" or “I feel bad” because he's likely not only seeking your opinion but provoking compliments to see what you think about it.
Step 5. Find out if he's kidding you
Does he like to joke around you? Do you both have a personal joke that he always uses? This is a clear sign that he likes you.
Step 6. Watch as he gives hints
If you stay calm and don't really like this girl, she may think you're only interested in being friends with her. In this case, he might be looking for small ways to say that he's talking to a lot of “other guys”, guys he's always wanted to date. Even though he has a lot of male fans, he also wants to win your heart. He's trying to make you jealous.
Step 7. Don't be afraid to hug her if you two are best friends
If you are leaving, say goodbye and give a relaxing hug. This will leave a good impression, and show you really want to be close to him.
Step 8. If a girl really likes you, don't wait for her to tell you
Women don't like to share their feelings with a man they just met. The traditional way is that the man acts first.
Part 3 of 3: Signs When Online or Sending Messages
Step 1. See what game it plays
Games can be a good way to approach you. Here are a few things that could signal his interest in you:
- Does he show off about beating your score in online games? It may provoke praise.
- Did he say he lost the online game? He may want you to feel sorry for him and respond (jokingly? “Are you okay?”
- Does he invite you to join online games together? This can be his way of pulling you in and looking for a neutral place to spend time together.
Step 2. Consider what he sends by phone or online
- Did he send cute pictures? He may want to associate cute things with him so you can think about him more often.
- Does he always send you new songs with hints like “I'm listening to Are You Going To Kiss Me Or Not”, or “What Is Love”. He wants you to know he likes you. If you respond with “Are you giving me a hint?” and he says “I just sent a new song!”, he may be nervous you got the hint and don't want to admit it. Don't get me wrong, just laugh and keep the conversation going. However, don't wait for him to start the next conversation. If you're feeling bold, take a small action or talk about it the next day, he'll feel more confident knowing you're paying attention to what he's saying.
- Is it sending cryptic messages that might test you? He may be trying to figure out if you're going to reply quickly, or reply in a funny way.
Step 3. Consider how often he tries to contact you
Does he always try to contact you online? It's very obvious, he wants to talk to you.
Tips
- When you talk to him, listen to everything he has to say and make eye contact. Smile often.
- Make him feel special, but don't rely too much on him.
- Be yourself. The girl likes you just the way you are. If you become someone else, he will stop liking you.
- Don't look like you're bored in the conversation or make it difficult to talk to you. Don't make him pop all the questions (don't be a “wall”). Ask questions about him.
- If he is sad, be sweet and comforting. Speak gently and don't force her to explain her sadness. If he doesn't want to open up, stay there for him saying everything will be okay.
- If he talks to you or touches you and smiles and blushes, he likes you.
- If he strokes your hand, shoulder, or arm… Let it go, then do it again.
- Don't make him jealous. This will do more harm than good.
- Don't ignore it when you cross paths. Stop and ask how he's doing, and if you want him to know you like him but don't know how, put your hand on his shoulder or arm, or hold his hand.
- Don't flirt with too many other girls, they won't feel like you like them if they're just one of the girls you're flirting with.
- Girls want a guy to make the first move, a big first thing he likes you is if you are close to him he will turn to his friends.
- If you're alone with him, don't be quiet, but don't talk too much either. Stay calm and confident, and if he seems to like you and things get quiet and awkward, take his hand. Just do it and don't be afraid, he will love it and won't want to let go of his hand. Look at him affectionately and put a hug on the shoulder if you're both comfortable.
- Body language is very important. If he acts shy but smiles a lot, he likes you. But if he tries not to pay too much attention, he doesn't like you. Always pay attention to what he has to say and try to always be there for him.
- There are things called "brakes". This is when testing a woman's attraction, you see that she is not. Using the brakes means recovering without embarrassing yourself. I suggest seducing some other women to make you look like a seducer. Don't like it so fast that you can't use the brakes.
- Some girls are just shy but if when he sees you he laughs or smiles it usually means he likes you.
- He may be trying to make you jealous and flirting with other guys.
Warning
- Pay attention to what you say to him, because it can hurt his feelings.
- Appreciate him and his family. Women want someone who respects.
- Know your limits. If his parents are around you, don't be too romantic. This can make them panic.
- Be kind to him and his family, but especially his father.
- Laugh at what he says to show you never get tired of him.
- Make a small comment, like you look really pretty today.
- Never be a pawn. A pawn is a man who feels he has to do whatever the women say, and always agrees. Women don't like men like this. They like someone who has masculinity. Being a pawn will only get you rejected eventually, and believe me, I've felt it. It's a dead end.
- Don't follow him around. This will make him nervous and awkward.
- Ask your friends to go without you. Tell him that you want to spend more time with him. However, don't do this so often that it looks like you're abandoning your friends – that way, you can make them angry as well as the girl you're after!
- Don't flirt with too many girls, this could show that you don't like him that much.
- Don't flirt too much with him. Some women find this childish. Be yourself and be confident and brave. If he's scared or cold, don't hug him right away. Ask if he's cold, and if he says yes, give him your jacket or a hug. He also probably doesn't want to show that he's cold or scared, so if he shakes his head, still give him a jacket or a hug. Don't overdo it, just give it comfort.
- Exchanging phone numbers and calling each other to talk, just hearing his voice.
- This is usually where mistakes are made. Just because he likes you doesn't mean you're safe. You can't go wrong here. Invite him to date directly, not with notes, not by phone, message or friends. Don't scare him, come like a friend and invite him. Don't act like you're already in a relationship. If he likes you, you have to act fast. If you're afraid of being rejected, a small note can explain your situation but don't keep it too short because girls will just think you're an asshole.
- When he's angry, try to make him laugh to show you care if he's angry and looks sad.
- Sometimes try to be very sensitive.
- Sometimes try to be very strong around him. He might like that.
- This article is not particularly useful for wooing girls over 18. They are mature and looking for a different man.
- Try to get to know your mom and dad, such as fishing and watching basketball and soccer games.
- If a girl suddenly starts talking to other guys instead of you it might mean she wants to make you jealous – especially if you do something without her if she likes you.
