Acting silly can be one of the most enjoyable aspects of a relationship. You can show your cheerfulness and be honest without fear of being judged. You will also be more connected to your lover on a higher level. Basically, you can be yourself. If you're willing to explore new things in your relationship, you'll be surprised to find out how much your lover wants to do the same. Your lover is your best friend. Feeling comfortable with each other can make your relationship grow and get closer. You don't need to be in a rigid and colorless relationship; just go with the flow of the relationship because as you and your lover get older, things will change. However, remember that in a relationship, you may need to act silly so you can still feel the “fire of love” in your relationship.
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Method 1 of 2: Doing Things Together
Step 1. Take funny photos while making silly facial expressions
Hold a contest to find out who makes the most ridiculous expressions, then save the photos in a special album. Or, you could also try imitating a pose in a famous painting (or maybe a music video). For example, the two of you can stand with your back to each other while holding hands to imitate the pose of The Virgin group in the video clip for the song Forbidden Love. You can also touch your face with both hands to imitate Manohara pose.
Step 2. Speak in a different accent or dialect
Try pretending to be strangers (or at least, out-of-towners) when the two of you go about your daily activities. Or, try acting like movie actors. You can dance and circle around the pole like a scene in an Indian movie, or act serious with exaggerated facial expressions like scenes in soap operas.
Step 3. Dress up each other with embarrassing makeup
Try dressing her face and let her do your hair. Whoever manages to deliver a better result is entitled to upload their “masterpiece” photo to Facebook.
Step 4. Fight with food
When you cook with them, attack each other with flour, spaghetti, or other ingredients (and make sure you don't waste food or make your kitchen very messy).
Step 5. Visit the park and play in the children's playground
Alternately, get on the swing and push each other. You can also have fun on the slides or in action on the climbing bars.
Step 6. Imitate each other
Try to imitate each other's voices, habits, and gait. Interact as usual while still displaying your partner's "copy".
Step 7. Play catch with food
Prepare the popcorn and divide it into two bowls. After that, throw each popcorn into each other's mouth. Every time you manage to throw popcorn into your partner's mouth, shout "GOOOOOOL!!!"
Step 8. Fight with him (just for fun of course)
Pretend to fight him in a special fighting style, such as boxing, martial arts, or sumo wrestling. Take turns being an announcer.
Step 9. Play hide and seek
Give him a kiss as a gift if he manages to find you. Also, don't forget to give him a warm hug!
Step 10. Imitate a scene from a movie that you both like
Do scenes with your favorite movie actors and actresses, but in a strange tone of voice. You can also create a different ending.
Method 2 of 2: Doing Something For Him
Step 1. Tickle your lover
If he's ticklish easily and enjoys being tickled, try tickling him often and look for other tickling spots. Try tickling your stomach, sides, ribs, and other body parts. Touch the soles of his feet with your nails.
Step 2. Give him a surprise attack
If he is sitting or lying on the floor, grab his feet and drag him somewhere. Or, you can also wrestle (gentle) with him while saying, "You can't beat me!"
Step 3. Bite it gently
Gently bite his shoulder and act like a Chihuahua biting and chewing on a large chew toy. Make a growl sound. Or, you can also gently bite his ear or eyebrow (some guys feel really bad when bitten like that and will squirm).
Step 4. Call him by a silly name (eg Si Kencur, Si Unyil, Si Embul, etc.)
Speak to him as if he were “cute” (like a grandmother spoiling her granddaughter) and “attack” her face with kisses, especially on the cheek. Make sure he knows that you're just kidding and aren't suggesting a permanent lifestyle change.
Step 5. Jump onto his back unexpectedly and shout “Let's go horses
Make sure his knees are not bent so he doesn't fall when you jump. However, be prepared because there is a chance that both of you will fall to the floor.
Step 6. Respond to ordinary statements with exaggerated (or exaggerated) expressions
For example, you could say, “Did you eat TWO PLAYS of fried noodles alone? CYUS ? It's not that messy to eat, is it?"
Step 7. Close your lips, squint your eyes and shake your head when he is about to kiss you
Make sure he knows that you're just kidding so he doesn't think too far. It's a good idea to only do this if you kiss often and are comfortable with each other. If your relationship is still in its early stages, a joke like this can make it "self-conscious."
Step 8. Show an unnatural attitude
Make sure you only show it every now and then to keep him surprised by the change in your attitude. If the two of you are cuddling in bed and he makes physical contact with you (eg strokes your hair or rubs your cheek), purr and pretend to be a cat. You can also look at him. Yes, just look at him. If he ends up asking "What's wrong?", look at him as he approaches him and whisper something unrelated (e.g., "Tofu round"), then give him a kiss.
Tips
These steps are more effective for men who are open and sociable. So, be careful because your boyfriend may not be the type of guy to be funny with
Warning
- Some of the things described in this article may make a man feel uncomfortable. Make sure he likes what you're doing before you go any further.
- Don't be pushy or be an annoying person. Things like this aren't funny when it's just one of you two wanting to act silly.
- These things can make you feel embarrassed if you are not alone with him.
- Some things can lead to “other” things. Therefore, you are the one who determines the direction (eg whether you just want to tickle him for fun or make him “passionate”).
