If you like a girl, asking her out on Valentine's Day is a great way to express your feelings. There are lots of creative and fun ways to do this and you can just say so without further ado. Whatever the decision, make sure you make a clear plan for spending time together on Valentine's Day.
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Method 1 of 3: Showing Creativity
Step 1. Send a gift to him
Buy him a pizza, then write witty words like "I know it's cheesy, but will you be my Valentine?" on the lid of the pizza container. Buy him a stuffed animal, then hang the words around its neck "Would you like to date me on Valentine's Day?" Send a box of chocolates or heart-shaped candies that say a date on the top of the lid.
Step 2. Send him a note
Make your own Valentine's card. You can use pink or red cardboard. Write neatly that you want him to be your date on Valentine's Day. You can also affix a Valentine's Day themed decoration.
Choose a card that reflects the state of your relationship. Choose something romantic if you're already in a relationship with him, or something more casual, if you and he are just friends
Step 3. Give flowers
Send her flowers, or give them in person. Attach a small note with an invitation to a date on Valentine's Day on the flower. Use a greeting card even if you give it in person.
Step 4. Cook something for her
Surprise him with a homemade cake. However, make sure you follow the recipe carefully, especially if you rarely cook. Ask him out on Valentine's Day while giving him the cake.
Make the cake a joke if the results are not good. For example, you can say that you have tried to make a sweet cake for him, but it turns out that the cake is not as sweet as him
Step 5. Spread the heart-shaped chocolate chips on the ground
Buy chocolate chips. Look for pink or red hearts. Glue the chocolate chips in places he usually goes, such as in front of his house or at his school locker. Write a small note “This chocolate is a symbol that I have given my heart. Will you date me on Valentine's Day?"
You can also glue chocolate chips along the way he walks
Step 6. Take advantage of your talents
Use your talents or skills to create a special Valentine's Day invitation. Skills such as drawing, writing, or playing a musical instrument can be used for this.
- For example, if you're good at drawing, you could draw something on a Valentine's card.
- If you're good at music, ask him to be your date through a beautiful song.
Step 7. Take advantage of the things he likes
Use her interest in something to ask her out. Find out his hobbies, extracurricular activities, colors, animals, food and places.
- You can ask her to be your Valentine's date at her favorite park, or send her a cute stuffed elephant if she likes the animal.
- Feel free to combine some of his interests to come up with the perfect date. If he likes cakes and the color orange, make a cake for him with an orange icing!
Method 2 of 3: Direct Inquiry
Step 1. Find the right time to talk to him
Don't ask her out on a Valentine's date suddenly. Look for moments alone with him if you see him often. Call her home to find out when your dream girl comes home.
Step 2. Don't beat around the bush
No need to be confused about what to say. Just say that you want to ask him to be a partner on Valentine's Day. If you want to add another point, make a list of reasons why you like it. You can also share things that you both enjoy, or activities that both of you are engaged in.
- Focus on explaining why you admire him. Say something like “I love the way you treat other people” or “I admire your confidence” or “You are a very creative and funny person.”
- Don't forget to compliment her beauty.
Step 3. Practice your speech if you feel shy or nervous
Train your courage to express your feelings by practicing the words you want to convey. Show a calm and confident attitude through speech and body language when speaking. Keeping your eyes straight, your back straight, and your hands out of the way will make you look confident and feel more confident.
- Don't worry about the response in him, but focus on yourself.
- Start by greeting him: “Hi, nice to see you again!” Then, show your interest by asking “How are you?”
- Make sure you convey your wishes to make them a couple on Valentine's Day: "I would love it if you would spend Valentine's Day with me."
Method 3 of 3: Setting Up All the Details
Step 1. Dress appropriately when you talk to her
Try to impress her with clothes and personal hygiene. This will show that you are really trying to win her heart. Don't pretend like you don't care. Don't wear your best clothes – just wear clothes that look presentable.
Step 2. Inquire in person or over the phone
Having a one-on-one conversation with him will leave a better impression and show your sincerity. Send text messages or messages on social media if you're feeling shy. Continue the telephone conversation to show your sincerity.
Step 3. Be specific about your plans to spend Valentine's Day with him
Take him out to dinner or go on a picnic. Try to get him to do something interesting, like ice skating or another activity you both enjoy. Be prepared to bear the cost because you are the one who asked him out.
- For example, you might say "I want to take you out to dinner and then play glow golf."
- If the weather is nice, you can say, “Let's have a relaxing afternoon by the lake. I'll bring a picnic basket, then we'll rent a boat. What is your favorite food on a picnic?”
