You guys are an adorable couple, but your heights differ by tens of centimeters. However, don't worry. There are several techniques that can be used to kiss a partner whose height differs greatly from yours.
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Step 1. Make yourself shorter or taller
Try some of these clever ways to cover up your height difference:
- If you are short, find a foothold. Take advantage of sidewalks, steps, ramps, and even chairs to match your height. Wear heels if possible. High heels are ideal for this situation. However, you can also wear heeled boots.
- If you are tall, help your partner by standing low whenever possible. If you're new to dating and/or your partner is very self-conscious, try to do it without being too flashy.
- For a sexy pose, spread your legs apart and lower your body while leaning against the wall. Let your feet grip the ground and ask your partner to stand between your legs. Thus, the position of your face is the same height when making out. However, this method should only be done if your relationship is intimate enough. Otherwise, pile your weight a few inches in front of the wall, lean back, and bend your other knee for a cool James Dean pose. However, this method makes your partner work hard.
- You can also try a sitting position. Instead, use a bar stool or other tall object. Generally, ordinary chairs are too short so that your position becomes too low. However, at least once in a while a partner can know what it's like to be a tall person. If the situation permits, pull your partner onto your lap and kiss while sitting down.
Step 2. Meet in the middle
If your partner is a little taller, ask him to stand on his feet if he pleases. If you are shorter, lean back slightly and reach up. Stand on tiptoe if it still feels comfortable. If you are taller, lean forward and slightly spread your legs apart. This way, your body will be slightly shorter and your partner will have a place to stand.
Step 3. Stabilize your body with a hug
Embrace each other's bodies for support. That way, you can balance yourself and measure the desired height more easily.
When not kissing, the cuddled short partner can turn their head to the side and rest it on the taller partner's shoulder
Step 4. Kiss your partner somewhere else that is easy to reach
If appropriate, kiss your partner on the forehead, neck, chest, arms, shoulders, hands, or stomach. Don't just kiss your partner on the lips and cheeks!
Step 5. Use your height difference to add passion to the kiss
Gone With the Wind has one of the most famous kissing scenes because Rhett's body is much taller than Scarlett's. Instead of trying to overcome the height difference, Rhett pulled Scarlett into his arms, tilted her head, and kissed her lips like an eagle snatching prey. If you want to try this method, make sure you support the back of your partner's head so he doesn't feel any pain. (Because this pose is quite aggressive, tall women may not want to do it to men who are self-conscious about their height).
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If you're short and your partner is strong enough, jump into their arms so your faces are the same height, or get into the "Notebook" position by wrapping your legs around your partner's hips and kissing them from above. Usually this is done by women by jumping into the arms of men. However, if the female partner is strong enough, you may be able to switch roles with a little practice.
Image - If you are tall, lift your partner while rotating him around your body to create an extra romantic kiss scene. You can also lift your partner a little higher so he can wrap his legs around your waist if needed.
Tips
- If you are short and your partner is wearing a strappy jacket, try pulling your partner closer to you in a spoiled manner.
- If your body is too short, just wrap your arms around your partner's neck and gently pull him down. This gesture indicates that you are ready.
- Don't be afraid to experiment. Find a position that is most suitable and comfortable for both of you.
- Have fun! If the kiss doesn't go your way, just laugh it off and invite your partner to practice it together sometime in the future.
- If you want a sexier way to show your partner is ready, whisper in your partner's ear as if you have a secret, and say "I want to kiss you." Your partner will love it, especially if he is a girl.
- Never forget that your partner wants to be the one to initiate the kiss.
- If your short partner has to arch their neck during a long kiss, hold the back of their head, or move slowly so that your partner can lean their head against the wall.
- If you are younger and the guy is shorter than you, be prepared to position yourself when he is standing on a wall or small ledge so your faces are facing each other. It might feel awkward at first, but you'll get over it.
Warning
- If you lift someone, do so with caution. Bend both knees, instead of your back.
- Do not pull on the shoulders or back of the higher partner as this will hurt or injure them.
