Falling in love is beautiful, but also thrilling. There are challenges in showing your love for a girl, but there are various ways you can try. If you want to have a romantic relationship with a girl but don't know how, here are some tips that can pave the way.
Step
Method 1 of 10: Compliment his personality or skills
Step 1. Show that you know he's impressive
It's best to focus on his skills or interests, rather than his face or appearance. Face is innate, but achievement is something he strives for. Let him know you noticed he's friendly to everyone, or compliment his skills like drawing, singing, or playing a sport.
- Praise sincerely. Don't tell me you're not serious.
- Try praising, “It's cool that you're the captain of the soccer team. Surely you play well, and also a good leader.
Method 2 of 10: Add humor to the chat
Step 1. Tell jokes to create a relaxed and fun atmosphere
Don't worry, you don't have to be a professional comedian. Funny comments are enough to start a conversation. If you can laugh together, he will know that you enjoy spending time with him.
Try saying something funny about the difficulty of the English exam
Method 3 of 10: Try physical touch if appropriate
Step 1. Physical contact clearly shows that you are interested
However, make sure the place and time is right. For example, you could high five at a sports match or touch his hand during a chat.
If he looks uncomfortable, stop touching him. Respect other people's personal boundaries
Method 4 of 10: Flirt by smiling and leaning in
Step 1. These physical cues show that you like him
If you're hanging out with a few other people and want to grab their attention, look them in the eye and smile. If he responds, lean over to talk to him. Get close when he's talking to let him know that you're interested in what he has to say.
If he says something funny, respond with a laugh. A teasing little laugh is the perfect way to seduce him
Method 5 of 10: Show that you are interested in him
Step 1. Use words and body language so he understands
Even though you've been flirting, it's possible that he doesn't understand. Maybe you just seem friendly, not romantic. Amplify the signal, even if it feels awkward. Stare at him longer than usual. Don't just casually pat her hand or arm, touch her for a few seconds longer.
Instead of saying, “I think architects like you are cool!”, try “Wow, beautiful face and smart brain. It's okay, I'm interested in you."
Method 6 out of 10: Send fun text messages
Step 1. It shows that you think of him
Try asking for a response. Questions are more effective than just "Hi." You can ask him if he's ready for the exam or if he's heard Dua Lipa's new song.
- Try not to get nervous if he doesn't reply right away. Maybe he is busy.
- If he doesn't respond at all, don't take it to heart. Continue your day as usual.
Method 7 out of 10: Be wise and creative on social media
Step 1. Capture his attention with a teasing comment or message
Social media is a suitable medium to show interest in someone. Instead of just “liking” the photo, leave a comment that shows you're thinking of him, not just missing the photo.
- For example, if he uploads a photo at a concert, write, “I love that band. Let's watch together when they have a concert again."
- You can also DM and ask something specific. For example, “Your photo at the festival is cool. There's an okay band playing at the cafe near my work next week. I want to take you there, on a date!”
- If he doesn't respond after a comment or two, don't comment again. Don't let him be bothered.
Method 8 out of 10: Be honest about how you feel
Step 1. Gather the courage and say that you like it
It's natural to be nervous, but don't be afraid. Maybe he had the same feelings. Just make sure you choose the right time and place. Don't embarrass her in front of other people or approach her when she's busy or in a hurry.
- For example, say, “Hi, I think you're fun and I want to be more than just your friend. How do you want it?”
- You may be disappointed if he refuses. However, don't be mad at him. You have to respect his feelings.
Method 9 out of 10: Ask him out
Step 1. Make a plan and explain your intentions
It might be easier to casually ask him out, but you really want him to know it's a date. Maybe he'll be flattered if he finds out you already have a plan. This will increase the chances of him accepting.
For example, ask, “Are you free this Sunday night? I want to ask you out on a date. You want to watch a movie?”
Method 10 of 10: Plan personal activities
Step 1. Choose a fun date that strengthens the bond
First dates are always filled with anxiety. That's normal. To relieve nervousness, choose a fun activity. Activities that provide time for chat, allow for bonding, and maybe a little touch.
- If she loves to cook, sign up for a cooking class for two. Both of you will enjoy preparing and tasting the food.
- Take dance lessons. Besides being fun, learning to dance is also close.
Tips
- Learn to understand the cues if he doesn't respond. Maybe he doesn't like you, and that's okay. That's how life is. There are lots of girls out there who will like you.
- Be kind and always ready to help him. Try to treat him differently from other people, but you also have to be kind to other people. If you are nice to everyone, he will know that you are a good person.
