How to Make Men Crave You (with Pictures)

2024 Author: Jason Gerald | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-16 10:50

If you've found this article, you might want to be more popular with guys. Guys are attracted to confident girls with whom they have a true connection and girls they find attractive. Sometimes, you might just want to make guys want you when you're out hanging out. Whatever the situation, learn how to do things to get closer to the guy you hope wants you to be.

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Part 1 of 3: Connecting

Step 1. Wait for the right time to establish a connection with him

If there's a guy you know and you hope wants you, try playing hard sell. First, don't try to force yourself into an immediate connection with the guy you want. Even so, don't avoid it either. Be around him constantly and when an event occurs that brings you together, you have to build that connection.

For example, if you are in the same class as her, study with her for the exam. Studying together for the exam will help bring the two of you together because of the stress and effort you have to put into the exam.
Hang out with him in various places. For example, if you only see him at school, offer to meet him at the library to study. Sometimes it's easier to make connections when you're in a new environment.
When you've really established a connection, don't forget to leave at the right time. Make him want more, but don't interrupt your conversation with him either. Realize when it's the right time to go and follow your intuition.

Step 2. Show him that you are friendly and open to talking about more than school or work with him

It may be obvious to you that you want to talk to him, but it may not be so obvious to him. There are three easy nonverbal ways you can show that you are interested.

Saying hello with an eyebrow gesture (also known as an eyebrow flash) is a nonverbal sign that says you are friendly and approachable.
Tilt your head to one side is also another way to show interest when he is talking.
Lastly, smile! When you smile at other people, they will usually smile back at you. Smiling will make him feel good, because it releases endorphins!

Step 3. Show your talents and strengths

Think about your skills and find ways to show them honestly. For example, if you are going to study together and you are good at math, offer to help him study the math part of the exam.

If you know he's having trouble with a certain part of a subject, study that part of the curriculum harder. You can take good notes, study longer after school hours, or consult directly with the teacher who teaches. Then offer yourself to help him.
Don't try to master the things that are his specialty. You probably won't be proficient enough in a short amount of time to impress him.
Don't brag. Don't blatantly say what you're good at out of context to impress him. Guys will be much more impressed when they can see how good you are at something they are less than good at.

Step 4. Ask for his phone number and call or text him

The message or call can be simple and don't worry; if he is interested simple messages and calls it will turn into a deeper conversation!

Make sure you pay attention to how he responds. If he doesn't respond too much don't keep texting him. Let him text you.
If the texting is ongoing, consider asking him to meet and do an activity together.

Step 5. Make a plan to do fun things together at a place you want to visit

When you're in the places you like the most, chances are your character will be more outgoing. Go out to dinner together and chat to catch up on the news or go to a cafe and go for a walk together. You can also go somewhere more romantic, where you can feel good, laugh and have fun. For example, try visiting a local night market or an amusement park.

He will be able to get to know you better by looking at the places you like. Explain to him why the place is important, take him around and tell him what's so great about the place you love.
Tell him about the stories that happened in that place. Ask him if there's any place he'd like to go.

Step 6. Engage yourself when communicating with him

Be interested in what he has to say in person, in a text message or over the phone. If the two of you are meeting in person, use body language to show your interest. Nod your head and make an expressive face so he can see that you're thinking about what he's saying and laugh sincerely.

Empathize with what he's talking about. If he tells any story that sounds heavy, show your concern or sympathy.
Remember what he said so you can be more specific when asking how he is. Showing that you remember what happened in his life is not something strange, everyone wants to be heard and acknowledged.

Step 7. Seduce him and be closer than ever

Smile and look into his eyes. As the night progresses, let your eyes stare at it longer or stay closer to it longer. Touch him on the arm when you talk about something he said that you find interesting or exciting.

Touching his arm in a conversation will allow you to break through the barrier of physical touch that came before him

Part 2 of 3: Go Hanging Out

Step 1. Prepare yourself to go out

If you're interested in getting a guy to want you in a place like a bar or club, make sure you look and feel great. Set aside time to get ready and do your hair, makeup and dresses.

Take about an hour to shower and get ready.
Take your time to style your hair. Dry with a hairdryer and then curl or straighten your hair so that it has a distinctive style. Use care products such as mousse, hair spray or hair gloss to maintain the perfect look of your hair.

Step 2. Apply natural looking makeup

Since you're going out, you can make your makeup a little bolder. For example, you can add a bit of glitter eye shadow or a darker lipstick than usual.

Apply one light stroke of eyeliner and apply dark brown-black mascara to the upper lashes.
Use a concealer that is a shade lighter than your foundation to cover eye bags, blemishes and any imperfections on your face.
Apply a light foundation; use the applicator or your fingertips to blend the foundation well on your skin.
Choose a lipstick color that is not too bright; use sparingly and dry with a tissue. Always carry a lip gloss or lip balm to keep your lips moisturized.
Choose some items such as lipstick, concealer and eye liner to always keep in your purse to refresh your makeup if needed later.
If you have a friend who is good at doing makeup or doing hair, ask her to come and help you. The two of you can get ready together before going out to hang out.
Be careful not to put on too much makeup. You still have to show your natural beauty. Make sure the foundation you use matches your skin tone and blends evenly.

Step 3. Buy a special dress to hang out with

Casual dresses are usually tighter or shorter than what you normally wear. Have fun with the outfit and look for a dress that makes you feel attractive. Confidence will be very useful in showing your beauty.

You can find the perfect dress for hanging out at department stores like Macy's or at local boutiques. In addition, you can buy dresses online. Just search for "dresses for going out" or "dresses for going out" and you'll find lots of nice and affordable dresses that will appeal to any guy.
If you go to a store, talk to a customer service representative (or Customer Service) about the type of dress you are looking for. The attendant will be able to direct you to the dresses that may be the best you want to wear.
Go shopping for dresses at several different stores. Head to the shopping center where there are several different shops for you to explore. Don't buy something that makes you feel uncomfortable while wearing it. If you're not satisfied with a dress, don't buy anything. Keep looking until you find clothes you like.

Step 4. Go to a music show or go dancing with your girlfriends

Use your taste in music to determine your preferred venue. You'll be able to enjoy the atmosphere even more if you like the music being shown. In addition, you may be able to meet more men who might catch your eye. Find a bar or two, a club or event where you can find lots of young people.

Search the internet for music, dance or performing arts venues near you.
Invite your friends to go together. Buy tickets together and get together before you leave so you and your friends can go together.
Consider going to more than one place, just in case one place you visit turns out to be a disappointment.
Plan to come home late. You may have to stay out late to meet the guys. After a certain time in the evening, meeting the guys will be easier depending on your location. Guys will also feel comfortable approaching you when the night is a little later.

Step 5. Find a great location where the people of your interest are

Walk around the place and find a good spot, where you can watch the crowd freely and where you feel comfortable chatting and dancing with your friends.

Keep walking around until you find a good spot. You can change rooms and events over time.
If you can't find a place with people you're interested in, keep looking

Step 6. Make eye contact with a guy you are attracted to

If you're in a club, make several eye contact to let him know that you're interested in him. See if he also seems interested in you. You'll know if he's interested if he moves closer or he'll return your eye contact.

Step 7. Say something to him and be confident

Guys want girls who sound confident. You can talk to him or you can talk to his friends to start a conversation. For example, you could ask how he was that night. This is a simple and direct conversation starter that shows that you are confident.

In this method, you don't have to act like you're not interested. Playing high-priced is unlikely to work if you're in a position to get to know other people.
If the conversation doesn't go any further, that's fine. Switch and talk to another guy. As the night progresses, there will be many other opportunities to meet interesting men.

Part 3 of 3: Getting to Know Each Other

Step 1. Be confident with who you are

Write down the things that make you awesome and let him know these qualities in you. Knowing why you're a great person and not being afraid to show it will attract the attention of others.

Don't be afraid to make mistakes around him. Be true to who you really are, to your unique habits and everything that is unique to you. Relax and laugh when you make mistakes, everyone makes mistakes.
Don't act like someone you think she'll like instead of being yourself. Imagine if someone behaves in a certain way just to please you, chances are you won't find that interesting either.

Step 2. Enjoy yourself when you're with him

Let him see different versions of you. Hang out with other people who can make your best side shine when you are with him. Enjoy laughing and hanging out with other people when you're with him. Show him that you are fun, independent and show that having friends of your own is important to keep.

This step will show him that your friends are important to you and will help him know how you feel about other people.
This move can also make him a little jealous (in a good sense) and he may want to spend more time with you than before.

Step 3. Get to know her personality

Most people like to feel loved and the best way to get a guy to want you is to learn about him first. Listen to what she has to say or what others have to say about her to learn about her uniqueness and quirks. Steps can be simple things, like knowing that he likes going to all you can eat buffets or that he never misses a Saturday morning cartoon.

Tease him with the little things about him. For example, if he comes home on a Friday night, you can say something funny like "Let's go to bed early so we don't miss watching cartoons on Saturday morning."
Consider what his sense of humor is like. Once you have an idea of what he finds funny, incorporate his sense of humor into your conversation. If he feels that someone being a little mean is funny, tease himself playfully.

Step 4. Send him short messages showing that you know his personality

For example, if you forget to tease him about his habit of watching cartoons on Saturday mornings, text him that evening when you remember.

Step 5. Know his life story

Find out about his experiences and the people who shaped him into who he is today. Everyone wants to be understood and knowing someone's life story can be a form of intimacy. He will want you because there will be a kind of dependence on the love you give him.

This step will take some time and you shouldn't try to figure out her entire life story in one fell swoop. Finding bits and pieces of his life story over time is often more fun.
One way you can ask someone's life story is to ask them why they are attracted to the important parts that make up them. For example, if someone is a big football fan, ask him why he likes soccer.
Not everyone is comfortable talking about personal things. If he doesn't feel comfortable talking about it, that's fine. You have to make him feel comfortable, above all else. Usually, private conversations will happen naturally over time.

Step 6. Listen carefully, process the information it gives you

If you can begin to connect the parts of his life, you will be able to understand him on a deeper level. Combine your knowledge of his life history with his current interests. For example, you could say, "I understand why you want to be a teacher, because you said you had to take care of your younger sibling a lot when you were little."

Show him that you enjoy the conversation with him. Not only are you trying to find out about him, but you have to let him know that you enjoy what you know. It's simple, everyone likes other people who like their figure. If you can make him feel good about himself, he will crave your presence around him even more. Nod your head when he talks, maintain eye contact and smile or laugh often

Step 7. Express your differences of opinion to him

Disagreeing is a way to show a part of your personality to him and you will also be able to see the other side of his personality. Most people respect people who stick to their opinions. Explain why you disagree or ask him to explain further why he thinks that way about a topic. Sometimes people become more attracted to other people who have different opinions with them. While you're still getting to know each other, you shouldn't be afraid to be honest. He will love your honesty.

When expressing a difference of opinion, be polite. Don't forget to keep your tone of voice so that you stay friendly, not fight. Don't raise your voice.
If things get heated, consider using humor when you're arguing. Come back to that discussion later.
Once the two of you resolve your differences in the argument, you'll like each other even more.

Step 8. Accept the differences between the two of you

Continue to pursue your hobbies that he is not interested in and don't change to be more like him. Each of you is a dynamic individual being whose interests and personalities may not always be the same and that difference is a good thing.

If you can work out the differences between the two of you, for example, if he likes the Family Guy series and you find television boring, don't pretend like you suddenly think television is something cool. Remember, having your own opinion will appear attractive to other people

Tips

Being independent is an important part of this whole process. If you look spoiled or dependent on whatever guy you're trying to attract, they'll hate you for it. Being a slut is the main reason guys won't like you. Subconsciously, guys want a woman who makes them feel like they've never really mastered the girl, someone who makes them feel like they have to chase and captivate her every time they meet.
Once a guy starts talking to you, or once you start to get close to the handsome guy from your class, it's important that you know when it's a good time to leave him in a chat or look away from his sexy smile. Never talk to a man first. It's okay the first few times you want her to start paying more attention to you than the other girls at school. When you start doing new things with other guys or cut into a conversation is when a guy will start craving you because he thinks he can't have you.
Conversation is key. When you're paired with a handsome guy in biology class on a group assignment, it's important that you follow the steps to have a good conversation. First, talk about the task itself and what both of you have to do to complete it. Listen to her opinions and ideas about the task, then start moving on to other topics such as "Wait, I think you guys had a football game last night right? How did it go?" Sporting events, hobbies or work are always great conversation starters and topics like these make it seem like you're interested in what the guy is interested in.
If your class is quiet all the time, you can still be a big tease for him. Look at him and give him a nice smile or give him a seductive wink (as long as you know the right way to give him a teasing wink). When he starts looking at you, smile. This will make her feel less embarrassed about having observed you first!