Does your boyfriend seem less impressed by your attempts to seduce him? Through this guide, you'll get great tips, techniques, and advice to wow your boyfriend. But remember, do everything naturally.
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Part 1 of 3: What You Can Do
Step 1. Clean more often
If you're not usually the clean-cut type, then the easiest way to wow your boyfriend is to clean yourself and those around you more often. Start with simple things like washing the dishes right after you finish eating, lifting dirty clothes off the floor, and so on. Then, start doing other jobs like cleaning the bathroom every week or sweeping the floor every day.
- Helping him clean (like washing the dishes he uses after eating) would be better, because it would save him time and energy and of course impress him.
- By living a cleaner life, you will surprise him with your sense of responsibility.
- This holds true even if you don't live together. At some point you're bound to spend time together where one party lives, and it's important to have responsibilities when visiting someone else's.
Step 2. Make a memorable date
Take him to an unusual place instead of just having dinner and watching movies. This will show your creative side and your seriousness towards your relationship. Try going to a place you've never been.
You can always ask him to do something other than dinner, like a city tour or a museum
Step 3. Learn and explore his interests
When you're really interested in what he likes, he'll be very happy. Study things like his hobbies, movies, and music. Find out more about his interests on the internet, then start exploring them. Also ask if you can participate in activities that he is interested in. Count all dating.
If you don't know what his interests are, you have to find out! If you find it difficult to know just from observation, ask
Step 4. Show your ambition
Women like men who want to pursue their goals and want to get better things in life (and fight for them). This will keep him from worrying about the possibility of you being a loser who needs a lot of help. If you're not usually ambitious enough, try to change and start pursuing something you're really passionate about.
For example, try entering a new career, or going back to university
Step 5. Ask for and accept his advice
Consciously or unconsciously, women are usually trained to believe that no one will accept their opinion. If you ask his opinion about anything, you're implying that you feel he is quite wise and capable. But the most important thing in respecting his opinion is of course accepting and implementing the opinions or suggestions he says.
- For example, if your friend is having a problem with her boyfriend and you ask for your advice, ask your boyfriend for his opinion and advice.
- If you're having trouble at work or with your boss, talk to him and see if he can help provide a way to improve the situation.
Step 6. Improve your skills in intimate relationships
Everyone wants to see you're an expert when it comes to sex, so it never hurts to find out and try new techniques for this, for the sake of your boyfriend, not to show off.
Part 2 of 3: How To Be
Step 1. Focus on it
When you're with him, make sure you give him your full attention. Don't play with your phone when you're in front of it and spend time with it. Do not flirt with other women or dress to attract the attention of other women besides her. Look him in the eye when he talks and try to listen actively (respond when he talks and ask questions).
Step 2. Be polite to her
Acting polite and courteous is one way to respect a woman. Do small things like open the door. Stand up for him when he doesn't have to defend himself from others. Do it all without putting pressure on him or expecting anything in return. Good men do things like this because it's the right thing, not because they want something.
Women assume men want to be rewarded for their good deeds. Prove that it is wrong
Step 3. Don't speak harshly to other people
Don't be mean or insult other people. When you do this, you will give the impression that you will probably do the same to him. He will be amazed if you act like an adult and become wiser when others are rude to you or when your friends are immature.
Step 4. Help and appreciate people in need
When we value the people who need the most help around us, it shows our character as individuals. We can easily laugh at homeless people, crazy people, salesmen, waiters, and many more. If you want to show that you are a good guy, be kind to these people and help them out when you can.
Step 5. Be kind around children
Men are usually labeled as incapable of handling children. So if you can be nice around kids (even if you don't really like kids that much), your boyfriend will surely be amazed. Understand how to play with children. But remember, often kids just want to play the kind of skit you used to do when you were little. So, try to play a character that you find interesting and funny and play with the kids.
Part 3 of 3: Romantic Gestures
Step 1. Praise him
Praise him honestly about what was seen at that time. Don't give any woman a word of mouth or a cliché and overly commonplace compliment. Give compliments specifically, such as his nature, and try to praise things that he can control.
- For example, if you compliment her body shape (which she may have a hard time controlling), she will become overly concerned about what you think of her body because she feels you only appreciate it.
- Instead of praising her appearance, praise her intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, and determination.
Step 2. Make something for her
Give homemade gifts. You can find lots of ideas on WikiHow or other websites on the internet. Homemade gifts show your creativity and your feelings for them.
If you want to try making something, try making a box containing photos, videos, and tickets from your relationships and dates
Step 3. Make a compilation CD
If you're not very good at crafting, try making a CD with relevant content. Make a playlist that tells the story of how you feel for him, from the first time you met until today.
Step 4. Send flowers at the right moment
Send flowers when he is at school/university or work. Showing affection like this, in front of a crowd, will wow him.
Do variations. Send flowers other than roses
Step 5. Provide massages and other spa services
Don't just give a massage on the back. Prepare massage oil, candles, good music and give a full body massage. This will make him comfortable and of course admire you.
Step 6. Make breakfast
Or if not, lunch or dinner can be too. Making her a nice meal, especially if you don't usually cook, will not only ease her mind, but will also surprise her. You can find various recipes on this website, on various other websites, or in bookstores.
Step 7. Insert romantic notes in various places
Prepare a Post-It paper and write a short romantic message. Then, place the message in various places, including in places that are not clearly visible such as kitchen cabinets, bathroom mirrors, and so on.
Step 8. Take a camper at home
Ask him out on a date at home. Set up a camper tent and bonfire, and cook or grill foods like sausages or marshmallows. If you don't want to bother camping outside, you can do this indoors by opening the windows and turning off all the lights.
Tips
- Get to know the parents when you finally meet them. This will wow your boyfriend and his parents.
- If your boyfriend cares about your academic grades, then study hard.
- Give him a nice compliment.
- Be by his side in good times and bad. He will do the same to you.
- Tell me about a special moment for both of you. This will make him feel appreciated.
- Quit smoking. Not many people like cigarettes, and of course this is not a good thing for health.
- Be with him when you can.
- Dress appropriately for the occasion and the situation. Using perfume will also give a good effect.
- Be honest with him.
- Ask him what he likes about you.
- Believe in yourself, because that's what attracts women. Show your confidence through your posture, the way you dress, and the way you talk and handle situations. Remember, being confident is different from showing off. All of the things you read above can build your confidence.
All women want to hear good things about themselves. But if you're embarrassed to say it, you can send him a photo or a chocolate bar with the photo. This will help you express your feelings and your message.
Warning
- Don't be a standard and ordinary man. Do something special for him.
- Don't scare him either by calling him every 10 minutes.
- Do not be arrogant.
