Ending interactions with someone who has always been a bad influence on you is the right and bold move. Interested in trying it? The first step that needs to be done is to convey your need to distance yourself from him for a while. Then, when the time is right, feel free to end any interaction with him. If the two of you have only been chatting online, make it clear that you want to stop the chat, then delete the profile from your account. In the end, congratulations that you've mustered up the courage to take that step!
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Method 1 of 2: Ending a Negative Relationship with Someone
Step 1. State your new boundaries, only if you feel comfortable doing so
As contradictory as this may sound, it's actually the most effective way to communicate your feelings to him or her, as well as to avoid misunderstandings. In particular, explain to him that your relationship has had a negative effect on you. Also explain what steps you will take to take a break from the relationship.
- For example, “All this time, our relationship has always worried me. That's why, I feel like we need to keep our distance for the next few months. During those times, I won't be responding to all your messages on social media."
- Try to communicate your point in a polite but firm way.
Step 2. Express your wishes by letter, if you don't want to talk to him in person
If the person's presence makes you feel anxious or threatened, it's best not to interact directly with them. Instead, try to communicate your desire to end the interaction with him by letter.
Send the letter to his house so you don't have to meet him in person
Step 3. Delete the number from your phone
By doing so, you won't be tempted to contact them via phone or text message when you feel lonely. To remove the number from your phone, all you have to do is search for the profile in the contacts list on your phone, then tap on the “Delete Contact” option.
Feel free to do it? Whenever doubt arises, always remember that by doing so, you are actually making room for new, more positive and meaningful people
Step 4. Block his profile from all your social media accounts
This is a powerful way to stop interacting with someone, as well as to remove that person's personal information from your social media feeds. If possible, try blocking him instead of simply unfollowing him, especially since doing so will completely stop his attempts to get back to you.
Don't forget to block it from all social media accounts you have, such as from Facebook, Instagram, SnapChat, Pinterest, and WhatsApp
Step 5. Avoid the person, whenever possible
By doing so, surely a healthy distance will be built between the two of you. Plus, you'll have time to recuperate after being stuck in an unhealthy or difficult relationship. While this method doesn't always work, at least try to apply it whenever possible.
- For example, if you both always buy coffee at the same shop, try another coffee shop.
- If the two of you live together, try finding another place to live.
Method 2 of 2: Stopping Online Interaction
Step 1. End the conversation with a short, straightforward, and polite sentence
Giving rejection online is not easy, and it often ends up being awkward. However, being honest about your feelings is a much better move than just leaving them confused. Therefore, try sending a short message to thank him for the time he has taken, as well as to explain your lack of interest in him. After that, don't forget to share your wishes for his future success.
For example, “Hi Hannah, thanks for being interested in chatting with me, okay? Unfortunately, I feel that our relationship is not suitable if it is continued in a further direction. But I'm sure you can get a better figure, really, because you also seem like a very good person. Good luck!"
Step 2. Try to come up with an excuse if the person keeps asking you to chat
Understand that really, the best option you have is to be honest. However, if you don't feel comfortable doing so, try making up a polite excuse to end the conversation quickly. Also, make sure you don't give reasons that are too long and don't respond to replies.
For example, “Thanks for chatting with me, but I've been in a relationship with new people recently” or “Sorry, I have to stop using social media first because I have a lot of work to do.”
Step 3. Delete his profile from your social media accounts
If she's texting you constantly, or if you're worried about getting back in touch when she's feeling vulnerable, don't hesitate to delete her profile from your social media accounts. In fact, this is the most effective step to cut off contact with him.
