Although every woman has different preferences, there are at least some male characteristics that are generally liked by most women. Remember, understanding what women want is the key to winning their hearts. Before reading this article, make sure you are willing to commit to always being yourself in front of all the women you meet.
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Method 1 of 5: Communicating Well
Step 1. Be honest, but not overly direct
Although women like men who are honest, there are some things that you should just keep in mind; for example, there is no need to comment if his appearance looks less than perfect on that day. He's most likely having a bad or unpleasant day, and your comments will only remind him of the negative events that made his day.
Step 2. Ask him what makes him happy
Be straightforward about what specific things you need to do to keep him happy. Trust me, a relationship built on honesty and open communication will definitely last longer and be happier.
Step 3. Be understanding
Most women prefer not to have to constantly explain their feelings; that's why, they much more value men who are able to understand it well. Learn to be a person who is able to empathize and understand the things that are happening in the life of the woman of your dreams.
- Don't ignore the problem or complaint.
- Be aware of the little things that are prone to upset him.
- Be willing to go out of your comfort zone to do the things he wants.
Step 4. Be an active listener
You know that most women like to chat; that's why they want men who are willing to listen and actively respond. Remember, communication is a reciprocal process that requires both parties to actively speak and listen.
- Let him speak his mind; don't dominate the conversation.
- Listen to him without trying to give advice or work things out.
- Repeat the words in your own language; this action shows that you understand the words.
Step 5. Observe the nonverbal language
Women communicate not only through words; therefore, try to observe the signals he sends out when he is still.
- Observe his body language to understand when he likes something or just feels uncomfortable.
- Listen to her tone of voice (not just her words) to identify her mood swings.
- Look at his eyes when he smiles. A genuine smile would surely appear in his eyes; by observing him, you'll know what makes him truly happy.
Step 6. Praise him for showing you care
Don't just compliment her physical appearance! Also praise his sports skills, sense of humor, or intelligence.
Step 7. Don't take advantage of it
Women always like to be appreciated. Therefore, show your gratitude when he does something for you, no matter how small.
- Realize and be grateful for his actions.
- Show your gratitude through words and actions.
Method 2 of 5: Providing a Sense of Security
Step 1. Be a strong person for her
Remember, strength is not only measured physically! Women want a man who can validate their feelings, comfort them when they're in a bad mood, and provide them with a sense of security.
- Pay attention to your financial condition. Although money is not the only thing that matters, show that you are a person who is established and financially secure.
- Be willing to deal with situations that frighten him. Hold her hand while watching a horror movie or kill the cockroaches that roam her house.
- Help him lift heavy objects. There's no need to be a burly, muscular man; just be available to help her whenever needed.
Step 2. Do the right thing
Women like men who are willing and able to fight for the truth. This doesn't mean you have to hit or pick a fight with the guy who's bothering him; just make sure you know when it's time to speak or act if something goes wrong.
- Return food you didn't order.
- Stop bullying and/or don't do it to others.
- Sign the petition and act actively to create a better society.
Step 3. Don't go back on your word
Be a man she can rely on. If you're constantly procrastinating on doing things or breaking promises, he's more likely to doubt your commitment going forward.
Method 3 of 5: Showing Intelligence
Step 1. Know what is going on around you
Knowing the latest news will not only make you look smart in front of women, it will also help you to build a conversation with them.
Step 2. Help him learn
Helping her learn new things is a powerful way to deepen the relationship and build an attraction with her. In addition, he will also see you as a useful 'source of knowledge'.
Step 3. Share your interest with him
If he is willing to be friends with you, it means he wants to be more involved in your life. Therefore, try to share your interest with him to make him feel more involved.
Step 4. Learn about culture and art
Women value men who are masters in various fields. If the only area you're good at is sports, you're more likely to have a hard time building a conversation with him later on. Try studying other subjects such as music and art; show that you have broad interests.
Step 5. Learn to cook
Women will appreciate a man much more who knows how to prepare food (so he knows he's not the only one responsible for doing it). Even if you only know how to fry eggs, at least cook it with a happy and sincere heart so that he can feel your love in these simple dishes.
Method 4 of 5: Showing the Right Personality
Step 1. Have a good sense of humor
Be relaxed and like to joke around to improve the mood of those around you; Moreover, laughter is believed to be able to release endorphins and reduce stress levels in a person's body. Every woman also wants to feel better and happier around a man; If you can keep him laughing all the time, congratulations! Chances are you've managed to capture his interest.
Step 2. Appreciate the people around you
Don't be arrogant, cold, and don't care about other people's feelings. Show that you are not only capable of appreciating him, but also capable of showing the same amount of appreciation to those around him.
Step 3. Support his dreams and goals
Be willing to help her achieve all her dreams. Remember, it is very important for a woman to know that she has someone who will always support her and be by her side.
Step 4. Understand that humans are prone to change their minds
What he likes today, may not necessarily like him tomorrow. Be willing to accept the changes that occur to keep his happiness and comfort near you.
Step 5. Show you care about him and others
Every woman wants a man who is kind and caring; therefore, show that he is your priority by caring about the things that happen in his life. By doing so, he will surely see you as a caring and loving person.
Method 5 of 5: Maintaining Appearance
Step 1. Keep your clean and tidy
Keeping clean and tidy shows that you are not a lazy man who doesn't know how to take care of himself.
- Comb your hair so that it is always neat and pleasing to the eye.
- Trim or shave the fine hair that grows on your face.
Step 2. Wear fashionable clothes
Clean and tidy clothes will make you look more attractive in anyone's eyes. If you want, you can also modify the appearance to strengthen the characters displayed; but make sure your dress style is not so unique that it scares him and moves away.
Step 3. Take a shower regularly to keep your body clean and smell good
Remember, all women like men with good body odor. No need for a perfume bath; just make sure your scent doesn't interfere with his smell.
Step 4. Exercise regularly
Of course you don't have to be a regular member of a gym, but make sure you know how to stay healthy. Women like healthy men; therefore, make sure you don't just sit in front of the television or play games in your room all day.
Tips
- Approach her friends and ask her specific things that make her attracted to men; use that knowledge to think of the most appropriate approach.
- Using a variety of different approaches is a powerful way to find out a woman's specific desires. Generally, every woman likes a man who is able to master many fields; so make sure you don't just focus on one method approach.
- Women prefer to convey their desires implicitly instead of stating them directly to you; therefore, make sure you really pay attention to it when you guys are chatting.
Warning
- Be yourself; Don't fake actions just to get women's attention. Trust me, sooner or later he will notice.
- If the woman you like rejects your feelings, accept her decision. Don't stalk her, do things that hurt her, or force her to be your friend.
- Every woman is different; don't feel like you know best what all women want.
